How do you react to a person making fun of you?
See there are a lot many ways to how you can deal with such situations-Try laughing at yourself. But not always because the other person might take it for granted.Being positive about yourself and accepting that, Yes, everybody makes mistakes.Notice how people around you, who are known for their wit would act if they were in your situation. And try inculcating that in you.Act confident and that you are not paying attention to them.Tell them, Thank you for talking about me,you people are so interested in me!..but in a funny tone.Learn to tease them back. Take notice of things that piss them off(but in a manner that you don’t go too far)Don’t over react because that is why they are teasing you.Try talking to that person, if you think he/she will understand, because some people have a habit of teasing, and since nobody ever told them that it is wrong to do so, they will continuously do it.Try finding out, why that person is so into making fun of you, it could be either, that they are jealous of you or they themselves have personality issues.Lastly, there should be a limit to everything.If you think things are going out of control, you can always report them.
My friends are making fun of me because im a virgin?
First off, im 14 and i am in 8th grade. The people in my lunch group aren't really my friends, there is like 2 people i am friends with out of a table of 8-9 (we don't get to pick our lunch groups, all of my friends are in the other one, the teacher wont let me change) but i talk to everyone at my table, anyway i said to this girl at my table today "do you realize were like the only two virgins at this table" then this other girl who hasn't been a virgin since she was like 12, and thinks its cool butted in and says "well, shes like half a virgin" and i laughed and said "well i guess its just me then" and my guy friend at the table was sticking up for me like that's a good thing, stay that way or something and the girl that butted in goes "I cant picture you doing anything with a guy anyway" (ive made out, and ave tooken my shirt off but nothing farther, please don't call me a whore) and i said ik and shes like are you a lesbian and i was like no and she was like making fun of me because im a virgin, i mean honestly, is it really that cool to open your legs to every guy you date? and this isn't the first time shes said something about it to me, she always says she thinks ill be a virgin at 16, i mean really why does it matter to her? sorry venting, anyway are there girls like this at your school, what should i tell her next time she brings it up?
My crush's friends have been making fun of me the last 2 days? Helpp best answer will be chosen?
He probably (or definitely) likes you. If you like him back, get him to ask you out! You can flirt a little bit (or a lot) or you can just wait for him to ask you. If his friends are teasing you (especially if it has something to do with your crush) then they all know that he likes you so don't expect this to be a super private relationship if you guys start dating. Good luck!
Were they making fun of me?
they were just tryin to be funny
Friends making fun of me behind my back, what to do?
If they were girls I'd say they weren't your friends at all. However, boys always seem to mock each other and aren't always aware that it hurts the one being mocked. They think it's a really good laugh and the mocked friend is supposed to laugh along with them. You have to decide whether you view these two idiots as really good friends who you want to keep, or whether they have now dropped so far in your estimation that you don't care one way or the other whether you remain friends with them or not. If you want to keep them I suggest you play along. See this impression and point out all the faults in it or tell them you were expecting a far better impression. Or say it's very good, let it go on for a few more times and then tell them how boring everyone finds it. 'Not that old thing again - sigh' Hopefully they will stop. If you show that it bothers you they will do it all the more.
Why are people always making fun of me? Why does everyone hate me when I don't talk to them? Why am I ugly?
You know, I've noted that the less attention you give people the more they seek. Since you're so quiet people just want to get attention from you and they're asking for it in a bad way. It's like a little kid in a playground sand box who wants to play with another and to get their attention they throw a pail on their head. Bullies are often people in need of attention. I'm a big time lone-wolf, I enjoy being by myself, reflecting on my surroundings and just being quiet. I like to read by myself in the library, I lock myself up in the music room of my college and play or I go to my room and watch Lie To Me or House on Hulu. Occasionally I'll call up a friend and we'll hang out but all my close friends know that I love being by myself and they respect that. This doesn't seem like the kind of person who'd be getting in any drama right? But unfortunately I get in the same amount of drama people who are out there socializing and talking to everyone and gossiping get in! I've had people come up to me and claim that I've spread rumors, I've had people tell me that I think I'm better than everyone else, I've had girls tell me that I've been trying to take their boyfriends- it's crazy. They just want attention- I don't usually give it to them. Sometimes I tell them that what they're saying isn't true- other times I just smile and walk away (that REALLY seems to get to them). After a while they stop, once they realize that they won't get what they want from you they'll leave you alone. If you react they'll keep at it. And don't say you're ugly- you can't bat yourself up over other people :) You're beautiful and you have a great smile, so smile and walk away, it's that simple. People are impossible to satisfy completely, if you talk its bad if you're quiet its bad. If you can't mind your own business you're horrible, but if mind your own business is all you do it's even worse!
Why do my friends tease/make fun of me a lot?
Being made fun of, isn’t inherently bad. But be wary of the warning signs that suggest they are disrespecting you.Here’s what I’ve come to recognize, over the years.They can’t tell the difference between when you are being serious and when you are being silly.They brush off your problems as funny and make fun of you when you are in pain.They humiliate you in front of people you’ve never met before or people you are less acquainted with.They are always there to make fun of you but are nowhere to be found when you need them.When you look upset, they don’t stop. Instead, they keep going. Sometimes they will even threaten you or insult you for reacting negatively.Take away all these warning signs and you might actually have a pleasant experience out of other people seemingly making fun of you. I fell in love with my ex because she used to make fun of me all the time when we were alone. She occasionally made fun of me when we were with close friends. She’d never make fun of me when we were in bigger groups which had people I wasn’t that close with.But in your case, I’m a little bit confident that you might have looked sad when people called you autistic or weeb. If they continue doing so while showing some of the above signs, you might want to start ignoring them. If that doesn’t get them to stop, I would avoid them and start making new friends if I were you.
Why do people make fun of others for crying?
When somebody cries and you treat them badly because of it, I lose my respect for you. They don't look weak, you do. Whether they're upset, frustrated, injured, ill, whatever. I'm sure you have cried too so stop trying to look tough. You're not. It's harder to cry in front of people, admit your problems, and tell others what's wrong than it is to lock it up inside. Once I saw a boy in my class cry (I'm 13). He had been being bullied and taunted all day just for the hell of it. Another boy punched him in the stomach multiple times. He hid his face in his arms and sobbed. People took this as another reason to taunt him. But not me. I lost more respect for the people mocking him for him crying but gained more respect for him. I'm sick of the **** people get when they're obviously already upset about them 'crying' or 'complaining'. No stop. If someone's already upset, leave them alone. If somebody's injured or ill that's even worse. Sometimes the tears happen naturally and are just triggered from pain, exhaustion, or from feeling like crap. It's very rarely the result of the person being a crybaby. I think it's fine for any age to cry. Today I was made fun of because I cried when I nearly collapsed from heat exhaustion at a soccer game. I could barely breathe, I was shaking, my head and body ached, and my body was going numb. I don't get how that was bad for me to cry about that. I don't think it's fair for me to feel embarrassed because I was sick and just couldn't help it. I didn't cry much either, I was more so hyperventilating. Anyways, I just don't get it. I think people who say they don't cry or people who laugh at others for crying are just trying to look tough. To me they just look weak and cruel.