Urgent: Tampon information? (Girls only please)?
I have really heavy periods and take Mefenamic Acid. I always use pads and when I get my period, I'm only usually on for 3 days. I'm regular aswell. Tomorrow I'm going on a short break away with my friend and Because I'm heavy, I'm afraid I'll leak. So was considering tampons. Are they hard to use? Do they hurt? Any suggestions a this moment would be helpful. Thanks (:
Is tofu supposed to have a nasty texture and taste like nothing?
I hate it
Embarrassing number 2 please help urgent need to check some things
I'm getting quite good at fingering myself but i just want to make sure that I am doing it right! 1. I get really dry whilst doing it, i thought most people got wet is this normal? 2. I only get pleasure when i do it extremely fast like my entire bed shakes is there any way i can get the same pleasure but do it slower if so how? 3. I have started getting a weird pain inside my vagina and the only way to ease the pain is to finger myself or rub my self vigorously 'down there' is this normal? i enjoy doing it but to ease the pain i have to stay up until 3-4am and i am no longer getting pleasure but as soon as i stop the pain comes back is this because i have done something wrong and aggravated something? 4. Is it normal that while i am fingering myself i feel like i need to wee but when i stop fingering myself i no longer feel like i need to wee is this normal???? 5. I get pleasure but i never get an orgasm why? 6. I get pleasure just when i put pressure on my vagina from and object (I mean when i wrap my legs round pool steps or something is this normal?) 7. When i finger myself sometimes my leg spasms or somthing like that is this normal? please don't be nasty
What can you text to a narcissist before you finally have no contact with them again?
So I must say I totally agree with everyone here who states not to waste your breath telling the narcissist in your life goodbye. I think that is excellent advice - the N will not believe you regardless of what you say anyway. In my situation I did tell my ex N goodbye, it simply never occurred to me not to at that moment in time. I did not have any sort of fantastic kiss-my-ass-goodbye stinger either; typical of me I was totally sincere.Factually identifying him as a narcissist happened almost a year before I walked out. I recognized word salad and gas lighting and finally understood why he never asked me about my day. I was able to see why his previous relationships had two categories: women still around and women that never saw or spoke to him again. Why he never held down a job more than two or three years. I remembered a few of his sandbox hissy fits (just like the 3 yr old who has his toy taken by some other kid) and the dark look in his eyes the few times I blantantly disobeyed him. The lies and the triangulation and the ridiculous trail of infidelities. Finally I realized why it was he literally tried to sleep with every woman he interacted with. The more I learned the more I saw he was a textbook soma narcissist.Somewhere in all the books and blogs and forums - I am certain - was the fact that a narcissist was incapable of loving another person and devoid of empathy. I have no doubt today that I must have read that dozens of times but I guess my brain just would not let that sink in. Or maybe it was my heart that would not allow it. Maybe it was the fog he had me in. I do not know how or why those facts did not lock in and register for so long, I suppose it was unconscious self preservation. The moment of clarity was stunning. Logically I knew he was a narcissist but when my brain told my heart… when the fact he didn’t love me and never had sank in… when I faced the fact that I had been played by the love of my life it was staggeringly shocking. There in that moment I knew I was done.A few days later I simply told him I was done, that I knew his secret and it was time for us to say goodbye for good. He agreed, stating goodbye was long overdue. I understood and expected he would attempt to illicit any sort of emotional reaction from me so his comment did not surprise me. I did not flinch I just silently walked out the door without looking back.
What are some characteristics of meth addicts?
Rather than the obvious signs of the homeless rock-bottom addict, perhaps it may be more useful to see some of the earlier subtle signs:-Weight loss despite junk food diet. They may appear pleasantly trim.-Bad skin-Very talkative, full of ideas. Can be intellectually interesting and engaging but at some point it feels they are talking at you more than with you.-No meaningful follow through on said big ideas.-Prone to irrational shifts into angry outbursts. These can be very quick and weird in normal conversation. -vanishing, unreliable to time commitments... Like not answering the phone all weekend, with vague explanations. In reality they were asleep for 3 days.-strange tooth decay, like along the sides of the front teeth. Teeth ground down.-hypersexual at times in risky ways-extremely clean house. Spotless bathrooms and kitchens. And yet there may be a nasty pile of junk hidden somewhere with piles of unfinished projects and found objects -spastic bird-like motions. If they are into dancing this might seem normal -rapid shifts in mood. They may go from sluggish and grumpy to quick and talkative after a short bathroom break.-weird hours in general. Like texting you at 5am with some sort of question -paranoid delusions. This doesn't have to be conspiracy theories and mind control, it could be extreme jealousy and accusations directed at you. Then it may get weirder with obsessions that various people or entities are watching them.-fascination with parts of objects.Contrary to expectations, there are severe meth addicts out there who hold down jobs and the appearance of normal life. In fact meth is a drug that can actually increase brain speed and productivity. Meth users are not stupid while high, but they end up irrational. They are dimwitted only when coming down. This makes the addiction very insidious as the addiction outsmarts the addict and the people around them in subtly sophisticated ways.
Why are people such assholes? At my job and my college, I am forced to deal with assholes all day. They are rude, unfriendly, and judgmental. What can I do to deal with it? Will it ever get better?
Aside from the general annoyance that assholes generate in others, should we just shrug them off as an inevitable part of modern life and suck it up?According to Bob Sutton - author of The Asshole Survival Guide: How to Deal with People Who Treat You Like Dirt, the science warns against it if we want to live long, healthy, happy, and productive lives.Bob says: “If you look at the range of research, if you have regular exposure to somebody who leaves you feeling demeaned, disrespected, and de-energized, you’re more prone to anxiety, depression.If you have a boss who treats you like dirt over a long period of time, there’s good studies that show you’re more likely to have heart disease and a heart attack. There’s other studies that show that you’ll have sleep problems.Still other studies that show that your relationships will start degenerating with the people in your family and your close friends. So that’s the well-being part, when people treat others like dirt, they’re less productive, they make more errors, they’re less creative, they tend to quit, they’re less willing to go that extra mile.So all sorts of evidence that although sometimes it might help the jerk to get ahead, on the whole, they’re doing all sorts of damage.”On top of all this, research shows that negative emotions are contagious. That’s right — being treated like assholes turns people into assholes.“You will become what’s making you sick!” says Bob.So it’s clear we want to decrease our interactions with assholes for a number of reasons. But where do we begin? By being aware of the prevailing atmosphere when we go into a situation where we could potentially be spending a lot of time.“When you interview for a job, look at the people at the workplace where you’re interviewing, you will become like them; they are not going to become like you.Those forces are very powerful,” says Bob