I am going to meet my GF & we are going to stay together in Delhi for 5 days.What can I do or where can I take her in Delhi & make her happy?
There are many places to visit near Delhi which could be perfect for one day trip from Delhi. These places for also be a best option for people to get stressed off for their weekend getaways from Delhi.MurthalMurthal is the perfect weekend getaways from Delhi where you can enjoye the deliciouc tandoori parathas of avrious fillings, I do like the paneer and onion filling. There is adventure to be offered by jurassic park or the splash water parks which couls be the best for return.Neemrana Fort PalaceJust 120kms from Delhi and hardly takes 2 hours reach. At Neemrana Fort Palace you can enjoy the aerial zip line tour over the fort, camel riding, vintage car ride and also can enjoy the buffet lunch at the fort resturant.Great India PlaceGreat India Place popularly known as "GIP" is the most popular location for weekend and weekdays as well. You can enjoy various adventure sports.Ambience Mall, Vasant KunjPerfect place to hangout in south Delhi. I am a frequent visitor to ambiance mall vasant kunj. You can also visit Promenade mall as well which is adjacent to the ambiance mall.
Should I stay with my girlfriend even if she isn't on my level?
In my experience, it is not too important whether a woman is “on your level” (I presume you mean intellectually). Much more important is whether or not she is a good person, kind, empathic, from a functional family with good family values and whether she cares about you a lot. That kind of girl is going to be a good mother and a wonderful partner, even if she works at a bakery.I’ve had only one girlfriend who was “on my level”, if you want — actually, way above my level. She was unbelievably intelligent, had crazy mental skills, could read a thick book (800 pages) in 2 days and simultaneously think about mathematical problems, had read more books than most people read in their lifetime, spoke 5 languages etc. etc. and all this at age 18. And she was reasonably attractive. Although in many respects, we were a match in heaven, she wasn’t very empathic with people and had poor social skills, wasn’t a kind, particularly good person, didn’t show affection too often. Didn’t work out. Another girlfriend I had was endowed with very mediocre intelligence at best, not intellectual at all. But she is a wonderful person who really cares about me, who is kind, very empathic, sweet. I still love her and my relationship with her was of much better quality than the other one before. That’s what I mean.However, in my experience, there is this one thing where people should be similar: ambition. I’ve always had this rule: I don’t care what my lady does, as long as she is ambitious at it. Because that is a fundamental value she is going to teach my children — or not. Also, women without ambition in life will become boring and dull at some point. Trust me, after 5 years, a lazy fuck on the couch is as attractive as a bin liner, even if she looks like [insert your favourite celebrity here]. Even if your lady eventually becomes a housewife (perfectly fine and respectable!), NOW she should be ambitious, if you are.
I work and get tired, on weekend I like to stay home but my girlfriend wants to out all the time. What can I do to let me stay and not hurt her?
I feel you. Some jobs are tiring. Long hours or hard, boring, or stressful work. Some want to escape and have fun, others just want to relax on days off. Not have anything they have to do. As a couple you're going to have to compromise. Go out one day and stay in the next or go out one weekend and stay in the next. Don't feel like you need to appease her or she'll leave you. You could leave her for being too different from you. And if you guys are too different maybe a split is inevitable down the road. For now, compromise. She can handle staying in with you if you go out with her.
Me and my girlfriend don’t spend enough time together and I’m starting to lose interest. Should I talk to her about it?
Of course. First talk about it, see what you both think about it. If it can be changed and you both want to stay together talk about what kinda activities would be the best so that you can spend more time together. Check each others' schedule's and see when both of you are without any activities, use it to be together. This can be by going to the café of your choice and cht chat, go to each other's house and cuddle, chit chat, depending on your circumstances. But if you both agree that it's hopeless, i am sorry.
Do you ever get tired of your girlfriend ?
just wondering , i see my girl everyday and i really love her , but some days i am not too loving and sometimes i see she does not want to talk as much...do you think that happens cuz we see each other every day... we will ever get fed up of each other?or should i see her only 4 times a week? when i don't see her she complains..well..what do you think about it !!
Would you let your girlfriend hang out with another guy alone?
