How do I read a guy that says we are "just friends"? What is he thinking?
We tell each other that we love each other all the time. We have the same feelings for one another, but yet he won't commit to a relationship with me. This is so hard, but it's hard being in love with him and he says that we are only friends. What is he thinking and how should I handle this? He's my best friend, and I know my love is real for him. It just hurts so bad.
Why do girls say lets just be friends?
Go out and find someone who can be interested in JUST you! You will get over her as soon as you have another one lined up! Be selective next time. Tell the girl up front what you are expecting out of a relationship. If she gives you the right response, then proceed with caution. Do not show a girl you are too eager. This will be a turn off. Get out of the house and put her out of your mind. Time will take care of the hurt and you will move on. Stay busy and keep your eyes open for a suitable replacement. When you are young this always happens. You will have a thousand girlfriends who will do this before you stumble upon just the right one.
How do I tell a girl I just want to stay as friends?
It seems that you care about this girl’s feelings and you don’t want her to get hurt. With that in mind, you need to let her know how you feel. Ideally, you want to let her down gently without giving her false hope. This is going to be difficult to do. Let her know that you value her friendship and that you think highly of her. One way to approach the situation is to ask yourself how would you want someone else to do it if the roles were reversed.You do have to bear in mind that if she has strong feelings for you, the idea of just being friends may not appeal to her, and you could end up in a no win situation where you lose her as a friend. But being honest with her is the best way to go. At least its fair if nothing else.
How do you know if a girl likes you or is just a friend?
I work in IT (says it all really), I set up an IT solutions business and got a deal with a big company. So I work with a guy called Mike who has been there 6 months, he's showing me the ropes and I get on with him. We always get lunch with these 2 girls Rose and Allice, I really like Rose but don't know where I stand, I know she's single, she's really friendly and we meet every morning for coffee. Lately we've started texting after work, it turns out that Mike is good friends with her, they go places together after work and she tried to set him up with her friend from home, so I'm not sure what's going in here, she's always talking about these guys she was chatting to at the weekends and how they didnt work out, so I know she's single and looking, the thing is I think Mike likes her too. Yesterday she sent me a text saying sorry I was out driving with Mike, he's teaching her to drive, we continued texting and she just seems cool. I'm so confused though, does she like me? Are we just friends? Should I ask her out (bearing in mind we work together if I got it wrong)? Does she like Mike? Are her and Mike secretly dating? Are they just friends? What do you think? I should probably not even think of her like this but I like her and I'm trying to figure out if she likes me like that? Could I ask her out? How? I'm sorry if you found this confusing but that is me? Haha you see my pain.
If we are just friends with benefits...should we....?
Personally, this sound like a good FWB situation to me. Sounds as though he takes the "friends" part seriously. Most men really mean NSA (No Strings Attached) when they say FWB. I think a true FWB setup *is* a type of relationship. Just know that it is not an exclusive one. It does sound as if he likes you more than just a casual fling, but don;t go assuming that's true. Women have a nasty habit of falling in love with a guy once they've had sex with him. We tend to fall in love way too fast! Just enjoy this for what it is. Don't question it for now. As long as you enjoy talking to him and meeting him for whatever type of fun the two of you plan -- so be it. If you get to a point where you want to make it an exclusive relationship, then have that conversation with him. But I'd wait a few months before doing that! If you have any holiday parties coming up in December, that would be a good time to see if he would like to join you as a date. ; )
Guys, would you want to spoon a girl you were "just friends" with?
No, but they probably wouldn't fork her either...lol
Do you call your friends babe?!?
Just curious if anyone has ever called their friend babe or if people do that? I read a comment on a guys my space and this girl calls him babe a few times. He says they are just friends, but I'm not really sure why she is calling him babe then. Could they just be friends????