My Love Life Sucks...Need Your Advice?
For starters, your only 23. The human brain doesn't even fully develope intill you're 26. I understand why you are upset about not finding a girl yet, but you have to keep hope, and you have to look in the right places. If someone has time to write a self-help book, do you really think they have a life besides sitting at home at a dingy desk as old and outdated as they are? You said you have a lot of woman friends, that's good. Attractive ones are even better. Attractive woman tend to know much more about what they want in a man then some messed up psychologist. As a woman, I know how we work and I know how men work. Different woman are attracted to different men, so it's better to center on one woman and find out her interest, her likes, dislikes and needs. Poetry and roses are nice, but we just want someone who will listen to us, love us, respct us for who we are. The fact that you just wanted a date with the escort shows me you have respect, and we eat that up. Being a virgin isn't a bad thing either, it will show the girl you're finally with just how important she is to you. In the end, you will find a woman that will love you regardless of what the heck is going on around you. I have found that the best relationship I could ever have with a boy is when we started out as friends. It let me get to know him before I dove into a relationship. Men usually experience love at first sight while woman do not. Who knows, the girl your waiting for could be one of your friends, she just doesn't know it. Maybe your wearing to much cologne? That tends to drive woman away. The best cologne to use is either none at all, or baby powder. I know that sounds strange, but if men only have sex on their mind, woman only think about babies. Oh, and try to stop going to strip clubs, like your going to meet any self-respecting woman there.
Hollywood Sign Scale Model, Advice?
If you would like help with this, i can help you...i have built architectural models professionally. I could at least draw the letters and print them out to a scale that you could use as a template. When is your project do? Are you just doing the sign or are you including the landscaping as well? this is my nephews account. so email him (its on his profile) if you would like my email address and i can help you out with this if you like.
Breaking into Hollywood: What is good advice for teenagers today who want to make and direct movies?
At 12 our oldest always had a video camera in-hand. Not knowing anything about cameras, I phoned an old college friend who'd been art director for Texas Chainsaw Massacre and twenty-something other horror films and told this 50-year-old bachelor my son was coming to spend the summer with him as his apprentice. "Like HELL he is!" came the response. But I persisted and he eventually relented.They hit it off big time. For the next nine years until Bob died, my son spent two or three months a year working for him on commercial projects. A big part of what made it succeed was that Bob was absolutely inappropriate. He was a demanding perfectionist with no concept of normal boundaries for a child. For instance, he had my son, at 12, on his go-to-bed-at-2-in-the-morning schedule. They'd spend whole nights watching horror films, the original storyboard in my son's lap and Bob pointing out the camera angles and the psychology behind them. At 14, my son took a month off from 7th grade to lug equipment around the badlands and rattlesnakes of New Mexico shooting a public service film on its more famous Indian ruins. He slept behind the seat of the truck as they traveled to the next day's location.My son skipped high school to work with Bob and others. Bob died ten years ago right when my son was graduating college with a degree in film and video. So off to New York City my son went and landed a hundred-dollar-a-day production assistant job. With the solid grounding he got from Bob, he shot up. He's now been cameraman/producer on many TV shows and director of photography on feature films. Today he's directing a TV pilot, and he's received two primetime Emmys for his work.I describe his life as getting well paid to take one adventure vacation after another with fascinating people. It's a great career. The path we sort of ended up choosing for him (we were making it up as we went along) ended up giving him an unfair advantage over kids who dabbled on their own, went to film school and then went looking for a job.Bob literally gave my son a million-dollar education for free and loved doing it. The opportunity was there just for the asking. So ask. What we learned is that for many talented people, the chance to pass their knowledge along to the future is a priceless gift in itself.
Should I trust my boyfriend who is pursuing a career with Hollywood given all the sex scandals and pedophilia cases? I know he is not a cheater with me, but I’m scared he will meet a hotter woman.
You can’t control him, you can’t stop him from meeting people, and you must accept that.You either trust him, and have a caring, happy relationship, or you can be absorbed with worry over what may happen.Know that some people end relationships not because there is someone else, but because the relationship isn’t happy.It’s so seldom about hotter and hotter.Sex scandals and pedophilia? Not really sure where those strange thoughts come from.
A childhood pal & I always wanted to come to Hollywood to start a film company. Why did he sneak away when the couple he lived with didn't like me?
You're jumping to conclusions. You don't know. Behave as though the event never happened. You have not considered all possibilities as to why, if you are obsessed about it, but better not to be obsessed. It happened, move on.
I just got out of an abusive relationship. Please give me advice on how to get over him?
My boyfriend and I started dating 10 months ago. The first few months were amazing. No arguments. Later on, for some reason, it started to bother him that i had dated people before him. He began to call me a slut, whore, hoe, etc. We would stay up all night arguing on the phone. I’d cry and cry and cry until he apologized to me and said he “loved me”. I know, i should have broken up with him right then and there, however it’s hard to get out of relationships like these. At times, he made me feel so loved, i felt comforted by him. That’s why i chose to ignore the name calling. Eventually we had arguments 2-4 times a week. I know, very unhealthy. We ending up breaking up the first time. My anger took over me and i ended up punching myself in the face. I had a black eye. He knew this and called me stupid for doing it. He was only afraid that people would think he did it to me. He didn’t want to be seen with me either even though he continued to tell me he loved me (this was while we were broken up btw). I felt like he was just trying to use me. Finally one day he said he wanted to get back together and i stupidly took him back. Things got progressively worse. Today he ended up blocking me everywhere. No explanation. I mean i guess it’s good that i’m out of that relationship but i just need ways to cope as it was very out of the blue.
How do I deal with my boyfriend's celebrity crushes? Any advice? He says he has stopped ever since I caught him. How can I trust him?
By getting your ass into therapy. Can I ask something? Have you never thought a celebrity was cute? Did you never secretly wish to date or marry one when you were a kid? If the answer is ‘yes’ then why are punishing your boyfriend for doing them same? He’s not threatening your relationship by having a crush on someone he’ll never meet. But you are threatening your relationship by insisting on being the Thought Police and trying to control your boyfriend.Because that’s what this is about. Control. It’s not the crush it’s the idea that your boyfriend has thoughts and feelings that you don’t approve. It’s wanting to cut someone’s agency off so that you can feel better.This is abuse. Do NOT listen to people like Daniel who tell you this behavior is okay. It’s not. Acting like this will ruin your relationships and might land you in jail if you take it too far.