Was I wrong to hit my mom back?
I’m a sixteen year old girl and my mom and I had an arguement that led to my mom hitting me. In defense I began to hit her back and I grabbed her hair. I stopped after I realized what I was doing and apologized. My mom then proceeded to hit me then threatened to kick me out of the house. She then began to tell my the whole house that I had pulled her hair and attacked her. I felt wronged so I told her that it was self defense and I wouldn’t have done it if she hadn’t attacked me first. I was then told to shut it and was slapped multiple times by her while being asked if she should get hit when she disciplines her kids. She then made me kneel to her and make me aplozgize while kneeling which I did. Now everyone in my house is looking down on me after hearing my mom’s one sided story. Was I wrong for hitting my mom back? Did I cross the line or did we both? Did my mother’s discipline go too far or was she right to discipline me?
I gave a .01cent tip, was I wrong?
Wow, I have never heard of anyone ever being treated so poorly in a restaurant like that. As for your tip, I think that it may have been best to leave no tip at all. If I'm not mistaken, a tip is something that you give to the waiter/waitress when you are very satisfied with their service. When this is not the case, a tip is not left, as you do not feel that it is deserved. A .01 cent tip is more of an insult than a sign of dissatisfaction with the service. Although under those circumstances I understand why you did it (you were probably quite angry at the time), I do think that it may have just been best to leave no tip at all. EDIT: Trying to be a considerate and understanding person is justified in any situation - it is something that most people try to achieve to varying degrees of success. Your point about the waitress perhaps having a reason behind her neglectful attitude does fit the attitude you try to practice, but to be honest, is this really a relevant point in this context? The waitress' job is to give customers prompt, courteous service. That is what she get's paid to do. If she impresses a customer with her service, she receives a tip. Whether or not she was having some kind of issues in her personal life is irrelevant to the relationship between her, the waitress and you, the customer, and is not something that you should be worrying about. Her personal life is her business, and if she lets it interfere with her work and affect her performance, the reaction to that from customers is her responsibility - she should improve, not you. You try to be considerate and understanding, but realise this - you are taking on conciliatory, somewhat self-damning attitude based on the supposition that she had some kind of reason to be neglectful. If you had evidence to support that, it would be a different story, but you don't. You can only behave based on the information that you know for certain, which is exactly what you did.
Am I wrong for this?
Ive worked at this fast food restaurant far almost a year now. Im planning on finding another job soon but before I leave I was going to beg my manager to promote me to assistant manager just so it'll look good on my resume?
Was I wrong to leave him?
Relationships based on mutual understanding and trust. Beach of anyone can jeopardize relationship ties. There is nothing right or wrong. You felt the need and you knew what was the best thing to do for your sake.Men seek sexual accomplice , the same mentality friend to live and abide by , and want to stay free of responsibilities. You acted in your best interests and if relationship doesn't works as expected than it's best to move ahead without wasting time ,energy and resource.An unsatisfied or one sided promises won't make responsible relationship. Assess the situation, don't be docile, act on your terms, and if things don't go as planned or you still remain unsatisfied, then forget the past and move into the future for a new start.Giving an advice is easy, accepting it is hard, you know what's best for you and what serves you purpose and meaning relationships count as an asset rather than a liability should be understood. There is nothing good or bad in life, everything is consequential, not everyone you meet in life is meant to stay there. No matter how hard the past, you can always begin again, but this time more considerate and intelligent in choosing options.
Was I wrong for invading his privacy?
Yeah, you know you were wrong to go through his things. I don't really see how you could think otherwise.Your defense seems to be that you uncovered important information regarding his sex life that you were entitled to know-and it is true that he should have told you what he was doing. But, there were other ways to protect yourself other than snooping around. You could have asked him to get tested, for one, before consenting to sleep with him. You could have insisted he wear a condom even if you were on the pill. You could have simply not slept with him until he put your mind at ease as to his fidelity. Or you could have just decided not to sleep with him period since you've only been with each other a month. If he had objected to the testing or the condom, that should have been a red flag to you to really think hard about whether or not you should.So, yes, it was wrong. You could have left when it went south, apparently you had enough feedback from him where you were suspicious enough to prompt you to want to go through his things without his knowledge. If you were that skittish, then simply terminating the relationship or insisting he talk with you before you went any further into the relationship should have been the way to go. Not snooping around.
Was I wrong for feeling used by this girl?
I casually dated a girl on and off for a year. She started going through rough financial times and she asked me for money. I helped her and she started ghosting and flaking on me. When I addressed she said she was depressed and wants to be alone. Eventually after me arguing with her saying that I don’t feel appreciated, she dumped me for good claiming that I’m hanging shit over her head too much. I gave her money to overturn her eviction notice; I saved this bitch’s life!!! I didn’t mind doing so cuz she invested in me, bought me gifts ,dinner and the like. All I wanted to do was continue seeing her. Is it too much to ask that she doesn’t flake w/o a word or ghost me. What’s the lesson here? Not asking for sympathy. I know I fucked up.
Was I wrong for calling the police on my bf?
My bf and I have been arguing a lot lately. I keep catching him in lies and we havent been getting along too well. His work is slow so he hasnt been contributing financially to the house. However he is doing a lot of home improvements. Last night we got into an argument and I told him to stay across the room from me because I was afraid of him. He has been showing signs of violence, grabbing my arm and pulling me down the stairs, preventing my from leaving by blocking the door, pushing me, talking bad, mimiking me, belittling me etc. Well during the argument which was about him lieing to me again he ran at me and I ran into the next room. I told him to back off or I was going to call the police. He said go ahead and call and had me against the wall and was screaming at me. He didnt hit me but I was afraid and called 911, but hung up b4 they answered. They sent an officer anyway. He didnt get arrested, now blames me. Was I wrong, did I overreact? He thinks I was totally wrong
I lost a friend, was I wrong in this situation?
So we were hanging out for a few months, I’m 19 & they’re 21. I had issues going on and they came over and we’re there for me. I genuinely cared about them but one day they texted me asking if I could come by & we could do something because they were going through stuff with their family. I didn’t get back to them because I wasn’t okay mentally myself, how could I be there for someone when I am not even good myself?! I wasn’t being fake, and I told them this, & they blocked me. I have to put myself first &a if someone doesn’t like that then that’s their problem. What do you think??
Am I wrong for wearing women's panties?
No you are not wrong at all.And dont listen to the people who say you are gay for wearing womens panties or lingerie or skirts, a bra, high heels or whatever you really feel you want to wear.Enjoy what you want and be perfectly you in whatever it is you wear. Its just material that covers your body after all.To all those who say this behaviour is gay:This statement or common belief about men who crossdress being gay is completely wrong.Gay men prefer to wear highly recognised brand name mens underwear because other gay men are not going to be attracted to a man in womens clothing because they are looking for a man. They usually want nothing to do with anything femanine.If you are referring to men who dress completely as women and date men then this is not gay either, this is called transexual as they really believe they were born in the wrong sex and should have been a woman to start off with.Studies have shown that 98% of men who wear womens clothing, lingerie, panties, whatever are straight heterosexual men who date and sleep with women. 2% were unattached and single and said they didnt sleep with anyone or felt Asexual.In fact 100% of Gay men surveyed have never worn womens clothing. There is almost enough evidence from the studies to say that if you dont wear or refuse to ever try womens clothing, then you must be gay.