You’re having a conversation and you suddenly forget what your talking about. What is the reason for it?
I have an undiagnosed attention deficit disorder; I was born with it and it runs in my family. I will get to talking about something and I usually do fine until something interrupts my train of thought. I often have to ask what I was talking about. It is a good way to find out if they were listening to me. As I am approaching my eighth decade (70 years), I lose my train of thought more often. Here is some more information on the process:https://www.today.com/health/mem...
How can I be more personable when having a conversation?
Have Good Opinion of PeoplePeople are made up of both good and bad. No one is completely Good nor Bad. When we see a person, we see a person in it’s totality, and a person is beautiful because of this duality. “Beauty is when one judges not” this is not to say we don’t evaluate people, it simply means we accept others as the way they are. Neither good nor bad.2. Have Good Opinion of Your SelfWhen you do not like or accept your “Self” as the way you are, both “Good” and “Bad”, it simply means you don’t love your “Self” This doesn’t mean you don’t improve your “Self” rather it means because you love your “Self” so much you want to up grade. For example, when you know how precious and expensive you are (I have read somewhere that our body parts worth lots of money), you will take every care and effort to take good care to your “Hardware” (which is your body or health) and “Software” (which is your mind). And when you love and accept your “Self” (Both Good and Bad) people will then be able to love and accept you. Start exercising your body and mind.3. Have Good Opinion of ThingsWhen you have a positive outlook in life you will exude positive vibes and people like people who could lift them up. You will attract people to you when you see things from a beneficial, useful, forward-looking perspective.4. Be UnderstandingWhen you are understanding it causes people to connect with you. People like people who can understand them, let them speak, they will feel less frustrated.5. Be InterestingHave a bag full of interesting topics in your head that will intrigue people’s curiosity and interest such as current affairs, new insights, jokes, past experience, knowledge, etc… It pays to be well read and well experience.6. Be kind and helpfulPeople will remember you when you have made a difference/contribution in their life.________________________________________________________I believe there are more to add to this listicle, continue to add to it. Smile and be curious or interested in other people.
Can you tell if someone is having a secret conversation on messenger?
Only if you log into their messenger. When you can log in on your phone. Go to secret convo. Turn it on and then with the other device accept it. Once your on there. And u go to your device and under secret convo it says all the devices logged in. once all that’s done. Go to the other device. Turn secret convo OFF. Go back to your device and go to secret convo. Under that in devices or whatever you should only see your device. IF that other phone in secret convo turns on. At any point after u turn it OFF You see a extra device on your phone under devices in secret convo. Then u know it’s on.the only other thing is……logged into the other persons messenger on your phone. Touch the search bar. What ever bubble faces pop up first is the person that persons been talking to secretly or not I THINK. I’m half way through testing this. But I’m pretty sure. But u have to be logged into the other persons messenger.well hold up there might be another way to tell.you can’t send a secret convo to someone who’s not your friend. I don’t think. I’ve tried and it didn’t work.So, when u go to the person(a friend) u wanna secret convo too. I think once u hit send it will say it won’t work or it won’t let u type anything at all IF THAT OTHER PERSON HAS secret convo OFF. TEST all this before u do anything. One way of knowing is send a secret convo when your near them. Or grab their phone and see if it’s turned on.
I'm not good at having conversations, please help?
Okay, this is totally normal. Some people have a problem with what to say. Here are a few hints though. Keep whatever stories or experiences you are sharing to less than a two minute retelling. You can always expand more if the person asks; Turn the conversation back to the other person where you can, such as, “What do you think?” or, “How about you?”; Try to let your conversation partner do half of the talking, with a natural blend of questions and answers; Don’t focus on one topic for too long, and if your talk gravitates to another subject - let it. You can even say to the person, "Hey, I'm sorry, I ran out of things to say!" or "Im actually really nervous right now idk why" People like when other people are open and warm to them.
How can I be having conversations while I'm sleeping?
