How to deal with a 12 year old still pooping his pants?
The 12 year old in question is my fiancee's brother, meaning my future brother in law. I've been recently helping his mom out around the house because of recent financial problems and because she doesn't have time for the house with her new job. One of my tasks is the laundry. I knew he always had a problem but I didn't know how bad it was. He's pooping his pants once or twice a day, judging by the amount of soiled underwear I'm washing. I'm not sure what is causing it. He usually does it in private (we don't notice until we smell it) and rarely poops his pants at school or anywhere public. His mom is recently going through a divorce and the frequency of him pooping his pants has increased since then but according to my fiance, he's always had the problem. When I ask him why he poops his pants, he always just says "I don't know." I want to know if there is something I can do, not being his parent or anything. I tried talking to his mom but she seems to just be sick of dealing with the issue (She's tried bribing, scolding, taking away toys, telling him that it's embarrassing, etc) If I can, I'd want to help. It has been tough getting by financially by going through bottles and bottles of bleach and detergent and buying new underwear when old ones fall apart from too much washing. It also wouldn't be a good thing for him to still be pooping his pants, especially as he goes into his teen years and then, onto college and corporate life. It also can't be a too attractive feature and if I was his wife, I wouldn't appreciate having to wash a dozen soiled underwear every week. Help, please?
What to do about my 6 year old pooping in his pants?
I gave this same advise to someone else because Im sorry but I think he is just being lazy especially since he doesn't care to be in poopy pants. I would definately put him in diapers no questions asked and keep him in diapers until he can stay dry or mess free for atleast a week or two. He can wear diapers and he can go to school and play all he wants to. Let him play with his friends while in diapers and a tee shirt, I guarantee it wont last long and hey if he keeps on, then thats less laundry you have to do and he can continue what he wants to do diapered. There is no excuse for that kind of behavior. In my opinion, having him wear diapers would not be treating him like a baby or giving him a reason it would be taking care of the situation since he chooses not to use the bathroom. I would definately take stock in pampers size seven diapers. Don't worry about what other people think either, its not their child. You are the one that has to deal with messy smelly pants, excess laundry, as well as a mess to clean up in the house(floors, furniture etc.) Especially since you are at your wits end, put him back in diapers.
Should jock straps be worn underneath the underwear?
The first issue one ought to perceive is that men’s jockstrap underwear is of 2 types; men’s fashion jockstrap and men’s athletic jockstraps. Each have completely different a special purpose and are a unit chosen in a very different means by keeping in mind their specific characteristic traits.Athletic jockstraps are usually used for sports and alternative activities during which the manhood will get hurt. So, as to support and defend the privates, it's the most effective issue suggested garment. On the opposite hand, if the motive is creating it associate everyday wear owing to its comfort and elegance, men’s fashion undergarment is that the one for you.Well, in case you are looking forward to wearing the athletic mens jockstraps, wearing mens underwear as an addition would be a perfect idea because it would keep the manhood at comfort. On the other hand, the playful/fashionable jockstraps, you need not to have anything as an additional layer.I hope this solves your problem.
Is it better to sleep without underwear?
That depends if you want to sleep more or wake up easier. My perspective shifted when I had my first kid. My whole life I’d been told and lead to just sleep in my boxers. I never liked going commando. I’be never had problems sleeping or falling asleep. I meditate and long since learned how to put myself to sleep. Once asleep, I’be always slept very deep and very little would wake me up.All that changed 2 years ago. When we had our first child, I suddenly needed to wake up on the drop of a dime to respond to a screaming child. It is almost painful to get out of bed in the middle of night wearing nothing or almost nothing. Its cold. Your body takes forever to boot up. You dread it. It drains your emotions.So I did the opposite of sleeping naked, I slept fully clothed. Underwear but also pj pants and a t-shirt. We live in California so the nights get cold and/or we use Air Conditioning, so maybe this is different if its hot during the night. I grew up in Illinois, and the nights got cold there (especially during the winter). I always had trouble getting out of bed, and now that I sleep fully clothed I roll out and I’m alert within seconds.It’s changed my whole morning routine. Never thought of myself as a morning person. I trace it all back to your body naturally lowering your body temperature when you go to sleep. When you wake up, your body has to “warm back up” and it has to do that way more if you are naked than if you are clothed.I’m a guy, so I don’t have to worry about yeast infections. My fertility is top notch (e.g. 2 kids, each time within months of trying). Haven’t had any problems with my nether region since doing this. But my mornings are more pleasant and I don’t resent getting woken up at all hours of the night.
