My mom threatens to hit me, is it abuse?
My mom has threatened to hit me when I raise my voice when she gets me mad by yelling at me for different things. She told me to yell at her one more time because she would hit me because she is allowed, but I am only 15. Is this considered child abuse? Also, I have mental health problems (I'm not challenged but I am depressed and I am emotionally unstable) and I throw fits sometimes even though I'm 15 going to be 16. These usually start on off days when someone makes me mad and people continue to upset me leading to an emotional break down. In these fits both my parents have hurt me. My dad has smacked me across the face, grabbed my neck in a pressure point, and has also slammed me against my bedroom door. My mother has grabbed my pony tail almost pulling my hair out (or at least that's what it felt like) and has said that she wasn't pulling but because my hair was in a pony tail and she grabbed around the hair tie she really was. My dad also talks down on me calling me mean things and has even called me a whore because I kiss my bf out front of my house. He also calls me a ***** and tells me that I'm worthless. Is any of this considered child abuse?
My mom is mentally abused and threatened by my brother who refuses to move out and manipulates her. She's too afraid to kick him out. What can I do?
If all of the other excellent advice, you could induce him to attack you, call the police, and have him arrested for assault. This should get him out of your mom’s house and into jail for a couple of years…
Is my mom threatening to leave us abuse/neglect?
I don't know about abuse but it sounds hurtful. Tell her if she could manage her own feelings in a healthier way, she would have given you and your sister better communicating skills. If it's an angry household, she played a part in that.
My mom threatened to hit me?
Stop being disrespectful and it won't happen.
My mom threatened to hit me, I said...?
My mom threatened to hit me, I told her to go ahead and that I'd call somebody. Then she asked me why I would do that, so I could "bust open" her nose again (a year ago she jumped ontop of me and for self defense I hit her wherever I could, and ended up giving her a black eye and maybe a broken nose. She hasn't let me hear the end of it since) ? Then she threatened to take me to juvy (I'm 15 now, was 14 at the time) because she took pictures of herself with her black eye when she had it and would use it as proof to turn me into the police. I told her to go ahead and turn me in. Then she basically insulted me (she's very verbally abusive) and hinted that I'm lazy and fat (I'm like 5 lbs overweight but veerrrrrrrrrrry insecure with myself and she knows very well that any jab at my looks will make me not want to leave the house for days) and I'd love juvy because I'd just sit there on my "lazy a$$". She's in my brother's room now and I'm in the den, and she just came down and saw me crying. She asked what's wrong with me (like she had no clue, which ticked me off) and I just told her to go away. Then she said she woudln't until I told her what happened. Then I said, "You happened! Just leave me alone or I'll get up and leave the room". I'm just wondering if anyone has any advice or input on my situation and how to cope or deal or fix this problem/situation. I'm so upset right now and tears are streaming down my face because I just want a normal life (I have a semi-physically abusive father, both of my parents verbally abuse me, depression, body dysmorphic disorder, and addiction to self-harm) and parents that would never even think to touch me. Someone please help :( I'm only 15
What should I do when my mom is threatening me?
You need to give more information as to how she is threatening you. If she says I'm going to ground you if you don't…., or I'll take away your phone if you don't…. Those are reasonable parental guidelines to make you follow her rules and you need rules and guidelines. You may not like it but society has rules too and she is trying to make you a successful person. However, if she is threatening your physical wellbeing by threatening to beat you, lock you away, deprive you of food or shelter or worse and if you think she means it then that is abuse. Please clarify.
My mom choked me) Is this abuse?
What the hell, YES, this is child abuse! WTF is wrong with your mom! Christ, this is the reason why so many children are abused everyday. Parents need to sit down and talk with their children, get the truth out of them. Not freaking sit on you and choke you half do death. Call the cops, but you need evidence. However, if you do your mom is found guilty, then be prepared to be taken away from your mom and moved into a foster home until you are adopted.
Child Abuse: My mom hit me last night three times, what should I do?
I recall a time that I pushed and pushed my Dad to the point that he hit me. Not a smack on the bottom - I'd had plenty of those - but a punch to the face. I don't think it really connected and besides I was half hiding behind a door way. Big tough 16 year old that I was.I don't think my Dad had a problem with abuse. His biggest problem was being emotionally repressed. This story may have nothing to do with the question, but it does represent an example of an isolated incident, of violence with a perpetrator one can sympathise with.I think Quorans all, want children to know the support available to them in the event they are abused. But we also want you to have an ongoing relationship with your parents if that is healthy. We also want you to take responsibility for your part in things - once we're sure you're safe.If you want more granular help you need to detail what took place and be sure to include how things appear to your mother.I could presume you are an older teen who brought an older male to your bedroom while your mother was out. And you refused to respond appropriately to her distress at your having broken a house rule. But it may be a very different situation. Maybe you're eleven and your mother is a psychopath. Help us out.