I've always been a heavy sleeper, but recently its gotten a little scary. My husband wakes me up in the morning to tell me he's leaving to work, and we have a short conversation, but I wake up later and remember nothing. I always thought maybe he exagerrated but recently my friend came over and I was so tired I fell asleep on the couch. Later I woke up and she mentioned something about her friends Jessica's job. I told her I didn't know what she was talking about and she went on to tell me that we had a conversation when I was lying down. She said I looked tired but I wasn't asleep when she was talking to me and I was responding in short answers like yes, no, I don't know. This totally freaked me out, we had a laugh about it but it got me wondering. Is this normal?? Why does it happen, is it like a form of hypnosis or something? I'm wondering what state of mind I"m in, and how can I comprehend a question and answer it and have no memory of it when I wake up.
What is a "coldersack"? I overheard some people talking about living in one, and I wondered what it was.
They mean "cul de sac." It's French. And it's another name for a circle, where the road dead-ends and several houses ring the bulbed end of the road.
How can I have normal conversation?
Normal conversation, as in the banal "how's the weather?" conversation that is practically useless to both people? Don't aim to have normal conversation. Aim to have interesting, positive, and stimulating conversation. Trust me, it's more fun for you and the other person. There's a book called "How to talk to anyone", which was a modern take on Dale Carnegie's "How to win friends and influence people" . The book has an interesting idea that in the first few seconds of an interaction, people don't really remember what you said, but they do remember how you said it. Think about a moment when you met someone for the first time. Can you remember what you guys said to start the conversation? Amazingly, I had no idea what our first words were. What does that mean for you? It means that your first words are not as important as you think, AS LONG AS you deliver it with confidence and a good mood. However, make sure whatever you talk about is generally positive(you could give a compliment, you could ask if they know good places to eat, but DO NOT COMPLAIN about something, get it?). There are actually a ton of things to talk about. After the initial "small talk", find some simple things that you both have in common(builds rapport). Maybe you guys like the same color, or the same food(talking about food is always fun). After that, it helps me to ask some light questions to gage how I could add value to their life, perhaps through my experiences, skills,friends. Small talk is well and good, but as an adult, it helps me to be focused and purposeful. Conversation tip: Some people have a hard time listening. One thing that you could try is to repeat some of the last words of a person. For example, if a person says that he tried dance classes for fun, you could reply "Dance classes?", and they will probably tell you more. And from there, you can ask them what their favorite dance is and several other questions. Keep it lighthearted, don't go into developmental psychology unless you think they would be interested in talking about that :)
Could i say i digressed a conversation?
'To digress' means to go off topic, to start talking about something else. You can't say, 'to digress a conversation'; the verb 'to digress' is intransitive. You could say, I suppose, 'we digressed FROM the conversation'. Although it's more common to use the verb digress in progressive tenses; we were digressing, we are digressing, we will be digressing, etc. If two people are supposed to be having a conversation about a certain topic, say, and they end up talking about something else. A person could say, 'We're digressing, let's get back to what we're supposed to be discussing'. Digressing is the correct verb to use. However, it is also slightly formal. A more colloquial way to say the same thing would be 'to go off topic' or 'to get sidetracked'. Good luck.
Why do i forget conversations i've had?
This is definitely not an expert answer I am giving.... I do this sometimes and have found lately it has gotten worse as well... My biggest problem is the lapse of time it happened in... I can talk to someone today and tomorrow I will think I talked to them days ago... But, I also don't sleep well and I wonder if that does not have a lot to do with it... I feel like my brain cells have vanished... I as well as you can remember numbers and phone numbers from years ago... credit card numbers, band account info, ect... but, I will forget what I have told someone or that I made plans with them.. maybe it is a from of early dementia or alzheimers.... I hope not because I am too young to be facing this problem right now.... I don't think age has much to do with it though... I once had a friend go to the Dr. because he was not thinking right and couldn't remember things... His Dr. told him to eat a banana!! Seriously, that is what he said... potassium.... I laughed at the time, but bought banana's yesterday..... lol
My period was due yesterday, but currently having clear moisture from vagina?
well you could be pregnant. i remember i was scared at first because i did take a test the day i missed my period and had cramping. i also had 2 miscarriages before so thats why i was scared, but light cramping in early pregnancy is normal because your uterus is stretching. and about the clear stuff...i really don't remember if i had that in the beginning of pregnancy, but you do leak more discharge during pregnancy. it gets heavier the further you are. like im 40 weeks today and sometimes it feels like i peed myself but i know its just discharge and i've asked my midwives about it..totally normal. so if you really want to know if your pregnant just buy a good test..it should come out with the right answer!