I can't stop thinking about my ex-girlfriend? Please help.?
I'm 21 now and it's exactly a year since my girlfriend and I broke up and it was definitively not easy. We've known each other for 4 years and have been going out for 2 years so we had planned a lot of things together, getting married, form a family, etc. But when we broke up, it hurt, but it hurts a lot more now each day of my life. I loved her, I really did, but we argued so much over little things and we had a hard time finding jobs so that we can start a life together, but that never happened because of the damn economy. I'd give anything to go back and change a lot of things, she's a type of girl who's a bit high-tempered and fights a lot, which is why I left her, because I couldn't keep dealing with her yelling at me everyday and had thought I cheated on her but I could NEVER do that and she's hit me a couple of times when we argued, but overall, I loved her and I don't know if I still do. I haven't heard from her for a couple of months and I think now, she's going out with someone else and I really am trying my best to move on. I fall into deep depression whenever I have dreams about her and I back together, and when I wake up, I feel horrible. I try working out at the gym and hang out with some friends, it helps, but every time I try to sleep, my mind keeps focusing on her. That's what I want to stop doing. Please help me out, I just want to move on as a single man and not have to go through this madness ever again. I don't see myself being with anyone else again. :( And please no rude comments. Thanks again.
Losing my virginity to a Prostitute?
So yeah im a 23 year old guy, never had a gf, never even been on a date for that matter and yes i'm also a Virgin. Recently i've been thinking of just losing that V-card to a prostitute to get it out of the way cause it really bothers me, feels like im missing out and also makes me feel like the biggest LOSER in the world. I know some will probably tell me to wait for that special girl but lol ive been waiting and odds are i might never even find her so what the heck, im definitely not gonna be a 40 year old virgin. Besides if i ever do meet that *special* girl i know i'll be more bitter about being a virgin than happy that i saved it for her cause unless shes religious (and i dont do religious lol) she will PROBABLY have slept with some few guys at least (hopefully just a few... sigh) so it'll just bother me more if im a virgin, also i'll be ashamed cause i'll be obviously really BAD in bed, and it's not like i could ever tell that it's because im a virgin, too ashamed of that, i'd just say i lost it to some drunk hookup or smthing. And yeah picking up a regular slutty chick would be an option if girls gave me the time of day :( im just too shy so i have no game whatsoever and being nice never gets u anywhere with the ladies as we all know :( so i dont really see any other options Also to those girls who will go "aww, i think its so sweet when guys a virgin instead of a manwhore" - its not that i have high morals or anything, i'd love to be a player if i could. And to people saying "virginity is a gift" i say...... It's not a gift, it's a stigma that makes me hate and despise myself. PS: Prostitution isn't illegal in where i live, also OBVIOUSLY i wouldn't tell about this to my future gf (should i ever even get one... doubtful) as she probably wouldnt like it lol
Explain how a girl can like you after she rejected you a week/months later?..?
Like for instance I got rejected a week ago by a girl, who said she ddin't know what to say, and was trying to be polite rejecting me. The next week she asks me out to dinner, and I ask her. "Yeah lets go as friends." "Well...I didn't really mean it like that." "Huh you mean as a date?" "... Yeah." I still have little feelings for her, but not enough to warrant a relationship. She did reject me, and I don't want to be bitter by saying no, but how can girls just change their mind like that? We were very good friends, and a week after she rejected me it got awkward, and we didn't talk as much.