Who was wrong in this situation? Me or my gf?
I was on vacation with my family. Unfortunately my girl couldn't come the whole time because she didn't have the time off at work.but she was going to come down the back half of the week. So the first night my parents, cousins, aunts and uncles were going to a bar to see a specific band. It was at about 10PM and I went with them. My gf texted me and said she was going to bed soon. So when I got to the bar I had no service inside. I walked outside and texted her and said "hey babe I don't have any service in here and I know you said you were going to bed soon so I am going to say goodnight I love you now incase I don't get your texts. Ill talk to you in the morning" When I texted her the next morning she was pissed and said she couldn't believe how I acted. I was so confused as I thought I did the right thing. She said I should've stayed in and texted her or went to a different bar (the band everyone wanted to see was at this specific bar). Then she said she wasn't coming down for the second half of the week because of how I acted. Can someone please give me an opinion on this because I really don't think I did anything wrong and especially not bad enough for her to not come on the vacation anymore. Let me know if you think I did anything that would merit her getting that pissed.
Am I in the wrong in this situation at all with this guy I was seeing?
There's nothing that stands out to me as horribly 'wrong'. I think that there were times where you could have communicated better. Even if you jokingly told him to 'shut up', he was clearly offended and if it had been me, I would have apologized or elaborated so he understood, rather than just left it and assumed things were over. But that's pretty much the only thing I would have thought was detrimental to your relationship with him. It seems there were times he got upset or offended and you didn't make much effort to apologize or communicate about the issue (same with the New Year's Eve situation when he got annoyed). But it's also not your sole responsibility to initiate communication either. He closed off and stopped being as talkative with you rather than telling you why he was upset or the way he felt. Closing off communication is detrimental to any relationship and it seems that what happened was fair. He closed off and stopped talking to you, you let him and someone else caught your attention. There's no need to feel guilty, I would just recommend opening up communication more in your current relationship if you find you and him are doing the same thing. If one of you gets annoyed, talk it through objectively without yelling or fighting and don't assume issues will disappear if they are just ignored over time. Communication is key. Best of luck!
Am I in the wrong in the situation?
My boyfriend's best friend use to date my friend/coworker (not very close & years ago 2012- early 2014 now). They had a very messy breakup. He then started a relationship with a new girl that my friend/coworker says he cheated on her with. For this reason I never became friends with his new girlfriend (even though we see each other A LOT it's literally my boyfriends BEST friend of more than 12 years) until about one year ago I decided to, to make things less awkward and my life easier. Turns out she doesn't know anything that happened and doesn't know there was a time where his past relationship with my friend overlapped. I didn't tell her, because I don't get involved in people's relationships like that. Recently they became engaged which infuriated my old friend/coworker (we aren't very close anymore). She then decided to delete me from any way of contacting her and it's clear I'm on her s**t list now, for becoming friends with his now fiance. Am I in the wrong? Should I have kept a vendetta against his current girl in honor of my old friend? I thought I was being mature and burying the hatchet, but maybe I'm wrong?
What's wrong with this situation?
The displacement, a vector, cannot be greater than the corresponding scalar, the distance. At most the magnitude of the displacement can equal the distance traveled, but that's all. For example: if I walk 7 mi north, the distance S = 7 mi. And the displacement is 7 mi north, in which case the distance and the magnitude of the displacement are equal. But if I walk 3 mi north, then 4 mi east, my distance is still S = 7, but now my displacement is 5 mi north east. In which case the magnitude is less than the distance.
I lost a friend, was I wrong in this situation?
So we were hanging out for a few months, I’m 19 & they’re 21. I had issues going on and they came over and we’re there for me. I genuinely cared about them but one day they texted me asking if I could come by & we could do something because they were going through stuff with their family. I didn’t get back to them because I wasn’t okay mentally myself, how could I be there for someone when I am not even good myself?! I wasn’t being fake, and I told them this, & they blocked me. I have to put myself first &a if someone doesn’t like that then that’s their problem. What do you think??
Was what I did wrong in this situation (description)?
You showed her you are a kind and empathetic person. Good for you. One of the hardest things to do is to provide comfort to someone who has experienced a death. Most people shy away. They are afraid they will say the wrong things, or not knowing how to act, or are afraid of their own fear of loss. This is natural, although not very helpful. You went past the fear, and moved onto a concrete plan of assistance. Please don't worry yourself any further. You acted in a human and humane way. If she can't appreciate that, then there is something lacking with her, not you. And as for you wanting her to like you? That too is natural and normal. Rest your heart, you did good.
What should I do when I am in a difficult situation and I am wrong in it?
I’m assuming you mean that you are the ‘guilty’ party in a situation. Possibly discuss it with your closest friends and decide what course of action to take. Maybe even an authority figure whom you respect. Or a counselor. Just make sure you get some perspective on this. If someone has been wronged, this should involve a plan how to make things right for them too. Whatever the consequences, you should be able to handle them.If this was by mistake, don’t beat yourself up too much about it. If it was on purpose however, this calls for some serious introspection. Where is your life going? And where will you end up if you continue down this path? Is that really where you want to be? The fact that you have asked such a question gives me hope that you will take the right decision.
Who is was wrong in this situation, mom or daughter?
The daughter cooked dinner for herself and her mom, and promised that she would wash the dishes afterwards. But she has these pink latex/rubber gloves that she puts on her hands while washing dishes because she doesn't like getting her hands dirty. - she also paid for them with her own money. Her mom, without asking her, used her gloves to clean a gas spill in her car and ruined; she (her mom) threw them away. The daughter was going to wash the dishes like she said she would, but she couldn't find her pink latex/rubber gloves, so she asked her mom what happened to them and her mom said, "I used them and threw them away." So the daughter got mad at her mom because she knows that she absolutely hates getting her hands dirty and that's why she bought the latex/rubber gloves. I know this is petty, but who was wrong?
Depressed with our living situation, am I wrong?
My husband and I have been married for over a year and half. Ever since we have been renting out the basement at his sister’s house. I was never comfortable and never felt at home. For example the laundry room is right in front of our bedroom, I can’t tell you how many times, his sister husband has walked down and saw me in underwear, to use the kitchen I have to wait for them to finish because they have kids and they need to get them to bed, I can’t buy a lot of food because we only get on shelve on the fridge, it’s many little things that after a year and half it’s driving me crazy. I always liked to have my space and my privacy that’s the person I am and I feel like being married and not having our own place it’s very frustrating. My husband understand but doesn’t seem too interested in moving out. There’s always something, we need more money, we need better credit, we need to wait for the market to go down. The last straw was his sister got an aupair, so now there’s 7 people living in this house, it’s one more person coming downstairs to do laundry and I’m at a point that it’s making me question my marriage because I’m so depressed at this house, I spent the entire day working and was happy and all, as soon as I walked through the door, I started to get depressed and negative and I feel that it’s hurting my mental health. Am I wrong here? Am I the only one that think that couples should have their own place and be by themselves in the beginning of their marriage?