Is my friend a fake friend or am I in the wrong?
The guy my friend had a crush on randomly hit me up telling me I was cute. I said thanks and asked him what he thought about my friend hyping her up. He said I don't like your fat friend and sent me a d*ck pic. I told me friend he sent me one and she got mad. We didn't talk for a month, she tried sending me messages on instagram but I didn't respond, because I heard she was talking about me and saying I was a hoe. Yesterday she facetimed me and I answered she told me two guys I was talking to sent her nudes. I know them they don't just randomly do it she had to have done something to get it to that level, one of the boys I had lost my virginity to. She always complained I stole every guy from her but I never did anything with them and asked her if she wanted me to stop being friends with them. I think she did this on purpose as some sort of revenge. She knows there's only one boy i'm interested in and I fear she'll start talking to him too. What should I do?
Is it wrong to date your ex's best friend?
The flat out, less complicated answer is hell yeah it is.Well, under certain circumstances. ( I’m gonna get so much crap for this)I once dated this guy who was 21 when I was 18. I thought he was pretty cool, coming from someone who had JUST graduated high school. We were coworkers for a few months, and then one day, he confessed his feelings to me. We dated on and off for almost half a year, and let me tell you, it was awful. He had a lot of emotional problems. He didn’t know how to love me. Some days I was his girlfriend, some days I wasn’t. He brought up having an open relationship and polygamy a lot, which I refused since that wasn’t my cup of tea. He held me on a string and used me for emotional support and sex and company; the list can go on and on. I started to feel like I wasn’t worthy of love at all, as if my only purpose was to be a puppet and a mother to someone who didn’t even try to fix his problems before entering a relationship. To this day, I feel ashamed for allowing myself to accept anything less than the love I deserved.And this is where I finally answer your question.In the place where I worked, I had another coworker who was best friends with my ex. I absolutely loved hanging out with him. We would go on hikes, play video games together, spend hours talking about how much we hated our current relationships and helped each other out with that. It was completely innocent, he and I thought nothing of it… at least until we were both single. He was a caring guy, I could tell he loved me in a platonic way. But he gave me everything I needed; support, love, friendship, a shoulder to cry on, and so much more. Eventually, I told him how I felt and it turned out he felt the same for me. But we could not be together until he talked to my ex. He was uncomfortable with the thought of dating his best friend’s ex girlfriend without talking it through first. I waited about a week until they talked. My ex had told him that he saw it coming, because he was caring for me, because he was capable of loving me. A year later, he and I are still together and I’ve never been happier.Under certain circumstances, it is ok. If you have the opportunity to be happy, do it. But be careful, don’t be devious. Do it because you cannot see yourself with anyone else. There are plenty people in the world.
Is it wrong to fall in love with your best friend?
No, it isn't wrong, you can't lie to your feeling. BUT you must ready with the consequences. The bad things = When your best friend is already with someone else or find someone else, prepare to be broken heart, but you must to be happy in front of your best friend. It hurts. When you confess your feeling and your best friend doesn't feel the same the way you are, It hurts more than rejection with non best friend. It's not over after the rejection, your best friend maybe will keep distance from you, or your best friend maybe not become your best friend anymore.Maybe your best friend will smile and say thank you, and still be your best friend, but friendship will change and feel different.5. Maybe your best friend will smile and say thank you, be your best friend, he/she don't change and both of you will move on. The best thing = If he/she feels the same like you do,it's the best thing ever. That kind of relationship long last and often leads to happy marriage. Every person's dream is to have wife/husband/girlfriend/boyfriend that can also be your best friend.This is risky but sometimes worth it.
How can I stop my friend from going the wrong way?
I don’t think you can stop anybody from doing anything – at lest not for long. You can be there for your friend, you can offer help and advice, but that is it. They have to take that help/advice, they have to see they are going wrong, they have to change directon. By themselves, because the only person who can change a person is THAT person. Professional help (therapy) can be an answer, but only, if that friend of yours is willing to even see there is even a problem. The step itself still needs to be taken by them.
Is loving your best friend wrong?
Definitely not.In fact, it's a challenge not to fall for someone who knows you inside out. Who understands your inner most core. Who can finish your sentences. Who doesn't need words to get what you're going through. Who's always there for you. Who supports you. Who loves you and accepts you for who you are.He/she is your best friend for a reason!. He/she is an intricately extraordinary person. And you finally notice that. You start introspecting what this is. What you are exactly feeling for this person. You ponder, and you come up with ‘I think I am falling for him/her’ conclusion. You deny it in the beginning with the fear of ruining the best thing that has ever happened to you. But you never realize that the best thing can become the bestest thing for you and him/her. But humans have the tendency of being in their comfort zone. But then you cannot deny it for long. You cannot hold it inside and not tell him/her. ‘You tell him/her everything!!! I need to tell him/her’ your heart goes, but your practical, logical brain always stops you. But love isn't logical or practical. It's irrational. So you tell him/her, and you wish he/she feels the same way. And you know what? They do.Best relationships are those that begin with friendship and convert into something more.
My best friend fell for a wrong girl. What should I do?
You can't do anything!He will realize this thing on his own, with time. If you try to tell him, he will always think that either you don't like his girlfriend, or maybe you are jealous of him because now he has a girlfriend! So, wait for the right time and let things find their course on their own. The more you will speak against her, the more he will turn against you! And chances are, he will tell his girlfriend what you think about her, and she will add fuel to the fire and separate you two from even talking! Don't worry, many of my best friends have fallen for absolutely disgustingly wrong guys too - and I never even thought of doing anything because I knew that I would never be able to break their relationship, but rather, I will end up breaking my own friendship with her! But with time, when the guy ditched her and cheated upon her, and was caught in a drug-case (he's in jail now by the way! *Punjab*), then my friend realized what she had been doing all along! She was blind to everyone, even to us, whom she called 'sisters' at some point, but then it's okay. Everyone has his/her fall. She had hers, and now she's back with her, away from that drug-addict of a guy, and spending her life very well :)Good luck :)
I lost a friend, was I wrong in this situation?
So we were hanging out for a few months, I’m 19 & they’re 21. I had issues going on and they came over and we’re there for me. I genuinely cared about them but one day they texted me asking if I could come by & we could do something because they were going through stuff with their family. I didn’t get back to them because I wasn’t okay mentally myself, how could I be there for someone when I am not even good myself?! I wasn’t being fake, and I told them this, & they blocked me. I have to put myself first &a if someone doesn’t like that then that’s their problem. What do you think??
My friend is hanging out with the wrong crowd...?
Unfortunately, it's their life, what they do and who they hang out with is strictly their choice ... just as what you do with your life and who you hang out with is yours. I'm sure you don't want anyone telling you how to live and what to do based on their values and morals, and regardless of how you feel about your friend and their choices, you should afford them the same courtesy. for your friend, who they are hanging out with is not the "wrong" crowd for them; it may be for you, but you aren't them. You don't have to deal with the consequences of their choices as long as you keep your distance from them. There is a distinct difference between being "classy" and being haughty. Just because YOU judge yourself to be classy, doesn't necessarily make you "classy."