I keep hurting her feelings, and I just can't seem to stop?
I've had a girlfriend for about 6 months now. Lately, I seem to keep misworking things or saying stupid stuff that really hurts her feelings. We've talked about it and gone over where I need to think and where I need to change my ways so I can stop hurting her (which I really, REALLY want to do) but I somehow manage to keep doing it, and I dont know how!! Tonight, i hurt her again. This was the first time that she actually talked about leaving me because of it. She says she can't keep doing this, being hurt at night and acting like nothing happened the next day. I dont want her to do that, I want to stop myself from hurting her in the first place, but I just don't know how. I think before I talk, I watch my words, and I do whatever I can to keep her happy, but I just keep hurting her like this. How can I stop myself? Losing this girl would hurt me so much, I can't bear to think about it.
She says... "I Don't Want To Hurt You?"?
It could mean she's not emotionally ready (for whatever reason) to commit and therefor would rather not tempt either of you by getting into a relationship she can't carry through. I'd say just be glad she has enough self-awareness and sense to realize this rather than putting both you and her at risk of being hurt by ignoring that instinct. If you like her, wait around- maybe she'll sort out whatever issue it is she's having at the moment and will feel more sure of persuing a relationship with you.
What does it mean if a girl says I don't wanna hurt your feelings?
What does it mean if a girl says I don't wanna hurt your feelings?“I don’t want to hurt your feelings, but…” could be the opening line of a little speech that will outline something you did wrong, or wore, or said unrelated to romance. If so, you can make a case in your defence. :)But it usually means you have indicated in some way that you have feelings for her, and she does not feel the same way. She wants to let you down gently, so uses this phrase as an intro to, well, probably hurting your feelings.Girls are taught to be polite. Take her turn-down with similar grace.
How do I tell a girl I don't want a relationship without hurting her?
First of all, you can’t control how other people think and feel. You can influence them with how you say what you want to say to them, but even then, being straightforward and honest is the best way to go for most situations. Reason has to do with less drama and less confusion the better.Second, all you need to do is communicate your thoughts. Example:You: “Hey, I quite like you, but as I might regret this in the future, I am not ready for a relationship right now. Plus, I don’t think we have the same sort of relationship lifestyle we’re aiming for. I plan on getting into a relationship in the future where my partner is opened to an open relationship. Not everyone is able to have such a lifestyle. However, as selfish as this may seem, I like you so much that I would love to have your friendship if you are willing. If not, that’s okay. I needed to be honest with you.”
How do i ask a girl out and not hurt another girls feelings??
ok, tell the girl that YOU fancy and have the hots for that you like her and say how you feel and you know how it goes and then ask her out, if your not that good at asking girls out , like you blush or go red in the face or not confident engouh. text her and ask her out ( i did this with my boyfriend) and You can send a perfect text becasue you can think it through and you can have your mates check it if your new to the whole dating game thing but hey give it a go but if you want to ask her out do it privately and dont just blurt it out. the girl who fancies you tell her GENTLY that you like her as a mate and YOU dont want to hurt her feelings and well done your such a gentleman for putting others before yourslef, thats so sweet and girls dig that, so dont ever stop being a gentleman becasue it goes a long way and hope all goes well . well see ya
How do I leave a girl without hurting her feelings?
If you want to break up with a girl, you should probably be ready with the reasons, with reasons, I mean proper reasons and not just of sake reasons.Lets say she loves you now and you actually don't. But still, there is a bond which is why you guys are together.Attack on the BondLets say you don't want to hurt her yet you want to break up with her, I'd suggest you to spend 20-30 days and then you break up with her.With Day 1, you can start making notes of which are your qualities she likes and which she doesn't. You can then go ahead and damage your disliked qualities par the level of dis-likeliness. She'll notice these changes in you. Try and suggest her everything and that too in a way where she should be uncomfortable and little awkward. Continue doing this for 10 days without a miss.With Day 11, you can start getting irritated with her and if she asks reasons, tell her you aren't getting. Fight with her for small small things and show your ego. Spend time with friends and try avoiding her calls (once or twice in a day). If she asks reasons, go ahead with fight. This is make her doubt her decision of being in relationship with you. Make sure you tell her she doesn't care for you.Have a fight, get angry on her, demand for stupid things and praise some other girls (not too much), tell her where she sucks and ask her to change as per your requirement and doubt her ability of doing many things. Done.. Tell her she doesn't deserve you and one last fight to show her how stupid, insensitive, bitchy she is and then done.PS. As you are thinking of breaking someone's heart, someday, someone will ask this same question to someone to break your heart. It's all about bitchy KARMA
What does it mean when a guy says “I don't want to end up hurting you”?
It could mean a few things, depending on the context, which you didn’t give:He genuinely doesn’t want you to get hurt, but that one is not the most common one, it’s not a very intelligent excuse as we get hurt in life anyways. If he does want a relationship, he would say so and it’s rare that the guy/girl actually believes you could get hurt - people are not that kind-hearted usually, especially in the beginning of a relationship.It’s an excuse - the guy wants the relationship/flirt to end and doesn’t want to say the real reason(s) so he inflates his supposedly “bad sides”, in order to make you believe he’s not the kind of person a girl would want to go out with, ergo you’d think he does like you but in reality he’s trying to let you down easy. That’s probably the most plausible interpretation. People have been using this excuse for a long time, it’s basically saying it can’t work and you can’t do anything about it.It’s a way of saying “no strings attached”, alias no emotions involved and he wants things to be clear before going on with the flirt. At least you know where he stands and don’t fall into the trap of “he will maybe change his mind”: it does happen but not very often.That’s really all I can think of, but in any case, it seems like a bad start to any sort of relationship. Even if he is being honest, the fact that he thinks you could get hurt by being with him is something worth thinking about before jumping into anything. And, from experience, if you do try it, it usually comes to a point where you realize he was right, but you both went too far and want to make the relationship work - it’s often a loss of time and an emotional rollercoaster.
How can I convince my girlfriend to shave without hurting her feelings?
That is going to be hard to do. Because even if you tell her nicely it will still probably will hurt her feelings. But you need to be honest with her and let her know how you feel. Find out what it is that she likes about your looks and then do some comparing. Say she likes the fact that you have a smooth baby face all the time. Ask her how she would feel if you let your face hair grow out and didn't trim it? Find things about yourself that she likes and ask how she would feel if you changed them to the worse. Tell her how much you love her and that you aren't putting her down and that these things will make her even more attractive then she is now. And that she herself will love the way she looks and feels. But if you don't want to do these things then I will still love and respect you choice. But what would it hurt to try it out once to see if you like it or not? Or find a spa in your area. Save a little money and buy her the works from head to toe. Find one that gives massages and waxes and hair cuts. Take her in for some pampering. I am sure that she would let them wax her legs, and brows. And then you don't have to tell her a thing. She will think that you were pampering her because you love her. Buy it, take her to use it. And tell her that you bought it because she is so great and deserves to be pampered. And if she does get all this great stuff done then you can tell her how amazing she looks and how soft her legs feel. Tell her how much you like it. Chances are she will love how it looks and feels herself!!! But if this isn't an option just be honest about how you are feeling. She needs to know wither it hurts her feelings or not. If she loves you she will understand. The only thing she can tell you is no. And that if you don't like her the way that she is then it is your own tuff luck. You keep her the way she is or you go out on your own and find what you are looking for else where. She will either stay how she is or she will try something new. And if you love her then you will accept what ever choice she makes. Good luck!!