My boyfriend won't take pictures with me!!!?
My boyfriend HATESSSS taking pictures with me, even if I tell him I won't put them anywhere. Sometimes I wish I had nice pictures of us to post for his birthday/our anniversary or whatever (considering we've been together for two years) but all I have are some grainy Snapchat selfies from the times he's been tipsy/drunk (aka the only time he'll take pictures with me). I love taking pictures and so it sucks that I can't even get him to take pics with me. I get kinda jealous whenever I see girls instagrams filled with pictures of them and their boyfriend when I can't even get mine to take one decent picture of good quality. I've even had people who haven't met him joke to me that he doesn't even exist because he doesn't go to my school and I have no pictures to show. Prom is coming up at the end of the year and I know he'll be so uncomfortable to even take a picture with me which will make me uncomfortable!!! I seriously don't know what to do. It's obviously not all about pictures or else I still wouldn't be with him after two years (he's lovely otherwise) but it would be nice to have a few. Any advice?
What should I do when my boyfriend still keeps pictures of his ex?
First question to ask is why does it matter to you? That’s a serious question, the answer is far from obvious.The second question is what do you want to get or achieve here, and why?Anyway, you ask what should you do. I’ll start by telling you what you could do, should’s another matter.For starters, if you really value this relationship what you could do is accept and tolerate that he had a past before he met you, and realize it’s possible that he wouldn’t be the person he is now had it not been for his past, and that it’s any person’s right, yours or his, to keep objects from his past. And that doing so doesn’t hard your or his present - unless your making it an issue causes that harm.What you *should* do is up to you. Should and could are two different things. One is limited, the other is far more open in terms of choices. One could do many things, what one should do depends on the results one wants. What results do you want?Basically do you want to make yourself and him miserable and destroy what could be a good relationship? Or do you want a relationship based on trust and respect and deeper love?I cannot stress this enough, I have seen so much relationship damage come from exactly the question you’re asking. Digging at this will cause you and him both far more suffering than is worth. I’ve been at both ends of similar dynamics, and have seen and known others in similar situations. But you will just go ahead and do what you’re emotionally conditioned to do unless you have the self-will to think very, very, deeply about this.My sister and her husband have a good policy on this, I think it was her idea actually. Both have a box, it’s that person’s alone, in it are pictures or mementos of the person’s past. It is the only thing inviolable in that relationship, neither partner is allowed to look into it. Both of them have the emotional maturity to keep this limit and respect it.Perhaps something similar might work for you and your boyfriend
My boyfriend saw intimate pictures of me and my ex. What should I do? He wants out?
This guy has clearly just gotten a bit upset and jealous at the thought of you with another guy. But he needs to remember he has a past too, even if he doesn't have picture evidence? If seeing a picture of you with an EX from your PAST is enough for him to leave you, then I don't think he's worthy of you at all. That is no good reason to leave someone, the pictures were taken 3 years ago and you have been nothing but loyal to this guy. Just talk to him, tell him you should've probably removed the pictures but you forgot they were there. Your ex clearly means nothing to you and the pictures are old. He is your future now, but if he won't accept your past, you need to let him go. I know it's hard, but you will benefit so much in the future. He was married before after all, and you learnt to accept that. You're not in the wrong here honey, don't forget that! xx
My boyfriend wants a picture of my ***!!!!! What should I do??
So my boyfriend and I have been going out for 2 weeks and he's constantly asking for a picture of my *** and idk what to do. He's not forcing me but I know he really wants one but I'm just not into sending those type of pictures. But yesterday I promised him I would send one later that day only because I'm sick of him asking. And we haven't talked since after that and hes probably expecting the picture but I don't want to send it anymore. :/ what should I do? I don't like breaking my promises. And I'm 14 and he's 15. And the picture I took was of me in my underwear, no my face wasn't showing. But still just the idea makes me VERY uncomfortable.
I really want naked pictures of my boyfriend...?
