What Are Some Complications That Can Occur When A Younger Girl Falls For An Older Married Man

Why are older men marrying younger women?

I can’t answer for all men but I know a lot of them.A friend of mine, in his 50s, started dating a woman in her mid-20s after his divorce. He enjoyed how she made him feel special and energized. She introduced him to new experiences at a time when life was routine. She made him feel young again. Differences split them up, eventually, because he was not able to keep up emotionally or physically with her needs - what he called “maintenance.”Another friend was a widower and he chose to relive his courtship. He saw himself in his 20s and their relationship helped him pretend. He loved the idea of being loved and adored by someone young and attractive. His daughter wasn’t too pleased by this, however, as the two women were friends.Yet another friend was candid. He was successful and she didn’t care about him as much as his resources. To him, he reveled in the control he had over her. She spent his money and cheated on him. He used her as a sex toy and housekeeper. It was hard for me to pick a side in that relationship.The common theme in these experiences is the man’s desire to feel and act young again after an extended period of being the mature adult.I also know a couple of men who ended their marriages because they didn’t work and, at first, decided to make the best of themselves in this new-found freedom. Somehow, they met someone intellectually, spiritually, and emotionally compatible for them despite a significant age difference. It wasn’t a physical adventure or a financial-sexual symbiosis. They were friends who fell into something more. One of these couples has endured almost thirty years. The other, longer. The younger partner had no problem shifting her role from partner to sometime caregiver. They live for one another, not what they can DO for each other.I guess what I’m saying is that it all depends on motivation. If you make a person “feel young again” that feeling will likely fade. If you make them feel good as they are simply by being who you are…that’s probably the best case possible.

Is it ok to marry a girl who is 5 years older than you?

It is perfectly fine as long as BOTH of you are aware of the facts and possible problems that might arise.First you need to be aware that women and men have a different biological clocks ticking. When you are around 25 and she is around 30 you might think that you are too young to start a family. You would rather wait 5–10 years until your career is more stable.This is ok for a man. But if your wife is 5 years older than you, she will be 30 and may not have another 5–10 years to have your children (plural). This scenario is quite common and many times it continues like this.Once the couple is ready to start a family (her 35 or older) it may not work as expected. Maybe reproduction clinics can help, maybe not.In the end it is often the man who then looks for a younger woman to have his children while his original wife is left childless and often quite unhappy.On the other hand if you are 25 and see yourself as a grown up man who is ready to start a family now, marriage with a 30 year old woman who may also be more than ready to start a family might be the right thing.The second problem I have seen in such marriages comes from the different way men and women age.You as a man (in our example 25) may not have reached your peak value in the sexual market place. As your career gains momentum it may very well be, that with 30–35 you will have even better options with the ladies than you have today.Your wife on the other hand (in our example 30) has her 10 best years behind her. Not only her fertility but also her looks are not going to last forever.If she has good genes and takes good care of her body she may have another 10 years or even 15 years to maintain her good looks.You on the other hand might still find the same 25–30 year old women attractive 30 years from now. And they might be interested in you as well.A divorce in favor of a new and younger woman is much more likely if the wife is older than her husband.As long as these two items are well understood by BOTH OF YOU the marriage can be happy and longlasting nevertheless.

Can a boy marry a girl elder to him, in India?

Absolutely yes. There is no legal issues if u r 21 yrs. You Also in Hindu rituals there is nothing that says that marrying a lady elder is a sin. But the main issue is social stigma and if she is many years elder to you then there would be rejection from your parents and relatives. I am saying it since my wife is 10ys elder to me and i faced many issues and was almost ready to break the relationship but i remained firm and now everyone is happy.I knew her from childhood when i was 7-8yrs and she was in Class 12. She would help me in studies and from that tender age i had a liking for her. After completing class 12 she went to another place for studying MBBS. i would miss her and wait for the time she would come home for vacations. After 10 yrs when i passed class 12, i went for engineering to the same place where She was doing MD. my parents made her my local gaurdian and she would make it a point to enquire about me every week in spite of her busy schedule. From 2nd year onwards she would take me for lunch and dinners on weekends. Her presence was electrifying for me.Once she told me that her parents were searching for a groom. On hearing it i was so depressed that after few days i told her that i loved her from childhood. She was very angry and stopped all communication with me for next 1 year. After passing Btech i got a job with very good salary. She was still unmarried as she was doing super speciality. So i proposed her again, she rejected and after proposing her many more times finally she accepted my proposal. She was scared coz society would not agree.Finally when i informed my parents, they were totally against and it took me many months to convinced them.Now we are married for last 4 years with a daughter and very happy. Only issue is that she is dominating .