Is it wrong of me to hit my friend?
Obviously, if you think about it a lot, you KNOW it’s not okay. Just because she’s accustomed to people hitting her as a child doesn’t mean that action is acceptable. Neither of you should be doing it, frankly. That’s like asking is it okay if the dog bites you over and over, if she looks sorry later. Every nail you pound into a piece of wood leaves a hole forever, even if you back-track, pull the nail out and try to fix the problem. Your friend needs you building her up, not reminding her of what she went through.
Was I wrong to let him hit on me?
good girl for not letting him do that. i've been in a similar situation like that before but i didn't let him do anything to me. don't let him use you.good decision.but in my situation, when i didn't let him kiss me,he started to hate me.
My friend always gets hit on but i don't..?
Well, there could be two answers to this: 1) It sounds like you're saying that she wears more revealing clothes and you do not. Sadly, more skin will always get more attention--but the bad kind of attention!!! Most guys aren't willing to take risks, and those types of guys are usually sleezeballs lol I have a feeling that when a guy sees the two of you together, he wants the both of you; it's just easier to get her attention first because she's "opening" herself up more. And there's really nothing wrong with that, but I'd stick to dressing the way you have been :) Also, it has nothing to do with the way you wear your hair, how tall you are, etc. Beauty comes in many forms and guys appreciate that. 2) When you're around her, you're feeling insecure so you don't hold your head so high and you don't ooze confidence--and ask anyone, there is NOTHING more alluring than confidence! So just remember that you are good looking (which is definitely NOT a cocky thing to say. It's a healthy thing!) and things will look up :)
I hit my best friend in the face... how to move on?
It was Mardi Gras this weekend, and my best friend and cousin were in town visiting. I had far too much to drink and we ended up in a strip club early Sunday morning with some of my best friends college buddies from out of town. My cousin is kind of shy and was sitting off by himself not being very chatty. Around this point I black out. Everything else I can only recall in bits and pieces. I heard some of these guys talking bad about my cousin and it made me really angry. The next thing I know we're all outside, my best friend is yelling at me about how I was trying to fight everyone and out of control. I try to explain myself, and he starts to mock me by making fun of the way I talk and the words I use. Like I said it's all blurry but I felt so betrayed that he didn't have my back and then when he made fun of me that way I just snapped and hit him on the cheek. I was drunk so I really doubt it did much physical damage, but I know it's going to affect our friendship, at least for a while. The worst part is that they both left the next day before I could sit down with the guy and resolve things. My cousin, being the shy one and not wanting to get in the middle, definitely won't intercede for me. I've apologized numerous times and I feel so terrible that I can't even focus on my studies. I just wish I wasn't so impulsive and drunk, I never would have done that. Does anyone have any advice for moving on and learning from the situation?
If a "friend" was hitting on your wife what would you do?
If it was my wife, I'd give him $100 and say thanks for taking the psycho off my hands.
Is it wrong to hit a parent, when they hit you?
My mother would occasionally hit me.I was really a relatively good kid and never got into any serious trouble. I wasn’t someone who would ever ‘talk back’ or argue with my parents — I knew better.I had a good mother. Mostly, she was loving and understanding. However, every now and then, she’d lose her temper and she’d ‘lash out’. When she did, it really, really hurt. She tended to punch and it didn’t matter where her punches landed. I always ended up badly bruised. This didn’t happen often; usually around once a year or so and it was always because she was unduly stressed. It was rarely about me.When I was around 15, an elderly aunt came to stay. She was very demanding and I could see my mother’s stress levels rising. One evening, after dinner, I had said I was going out to meet one of my friends. She was in a foul mood and said that I wasn’t allowed to go. I politely reminded her that I’d made this arrangement the week before and that she’d said it would be fine.I saw her fists clench and ‘that look’ on her face and she started to lunge towards me. I said very loudly, “if you hit me again, this time I’m going to hit you back”.She stopped in her tracks. Her face was red with anger. I said, “I mean it mum — I will hit you back”. She stormed out of the room.After that, she never hit me again.Is it right to hit a parent back if they hit you? I really don’t know. What I do know is that I wasn’t going to allow my mother to hit me again.