Okay so i've been dating my girlfriend long distance for about a year and two months. I usually come up every weekend to see her and stay a couple days, and its the best. But during the weekdays for the past couple weeks shes been hanging out with another guy, that she USED to like, pretty much every night alone in her room because hes grounded so he sneaks out at 8 and comes over to stay till 12 (btw shes 17 and im 19) They've been friends for about a year but shes never invited him over to her house till about 4 months ago. My girlfriend and I tell eachother everything and she says he's just a friend, but she changes her mind alot. I ask if she thinks hes cute and would you ever date him, stuff like that. And her answer 5 months ago was no. But now she's hesitant when i asked just out of curiousity. She think he's cute now.. i asked if she wasnt going out with me, would she go out with him.. and she said she guessed so. She also has told me she see's everything she wants in a guy in him, like me. Now thats obviously not what i want to hear. But she re assures me that she loves me and wants no one else but me and i'm perfect for her. She trusts me, but i have a hard time trusting her because she's told me she has a problem flirting with other guys over text even when she was dating her ex's and she did it in the past with me as well. She's also made out with another guy 6 months into our relationship, found out the hard way stalking her on her facebook when she was talking to him, because i just had a feeling, but thats another story. so you can see why im very paranoid. She says she wants to change and she wants to prove herself to me but having a guy come over and staying till midnight doesnt seem like it to me. Yesterday he came over again and i jokingly said " You have a fun time cuddling? :D" and she replied with "yes he was warm :)" she was serious. But it wasn't cuddling she said, she was perpindicular to him and she just had her feet over him while watching a movie. So i got mad. I have a reason to be mad right?
I have no time for my girlfriend?
I've been dating my girlfriend for over a year now. She is my first love, we lost our virginities together, etc. Our relationship was great. The problem is and has been the whole time, that I don't have enough free time to commit myself to her constant needs. Every day she "needs" to see me. Friday, Saturday, and Sunday and an occasional weekday are not enough for her. She is not understanding enough to accept that at most, this is all of the time I will have for her. We haven't talked in about 30 minutes, but I just listened to her cry on the phone for two hours. I have homework and things to worry about. I know it sounds selfish, but I just don't have the time she "needs" me to give her. To give you an Idea of the things I have to worry about: School, homework, looking for colleges, almost an eagle scout, swim team, swim team pre season exercising, guitar, another one of my best friends. When I write that list and read it back to myself, it doesn't really look like a lot. But to be honest, I don't even have time to fit in everything on that list. I'm about to start a job 6 days a week. A few hours a day. I still love her. We are the best of friends. I just can't fulfill her clingy needs. What do I do? Should I really sacrifice school, work, swimming, my future, for her?
Girlfriend and I are going to different Colleges... should we call it quits?
Edit: I understand I asked this earlier, but I left out some crucial information. I do care for her very very much, she makes me very happy. But I already know most grown folks here will tell me that we are very young and have our lives ahead of us, I respect that I really do. And that's why I am considering... well I don't want her to leave me and I don't feel as if she will. But I mean... she is going to a different school than I am, she is going to a smaller school, more of a Institute and it's pretty small. I'm just worried she is going to find someone else, leave me and then I'm here heartbroken over her... -->EDIT:<-- We live very close to each other, our neighborhoods are right down the street from each other so we live about 2 minutes away. We are both going to be able to see each other on the weekends still with no problems because we are going to still be living at home...But it's just the whole fact that.. I guess I wont be able to see her during the weekdays, I mean normally since we're in High School I see her at school and I get to spend a bit of time with her and now that it will change it worries me. I would never leave her(yes I know the whole, you say that now thing) but I really do not want to leave her... I relate to her so much compared to other relationships it's unbelievable. She is very beautiful and that's the thing... she attracts a whole lot of attention without even trying and she has never cheated on me. But I still worry...I mean we're both not even the partying type of people... but I understand, people change... so I don't know... I just don't know what to do, I don't want to regret this later... but I don't want to stress myself out in College, even though that's inevitable Any thoughts?
How can I get a bookworm girlfriend?
You shouldn't find love, you should allow love to find you. As cheesy as that sounds, the right person for you will come at the perfect time in your life. I'm 16 and I've never had a girlfriend either, but what I'm doing is focusing on my hobbies and goals in life. Last year I was really in love with a girl, but I blew it because I waited too long to ask her out. Either way, I had no idea that I was gonna find love because I wasn't even searching for it. Now I'm just focused on school and other activities, and I think you should go read at your town library and if you find a cute girl there, you can use small talk to ease your way into a conversation. But try not to focus on ' I need a girlfriend ' because when you least expect it, you will find her eventually. Good luck!