How do I tell my boyfriend I don't want to spend so much time with him anymore?
Being a 2 month old relationship - there’s Issues going on.I’m presuming that you are both in your mid-20’s?There’s at least 6 things that you said, which stand out are: I don't want to break up + I've never had anyone in my space this much + I've never stayed longer than a weekend + we have lots of time on our hands + too much reality (like sharing a bathroom + We are together 24/7.You could sit down and discuss this openly, while taking notes, but it may be too heavy for you right now, which could lead to a bad Argument.New relationships - putting Love/Lust & Sex to the side for this purpose, They may start out with Equal or UN-equal Expectations, Familiarity, Intimacy (outside of sex), Time & Space SHARING … that may “back-fire” on the relationship; if or when not enough time is allowed for the New relationship to Grow Naturally, or it may SUFFOCATE.You may also be Feeling that it’s MOVED Too Fast and it’s Too Much for you. He may feel completely different, like it’s definitely where it needs to be at, because he’s Comfortable, … but obviously you are not, otherwise, you would be on Quora asking in the 1st place. Sometimes, you may feel that You are losing your Self-identity, Freedom, Personal Space, REM Sleep, etc.ONE way to create SPACE & DISTANCE is this - Go get a Calendar.Start Filling in Dates, when YOU will, AND, may NOT be available.Plan to spend more time with your other good Friends. Write in Dates in Calendar.Add a Female sport or practice event - like girl’s volley games, or Yoga, or any type of Event, where HE can not “insert” himself into.Keep adding your OWN Activities or Events into the calendar, until you have Created the Perfect Amount of Time & Space for Him, that “works” for you.Plan 3 months in advance - scan each Month of the 3 months and then Hand the Copies to Him, Next time he comes over.He may be surprised, but just say that YOU, as a Grad Student MUST Plan out your Family/Friends, Home, School, and Personal Time, Duties & Responsibilities, While making SPECIAL Time & Space for HIM. He’s a lucky guy, because you care enough to open yourself up here.This IS making Time for Yourself. Not a tweet or text or email. It’s printed on Paper … that gives it Your own VOICE. Can U hear me now?You suppose to be a Grad student, Dude … Now, Act Like One, Already.You’re Both Welcomed. LMK how it works out.
What do I do when my boyfriend says he doesn’t want to talk right now?
If you want to talk to him, but he does not want to talk, you shouldn’t try to force the conversation on him.If the issue is not time sensitive, you might find a nice compromise by requesting that you have a discussion at a later time, and possibly just schedule it in the calendar tentatively. If you have a lot of things you feel like you have to say, it might help you feel better to write it down and organize your thoughts. This will also help your scheduled discussion proceed more quickly.If the issue that you wish to discuss with him is time sensitive but not urgent, you can still do the previous but with a discussion scheduled for significantly earlier. Scheduling it for the next morning is not unreasonable if you feel like it is likely that his time will free up then. If there is no free time in his calendar between now and the point of expiration of the issue, you should request that he free up time for you, and if he refuses to do that, you should make it clear to him how important this issue is to you, and maybe request a specific time block.If the issue you wish to talk about is both time sentitive and urgent, then you probably have to consider how relevant his input is. If he doesn’t want to talk to you, and his input is not relevant to your decision making, then you should probably just proceed without his input. You can get him to sign off on it physically if he is the type of person who is liable to forget that he chose to not provide any input.If the issue is time sensitive, and urgent, and his input is required, and he doesn’t want to talk to you, then it is important to make clear to him how important this issue is to you, and express that the issue is time sensitive, and be specific about what the deadline is. At this point, it is likely he will realize that he mis evaluated either the deadline or the importance, and give attention to the issue, or he will take the time to clarify to you that the thing he is doing is also urgent and time sensitive and he can not attend to your issue. If he does neither of these things then I’m afraid you will have to proceed without him, and schedule a discussion to discuss his prioritization and attentiveness to issues that you find urgent and time sensitive.
Should I tell my boyfriend about my menstrual cycle?
Some great answers but let me add a few of my thoughts.Menstruation is a mystery to men. They know it exists, they know its scary, they know its effect will strike them any moment unawares. But they don't know how to deal with it because they don't know what exactly it is.Different women react differently to their menstrual cycles. Some women don't even notice its presence while some others can't even get up from their beds. Some eat upto seven cupcakes, while some others go horse back riding.Your boyfriend has the right to know what you will turn into those few days so that he can learn to deal with you. He may already know how to help women in general but he needs to know how to help you!!It will help both of you. He can be prepared for the mood swings, the monstrous hunger, the emotional outbursts, the sudden crying and whatnot and you can be taken care of, relaxed, even pampered if you are lucky enough!Instead of him guessing and assuming the worst about you and making him walk on tip toes around you this time of the month, be open! Let him understand what you're going through. It will get you both closer and you can make those dreaded days special!!
Boyfriend forgot anniversary and birthday?
I don't think anniversaries are that important, personally, especially if you're not married. Unless you've been together for years? But forgetting your birthday...he should remember that. It's also unreasonable of him to want to break up with you because you got angry. He should have apologised and tried to make it up to you. Try to talk to him about it. Say that you felt hurt and upset. If he doesn't really care that he made you feel like that and doesn't try to make it up to you, or make you feel better, leave him.
He had a calendar of half naked women!?!?
Okay so here is the story, yesterday I went to my boyfriend’s house and he wasn’t there. He was out with his friend that I dislike a whole lot, but anyways, when I went into his room, I found a calendar of half naked women hanging on his wall. I thought it was very disrespectful, so I ripped it up and threw it on his bed. He said that I was overreacting and that I shouldn’t have, but his room is like my room and I did not want that in there, then he called me a bad word in Spanish. Was I overreacting? I’m not talking to him right now because of it and I do not plan on calling him either!
Would you make a nude calendar of yourself for your husband?
I totally would!!
Should I be worried if my boyfriend doesn't want to give his Facebook password for me to check?
Two different answers.What is he like? Has he been promiscuous in the past? If not, what are you worried about? I don’t know if I would want my girlfriend going through my Facebook, but it has absolutely nothing to do with CHEATING on her or anything of the sort. I have sensitive information on there, some corporate related that really could get me SUED if it gets out. It’s not so much that I don’t trust her with keeping some of those things a secret (Who would she even tell, anyway) but it’s just generally good practice not to let anyone see.Why don’t you trust him? Do you sense something wrong? Usually, if someone is cheating, there are other telltale signs. You don’t necessarily have to CHECK HIS FACEBOOK just to figure it out. If something feels off (ie. he acts differently, his schedule changes, you catch him in a lie, etc.) Confront him. Don’t become the needy, whiny, restrictive girlfriend, because those girls always end up losing in the end. If he’s all good and everything checks out, RELAX. He loves you. If not, ditch the bitch and find a better guy to hitch.