This annoying kid keeps following me - What to do ?
Yes it certainly is intense. Try to take some time while no one is around and talk frankly to him. Tell him you don't like what he is doing, and actually he is only pushing you away because of this embarrassment. Also just be polite and say please leave you alone. The only other way is to tell him outright that you are going to ignore him as if he is not there. He need to stop all the chanting and yelling also as this is harassment and can be reported.
Weird guy from school keeps messaging me? what do i do!?
He started with a nice message and i messaged him back and he messaged me like 4 times after saying stuff like im the most beautiful girl at school and hes looking forward to getting to know me and other questions and i replied saying thanks im flattered but im not trying to date anyone right now and he said me too and stuff. And i ignored it and he messaged me several times again through like a 2 or 3 day period and he would say sorry for the extra messages and then message me more which is really weird.And i didnt reply to any of his messages.This is on fb btw. Hes weirding me out and I dont want to have to deal with this guy talking to me at school when break is over! What should I do? should i reply to him or just ignore hime?? what should i say and how can i avoid him talking t me at school? im in highschool btw.thanks!
Some guy keeps following me what can i do about it?
I'm a teenage girl living in Nevada. There is some guy who has continued to follow me this last month. I'm not sure why, the thing is though it's always in a public place and he never says anything. He parks in the school parking lot around the time I get out of school, I always walk home from school, and when I get out he gets out of his car and follows me on foot really close to me, like 15 feet away from me. He follows me in stores, in the mall just about everywhere. It doesn't matter whether I'm with friends or not. I know it's the same guy, I know his face so well by now and his car. I asked my dad what to do but he doesn't think it's illegal because he's careful to always stay in public places so he says it isn't harassment. What can I do? Is a restraining order possible? I have the license plate number.
A guy in school kept asking me out and keeps following me everywhere and hugging me. He won't stop and today he forcefully kissed me on my cheeks and I felt like crying. What should I do?
You need to report him to school authorities and the police as well. Someone who grabs you is not “hugging” you. He is committing sexual assault. Someone who forcefully kisses you has committed sexual assault. He is stalking you, he HAS assaulted you, and if you do not take steps to STOP him and report him (do not trust the school authorities alone, go to the police) he might RAPE you.And if you’re too afraid to do this for yourself… think about who else he might do this to. Do you have a baby sister? If he gets away with assaulting you, he might feel bold and go after someone else he sees as an easy victim. Do NOT let him.You can do this. You do not have to be a victim. REPORT HIM… do not threaten. Do it. The sooner the better.note - You can go to any of your school staff. And for contacting the police, if you’re afraid to call, go to their social media, like their Facebook page, and direct message them about what you should do.
A high school boy keeps following me?? really scared!!?
i am 13 year old in 8th grade and he is 17 a junior in high school which is right by my middle school he always follows me .this been going on for 2/3 weeks i don't really know him i just know he is a junior who goes to the high school next to my middle school and he is one those "bad boys " its so annoying and scary he always stands by this candy store which is right by the HS when i goto school and home i have to pass that store and he always stops me and tries to talk to me when i don't he always yell out "stuck up S!ut" and other nasty stuff and sometimes he touches my hair while i walk by so last week i went to school late cause i thought maybe he wouldn't be there my school starts at 7:25 and i went at 8 but nope he was there and Friday i had to stay late cause i had tutoring so when i was going home and he was there but this time when i walked by he grabbed me and said "i'm lonely comfort me " i tried to run but he wouldn't let me go he told me he was going to **** me today and if i didn't do what he was going to kill me i was so scared i didn't know what to say or move but i was saved when a car passed by i dont think the person saw us but he got scared and let my hair go and i ran home so fast i am so scared to go back to school now!! i never told my parents about him or about Friday i dont know why but i feel so disgusting and embarrassed to say anything to my parents i also have Social anxiety so its hard for me to talk my councilor or teacher .
This guy at school keep touching me and making sexual comments about me?
