Boys... Who to choose? and what should I do?
Guy 1: good guy friend of mine, likes to party and have fun, I definitely like him as a friend but I'm not sure if it's anything more. Love his company but he's likely to make a move to pursue something more. Guy 2:quiet and shy, doesn't really party but we have a lot in common and I'm intrigued of getting him out of his shell. most likely won't make a move though. I have a connection with both and thoroughly enjoy spending time with them but since 1 is making a move, (asked me to spend the night) I feel like I have to make a decision now. Should I be with 1 or tell him I just want to friends and wait for 2 to do something? Ideally, if they were a combination I'd be set. I have moments when I like to have fun and go crazy like 1 and other moments when I'm fairly reserved and quite like 2. What should I do? HELP. Added complication: Guy 1's friend and guy 2's roommate have both liked me but I've turned them both down. We are all still good friends though. I also get scared of relationships and usually just turn down everyone but I think it's time I just take a risk, even though it's not all the attributes I look for.
Which boy should I choose?
I spoke to this boy on tinder about a year ago. We “talked” for a few months and just fell off. He lived three hours a away, and we talked about how when he transferred to a university in my city the next year, we would be able to see each other and finally be together. After we fell off, I met another boy of whom I have been dating for 7 months. I love him. But then the other boy came to my city, he texted me, and ever since then, he has been all I can think about. I want to be with him. I do. Love at first sight kind of thing. Turns out it happened for him on tinder a year ago, but it only happened for me when I met him in person. But I’ve been with this other guy for 7 months. I don’t know what to do. The guy I’m with now is funny, smart, the marry kind of guy. But the other guy blows him out of the water. I can’t explain it. I don’t know what to do. The other guy has given me an ultimatum... it’s me or him... My current guy is better off for me in the long run I feel like, but I want to be with the other one. I don’t know why. I’ve never felt this way about anyone before. I’m 19 years old. Who should I choose for the love of god because he’ll if I know...
What boy should I choose?
You know, I was in the EXACT same situation! Except, the best friend that I dated lasted for like 2 weeks. The thing is, I never actually dated this guy Nick, but he was my first kiss when I was two and I've always loved him. Only thing was that he lived in another state and I only saw him on Youth trips. One day, he came to my house when I had a boyfriend because we were on a youth trip and my youth leader put him at my house because my mom wanted boys there. My boyfriend at the time was there and I haven't seen Nick in 13 years. I felt him staring at me a lot, but he had a girlfriend and I needed to stay away from that. Well, about 3 months later, when he found out that my boyfriend and I had broke up, he kept messaging me and told me that he has loved me for all of these years and was just being so sweet. But one thing he never told me was that he had a girlfriend and never broke up with her, but he said that he was only with her to make up for not being with me. I was always upset with that but I know I loved him. About a month later, we went on another Youth trip, only..........he brought his girlfriend. That's when I messaged him to tell him that this needs to end. I can no longer allow him to be cheating on his girlfriend because he kept saying he loved me, but he loved her, and yadayadaya! He was my best friend. The point is, is that he moved on from me or at least that's what he told me and it was 3 years ago, and I'm not over him. Don't EVER let go of someone that makes you feel the way I felt with him. If you do feel that way, go back to Raymond. If not, and it's only the excitement you want, just move on from Raymond and tell Ed you just want to remain friends. I know it sounds cheesy, but just follow your heart. Just go with the flow for now and don't try to jump into things. Best of luck for you and I hope that you will never be in the same situation that I was and still am in. :)
Which boy name should I choose?
I'm naming my 6th child! It's a boy and I've narrowed it down to 2 names. Chandler and Ignatius (Iggy.) I like Chandler just a little bit more but I feel like Ignatius would fit better with my current children's names/plus it's a name sake. My children are Royal, Elora, Asa (Ah-zuh), Sailor, Hermione. So what should I pick? TIA
How should I choose a baby boy’s name?
You can make a list of beautiful-sounding names you read in baby name books, then try saying them out loud. Eliminate the ones you know won’t work for various reasons. Try the names next to the baby’s surname. Try some as middle names. Perhaps a dear family member’s name could be your baby’s middle name? Write out the possible combinations. Put them away and come back to it fresh a few days later. You should have a handful of possibilities by the time the baby arrives, but perhaps will only feel the right one once you’ve seen his face & held him.Don’t forget to test out probable nicknames and short forms of his name. Make sure they will work in all your families languages, if there are more than one spoken at home.Imagine your son as a teenager with this name, and as a respectable grown man; make sure he won’t be ashamed or stunted by your choice.And whatever you choose, don’t go bananas with the spelling! Your son will not thank you for being creative…. good luck!
