Was it crazy to throw away my girlfriend's shoes without asking her or telling her?
We are both 5'6". I want her to dress more casual because she tries to be a bombshell and a diva all the time,. She bought some really high heels, probably six inches and wore them to a family party. I was embarrassed being 6 inches shorter to her, I remember my eyes were level with the bottom of her chin and I had to look up to talk to her. When I was at her apartment I went inside of her bedroom and took her high heels, put them in my back pack, and ended up throwing them away at a dumpster. She hasn't said anything yet, I don't think she's noticed yet. Was this a crazy thing to do? I've been thinking she'll flip out if she found out, but I don't think she'll ever know for sure it was me if I don't admit it.
What should I do if my girlfriend starts throwing objects at me after a fight?
So basically me and my girlfriend had a very heated argument which eventually turned into a fight. So what I did is just ignored her and I was leaving the house when all of a sudden she got very angry and out of control and started throwing objects at me, like she went crazy. I could have gone blind because one of the objects was about to hit my eye. How do you think I should deal with this?
My girlfriend is moving away!!?
The old adage of if you love something, set it free certainly applies here. If you two are meant to be, then it will happen...but you can't expect her to throw away an opportunity of a life-time though. Let her go, but make your feeling known and see what happens, but give her space.
My girlfriend is away but don't miss her while she is gone?
My girlfriend is away for 3 weeks and its almost been two weeks. I find myself not having the feeling of missing her. Is this normal for some people or a sign that I might not have much feelings for her? Also, we have not talked in these two weeks because she is out of the country.
Should you throw away old things from an ex-boyfriend?
Things didn't work out after a two year relationship, but I still care about him in a friendly way. He, however, completely cut me out of his life which I suppose is understandable. I have a new boyfriend now, who I care about very much. He seems so right for me right now and things are getting serious. A few days ago I came across a few letters from my ex, and the teddy bear he gave me. The bear has his name stitched onto it, as he said it's "for me to hug when he's away". I feel kind of bad about parting with these things because, even though I don't love him like I did, they're memories. And I treasure them nevertheless. I just know it'll make my current boyfriend feel weird, knowing I kept things like that from my ex. What's the best thing to do?
What do you do when you find your girlfriend cheating?
From someone who has been in this situation, lete give you some advice that will actually help you. No one else addressed these issues here, so I am doing this in incognito mode.When she has cheated on you, she has left you for good. You need to pick up the pieces and take care of yourself.Tell yourself,I come firstOnly I matterI live for myselfNow translate that into action.How?Well for starters if you break up with her right away, that might boost your self respect. It might also give you some temporary closure. Not to mention the satisfaction of revenge.But within days you will be miserable. You will be alone and miserable. You will have lost your support system and company. You won't have your emotional and physical partner with you.On the other hand, she will already have found a new partner(the person she slept with). She will land on her feet while you crash and burn. She will find herself comforted while you find yourself deserted.Moreover, this guy who took great care to wreck your nest will be the real winner. He will have gotten away with a vice and earned a girlfriend out of it.Imagine that smug jubilant smile on his face.Trust me, you don't want that.So this is what you do. You play the game.Don't break up with her immediately. Point out to her how unfair she was and try to make her get out of that affair. Try to connect with her again; propose a fresh start.Now when you have secured your home front, start looking for a new partner. Someone who treasures loyalty, preferably someone who has been cheated on herself and loathes disloyalty( not that difficult to find really) ; someone who will have your back for a considerable period at least.If you find someone like that, and manage to pique her interest and feelings, now it is time to leave your girlfriend. However, make sure your new gf never gets to find out about your ex. Difficult, but do-able.Breakup with your ex.Don't feel sorry for her, she brought it upon herself. She looked out for herself treating you as a door mat. Now it's your turn to look after yourself and ignore her needs. There's nothing vile about being a survivor; there's nothing mean in winning a game someone else started. There's nothing wrong about easing yourself into a rebound. Rather, that's the only way to do it.Put yourself first, make your interests your priority. That's how you bounce back from a unfaithful relationship.Thank you.
I'm a male, bisexual crossdresser, and I want my girlfriend to go out with me to pick up guys?
I agree with the others in that you need to cut your losses with your girlfriend. There's nothing wrong with you being a bisexual crossdresser who likes a little vareity in your sex life, but you need to do it with a girlfriend that is completely cool with that. Also, you really need to reexamine your attitude towards crossdressing, because in all honesty it leaves much to be desired. When you said that you namely got involved with your girlfriend so you can borrow her clothes and you think she's afraid that you're prettier than her while you're crossdressed, it shows that you had very selfish intentions in that relationship. Even girls who are accepting of having a boyfriend who is a crossdresser would steer clear of you. I can't say that I blame her for having a hostile attitude towards you. You treated her like an object instead of a person. All I can say is take this as a lesson learned of what NOT to do in a relationship as a crossdresser. If you want to have a relationship with a woman again, you first off need to do so because you genuinely like the person and not because they wear the same size of clothes that you do. You should also strive to go for the girls who like to have an interesting sexual vareity if you would like to have an occasional fling with a guy and with her joining in. The right girl is out there for you, but unless you change, you will screw it up when you meet her.