When you wear diapers for a long period of time, can it make you incontinent?
Q: When you wear diapers for a long period of time, can it make you incontinent?Hi Michael Saunders. Thanks for your answer-request.Wearing diapers would inherently make you no more incontinent than wearing any other form of underwear. For someone with male genitalia, you won’t start menstruating after long exposure to simply wearing panties with a pad.That said, you can become functionally incontinent over a period of time while wearing absorbent underwear. It’s possible to re-train your mind to release at the first urge your bladder sends the brain. Eventually, your bladder muscles will experience atrophy. The same goes with fecal matter. You could simply release at the first notice without care for anyone around you or any place you find yourself. Go ahead! Relax your muscles while you are in the middle of an important meeting or on date with that special someone. If it smells strongly enough, it will certainly turn heads.In fact, you don’t need diapers for this process. You could simply use your everyday underwear and make a mess everywhere. I’m certain you will get plenty of attention. Albeit the wrong kind of attention. However, it would give you a glimpse into the life of an incontinent person. Incontinent people have zero choice in where or when they make a mess. The best they can do is minimize the exposure to others around them.In all things serious, I would recommend you discuss your feelings around incontinence or desire to become incontinent with a therapist. Someone that specializes in paraphilia.People with legitimate incontinence won’t generally wish it upon anyone. It is a complete life changer. Most have a difficult time accepting the required changes and logistics in managing a life in diapers. From personal experience, between the drugs and alcohol I consumed after my crash, there were times I wish I did not wake up in that ambulance. I have since come to terms with my life and the new challenges it presented. I wish you the best in your life.
Has anyone farted and accidentally pooped their pants, other than me?
My wife, our son and I were vacationing in Croatia. We were at a restaurant where the waiter suggested a Croatian dish which consists of steak, marinated in red wine for four days, then rolled and roasted. It was magnificent. But, or should I say butt, the next day, as we drove up the coast, I began to feel “Intestinal awareness”. Being Joe Cool, I thought “no sweat”, get to the rental apartment, head for the can, and unload.Except, I had not counted on the legendary Croatian hospitality. The apartment owner was waiting for us, bearing plates of ham, cheese, warm home-made bread, and a bottle of wine. He showed us the features of the apartment, and asked us about our vacation. By this time my guts were like a cement-mixer running on afterburner. I slipped into the bathroom, intending to gently release my gas. I dropped my pants, and was half-way through dropping my underpants when my guts went into “Mount St Helen’s mode”. Gallons of high-pressure diarreha sprayed in a cone-shaped flood, over the toilet bowl, the back wall, both side walls, the floor, and of course, my clothing and I. The toilet paper roll was soaked in liquid poop.The polite conversation outside the toilet door had gone silent.I slipped out of my poop-sodden clothing, and put them, and me, into the shower. When I emerged, my wife was wearing her “Who is this strange man who has just walked into my apartment” face, and my son was rolling on the floor laughing uncontrollably.This incident happened in the city of Split, and now no family gathering is complete without someone wanting to hear about my legendary “Split shit”.
My 7 yr old daughter is soiling herself and sitting in it all day at school because she “can’t be bothered to go” what can I do?