I don't think you're weird, nor do I think he is. It sounds to me like he's a little insecure with himself and probably doesn't want anyone to see him naked. I know you probably want pictures just for you to look at whenever, but it's not a really good idea. Sometimes people inadvertently find things and sometimes pics have a way of getting "lost." The best naked picture he can give you of himself is the "mental" picture. You can carry it with you wherever you go, and no one else will ever see it!
How do i take pictures with my boyfriend without it being awkward?
i want to take pictures with my boyfriend to put on myspace and facebook. of us like kissing and doing stuff thats silly. but i feel weird asking him to take pictures, cause i hardly update my myspace/facebook pictures cause i feel weird taking pictures of myself. idk. lol. can anyone help me? btw**i drink so maybe if we were drunk it would be less awkward?
How can I get my boyfriend to share pictures of us together?
Some people are just more active on social media than others. I don't know how active your boyfriend is otherwise (does he share photos of others?) but it varies a lot. Furthermore I generally find people how feel the need to flaunt their relationship on Facebook and Instragram constantly a bit annoying - and therefore I rarely do it myself. I really don't feel the need to share it constantly and I don't want to come off as annoying. That's why I don't do it. That doesn't mean I don't love myboyfriend. It's just not everywhere online. That being said, if it really bothers you and makes you feel uncomftable, tell him how you feel. I bet he doesn't know how you see it, he probably doesn't think about it. But please don't MAKE him do anything. It doesn't work.
Should I get mad if I see pictures of my boyfriend with his ex girlfriend?
As long as the pictures of not naked or risque pictures there’s really no reason to be. If these pictures are recent pictures and your boyfriend is in the pictures with her, then that’s brings up quite a few questions which you should address with your boyfriend to ensure everyone is on the same page.But if these are a few older pictures of just her or even the two of them together, it’s nothing to get mad over. Now to be clear, I’m saying a few pictures, not an entire multi-page library of pictures including her. I personally have a picture I keep of myself, an ex, and a couple of friends. Why? The poses and dark smokiness of the pool hall added a great effect on the picture as a whole and honestly I think it looks frigging bad ass. I also have a picture of us when we took a trip to Disney for the first time, as well as a couple others. This doesn’t mean I’m trying to get back in a relationship with her, doesn’t mean I think back and miss her every day, it’s just a reminder of my younger years and ALSO a personal reminder of what I do and don’t want in future relationships.In situations where I happen to come across a girl I’m dating with pictures of an ex, I simply open a dialogue to ensure the ex is someone of the past. If the topic is brought up delicately, you can often have a mature conversation and come to a conclusion as to why they have the photos.
My boyfriend wants pictures of my private bits, what should I do?
Listen to that song “you don’t own me” remake with g-easy and listen to the lyric where the guy asks for a picture amen the chick says “come see for yourself”.You don’t owe him a picture.I know a girl who make this mistake so many times.. first round.. yr 9 she sends a photo to a guy and he sends it to all his friends. Everyone heard about it.Yr 10, she does the same thing! Guy sends the photo to all his friends, again (different guy).Yr 12, same thing! Guy sends photos to everyone.She had especially bad luck and doesn’t choose nice guys although a few years after high school I’m in the car with another m8, guess what I hear? She had sent them to another guy who sent them to everyone!!Poor girl and I do like her as a person although she’s not smart in this regard. Take all these answers as a warning and note that these boys were dating that girl.
Why does my boyfriend keep naked pictures of his ex?
These sorts of issues all fall into the realm of boundaries that couples set for themselves. Some people may view this sort of photo about the same as any pornographic photo, many take personal insult, and feel intense emotion about it.This is something you have to calmly discuss with him. Listen carefully, and with an open heart. By doing this, he may come to the same conclusion as you, that it is needlessly hurting your feelings, and keeping him clinging onto a past that dead. You also have to be willing to change your conclusions if he has some reasons that could convince you. Problem solving is a valuable life skill that can bind a couple together.If he refuses to delete them, and you can’t live with this, then you will have to do what is right for you. I will warn you though - this is a modern problem and very common. It’s unlikely that he is the only guy with ex-photos that isn’t willing to delete. This seems to be pervasive, and not a one time situation that you will likely be able to control.