This guy at school keeps touching me & making sexually comments about me. He's cute and all but, it's getting weird because, he won't stop. I'm scared now & one day I ran into him alone on the staircase &, he had me against the wall close to my face talking to me. He was saying things like when are we going to ****? I said I really have to go and I had to bend down to get around his arm. When I walk pass him in the hallways he would pull on my hair sometimes or he would grab my arm and pull me towards him. I told him to let go of my wrist and he wouldn't. I'm trying to be nice but, he keeps harassing me. I'm a Junior and he's a Freshmen & I don't want to tell on him. I have friends but, he won't hit on them. How can I make him leave me alone?
Why does this guy at school keep asking me these weird questions?
There's this guy that is in all of my classes basically except for like 2. He is very talkative and when no one talks to him he just goes up to random people and starts talking to them. Usually he will just say "What's up?" and normal stuff like that, but when he talks to me he asks these weird questions that he doesn't ask anyone else. Questions like: "What's you middle name?" "Do you like being at school or home better?" "What's your favorite brand of pencil?" (I know weird right?...) And a lot more weird questions but there are too many to list... It's not like he has a crush on me or anything because he is dating someone. But it's just weird how he keeps on asking me these totally weird questions! He doesn't do it to anyone else. It's like he's stalking me or something :O
Why is a random guy at my school always staring at me?
He likes you.He thinks you are a very attractive girl. He is older than you right? So his body chemistry has developed further than yours. He is at the point where he notices girls around him more. You are probably not at that point in your development as a female if you have absolutely no idea why a guy might be looking at you.Give it a year or two and you will know for sure!If he is scaring you or making you uncomfortable then it might be a good idea to ask him to kindly stop looking at you. If you don't have the confidence to do this then speak to a tutor.Good luck!
Is there anything I can do when random men follow me around?
This must be very difficult time for you and I know that you are feeling scared. But don't worry, with proper caution some preparing, we will catch this guy.But first we have to be sure that you are not just being paranoid. The answer above me is a good way to see if you are really being followed, other than that, try to keep someone with you at all times during a day and see if she/he thinks the same, i.e you being followed.If you are sure that you are being followed. Then,Don't stare or look behind from time to time at the man who is following you. Walk at normal pace and don't run unless you are alone at a dark street.Inform local authorities about your situation, and have their number at speed dial. When you are sure you are being followed, act normal and give them a call.Equip yourself with pepper spray and some safety tools. So if needs be, you are ready to defend yourself.As the answer above me said, just go to a random guy who looks tough and just point at the man who is following you. Even if the guy refuses to help, your follower may just leave you alone after he sees you have pointed him out. But I suggest you don't do this unless you have to, or this will startle him and make him more careful, if he chooses to be persistent.Try to be in a group of two to three friends or colleagues be in the company of someone when you are going to or leaving from work. As these are more predictable times, where he can follow you.Walk somewhere, where there are a lot of street cameras when you know you are being followed. So his image can be captured, this can aid the authorities in their search.Have a friend follow you from distance. And tell him that if he sees anyone following you, take his pic and call the authorities. But don't confront him, he can be dangerous or he may simply run.Become less predictable. Go for work fifteen minutes earlier than you use to one day. Change one safe route for another safe route.Maybe he is a stalker, someone you know. Did you have any recent breakup? How long has this following been going on? The day you noticed that you are being followed, did anything out of the ordinary happened in recent days? These are some of the questions you might want to ask yourself and talk to the authorities.You are a brave person. You can get through the this. Good Luck!
Weird kid stalking me at school, what do I do?
I'm not a doctor, but from the things you have written, Autism does sound like a possible culprit. Autistics are usually very blunt and truthful, so if you want to get the message across, you too need to be blunt and truthful. Also, by trying to be "polite" and not telling him directly that he's being inappropriate, you'd only be coddling him, depriving him of an important social skill. I say if he isn't getting your subtle hints, tell him in the most obvious way you can think of. Whether he meant it or not, he harassed you and now he's gonna have to get his feelings hurt. It'll build character and he'll hopefully learn from it. Oh and don't make up a lie; that's the easy way out. He won't learn a thing, and he'll just keep bothering your friends as well.