My daughter is now 10 years old, and she has been having “accidents” since she was about 4–5 years old. She saw a pediatric urologist at that time, and after an ultrasound and some other tests, she was diagnosed with a voiding dysfunction. He gave her some medication, which was great but definitely only for short term use, and a medical watch, that vibrates every two hours to tell her to go. The science behind this was she really didn’t have much control over her muscles in that area, and this would retrain them to an extent. What I didn’t know at the time was that this voiding dysfunction was very common in children with ADHD. My daughter was not diagnosed at the time, but has severe ADHD. I wish I had her diagnosed earlier because that would have saved a lot of heartache for her and us. I always feel terrible looking back, but I digress. The thinking behind this is children with ADHD feel they have to go to the bathroom and start to get up to go but get distracted and go do something else. Well, the same thing happens with the watch. She’ll feel it go off, get up to go and then get distracted, sending her into the same vicious cycle. Now that she is in fifth grade she is embarrassed by the watch and is afraid everyone is looking at her when she gets up to go, so she doesn’t go. This has now turned into her having bowel accidents too. She was being viciously bullied for this at school, up until very recently. It has mostly stopped, for now anyway. This would make her even more self conscious and not want to get up and go, for fear of everyone watching her, same vicious cycle. She would also sit in it all day because the kids would notice she has changed her bottom, and then they would really make fun of her. So then they would make fun of her because she smells instead. Unfortunately, I still have not found out how to help her because she’s the only one who can help herself. She knows what she’s supposed to do, but she’s ten and I don’t think she fully understands. Plus, the severe ADHD and bullying doesn’t help. I’m not saying that this is the case in your daughter, but I do recommend going to see a specialist. There could be a physical problem, and if not, at least you rule that out. If there is something physically wrong, then you’re one step closer. I hope you do find a way to help her, especially before she gets to the older grades. If you do find anything out that is helping, please let me know. ; )
Why do cats like to roll in dirty laundry?
Cats like to sleep in a “nest” and very often our laundry seems like a nest to them. Cats are also attracted to the scent of people they like. Sleeping in the dirty laundry of the person they like to them is sort of like cuddling with the person.It is funny but yesterday I had an incident that happened to do with laundry or future laundry that was quite funny. My son has a cat that was very sick as a kitten and she got spoiled absolutely rotten by me because I was the one that nursed her back to health. We call her our diva because that is exactly how she acts.We foster kittens and got a new litter of seven kittens in last Monday. I have been very busy with them and have not been paying her much attention so while I was in the kitchen yesterday she came wandering in. I have a magnetic towel rack on my refrigerator and I keep a hand towel on it. She looked up at me and made sure she had my attention, reached up with her claws and hooked the hand towel, drug it down on the floor and then laid down on it. Then she looked up at me again as if to say, “Well what are you going to do about this?” I could not help but laugh. Like I said, our diva. So it is entirely possible some of their antics are just being done for attention.
Is it normal for adults to wear a diaper? Is it okay?
Yes It's ok to wear adult diapers.Today Adult Diapers are unlike the bulky products of times past. They are designed to fit comfortably under regular clothing which provides users with a reassurance that personal conditions will remain private and undetected by others.Incontinence can be an embarrassment for many people from urine leakage. Some people choose to remain at home or close to restrooms when marketing or running errands. Although incontinence cannot be cured because of medical conditions or age. Adult diapers will provide the solution and a return to unrestricted mobility for many people.Adult diapers are fabricated to be a comfortable light weight. The material is absorbent to liquid and odor providing wearers the assurance they do not need to immediately rush to the restroom. Changing diapers is easy and used diapers can be discarded in the trash, the same as children's diapers.These diapers are available with the convenience of pull-ups or with traditional tabs. The product is available in sizes that will fit most peoples body frames based upon height and waist measurements. Legs and waistbands are often gathered, to provide a snug fit, keeping those embarrassing leaks from occurring.Wearing adult diapers are an excellent choice for bed bound peoples. These products protect linen from becoming soiled, keeping peoples comfortable when bedridden or in wheelchairs. Diapers can be changed constantly keeping clients healthy, dry and happy. Other conditions such as rash and sores can be avoided with the use of this product.