Witch boy should i choose???!!!?
we cant tell you who to pick just follow your heart and who you think you will really connect with and that can last for a really long time hoped I helped
Which guy should I choose?
You should choose neither of them. You are trying to make a choice based on reasons other than love and primarily on future prospects. This is an ok strategy but not a great one. It’s not a way to for a relationship to last over the long term unless you’re willing to accept a much lower standard for what a relationship is supposed to be.What if, while you are with either of these men, you meet someone you truly love? What happens then? There are two sayings that while cliche and oversimplified have much to say. The first is this, and it applies to you: “Don’t be with someone who has qualities you can live with - be with someone who has qualities you can’t live without.” And the second is this - “if you have love, nothing else matters. If you don’t, nothing else is enough.” In either case, with either man, you don’t have love or your choice would be easy. All you’re doing is seeking the “less bad” choice, not the “best choice”. If you were seeking the best choice, then your choice would be easy. If you’re priority is security then go for the first guy with the bright future and be like so many women living the good life and fucking the gardener on the side. If you’re seeking a positive but poor atmosphere, then pick the second guy and spend your life being jealous of other women and hen-pecking your husband to do better until you become a shrew and kill his positive attitude.You aren’t choosing for love. If you were the choice would be easy. You’re choosing for qualities other than love. And you never once mention how either one treats you as a person, who gives you the most happiness or satisfaction. Your primary interest in how they can benefit you, not how you both can benefit each other. I don’t envy the man you choose - you’re “settling”. You aren’t choosing the best option - you’re choosing the “least bad” option and your short changing yourself and cheating him.
What should I choose between my boyfriend and the boy which my parents like?
Your parents know you much better than what you know about you.Let me tell something that happened last week.Two weeks ago, I fought with my friend (girl) and decided never to talk to her again.I told this to my mom and she simply nodded her head. I collected all the things in the house that she had given me or we had jointly bought. I was going to throw them away but my mom said she will throw them away and took them from me.Last week, I met my friend again in a party. We patched up and we are back as friends.I was feeling really horrible that I threw away all my memories of her.My mom brings the plastic bag she took from me for throwing away and said she never thew them away. I was sooo happy.Essentially, my mother knew the emotions I go through and was not caught up in the heat of the moment like me. She took a saner decision knowing fully well that I will patch up. She knew me better than I did myself.So, when it comes to marriage, I highly value my parents approval. This is becauseAm too caught up in the moment to make a saner decisionMy parents have the experience of having been in my age and know what is best for me. More worldly exposure and the same gene meant they also thought similar to how I thought when they were my age. Hence are able to appreciate my thought but still have the experience factor in them to know what is better for me than what I am currently thinking.I am not saying that I will blindly abandon my boyfriend. I will bring my boyfriend for my parents approval. And if they dont approve, I dont marry him. No doubt on that one.
Which boy's name should we choose to go with Anya?
I think Anya will sound best with equally exotic boy names. I was thinking of names like Milo and Roman before I read the rest of your question. From your list, I like Ethan Alexander best. Anya and Ethan are a lovely set. I also like Nathaniel Rhys. Ryan is a good, handsome name but already dated IMO. Kyle always strikes me as bland and Bentley is just trashy sounding, sorry.
Should we choose a boy or a girl baby to adopt?
Note: The question at the time I answered it was, Should we choose a boy or girl baby to adopt? It’s since been radically changed.Most of the time, the birth mother chooses the adoptive parents. Therefore you get whatever gender of baby she’s having.In the event of adopting older children out of foster care, there are far, far more important things that go into matching kids with an adoptive family than the adoptive family’s gender preference.Some friends recently adopted two little girls out of foster care. They were given the case file of these sisters (with certain identifying details redacted) and told that in the opinion of the social workers, these kids were their best match. After their very long and convoluted fertility journey and their very long and convoluted adoption journey, this couple were more than happy to take what they were given, regardless of gender.