How to convince a friend to let more people come to our vacation?
So Senior Week is soon and going to be at the beach. My friend made a plan for me and someone else to go. She was already iffy about having 4 people because she complains about the size of the room(which it's a normal room that's really a normal amount) and me and myfriend want 2 more people to come. They absolutely don't mind sleeping on the floor OR we get the bigger room (which she wanted at first, but still with less people). We've tried to think of ways to convince her but she's convinced that even with the normal or bigger room it's too tight. We've already mentions like price deductions, funner, more party hook-ups, etc. How should I convince this stingy girl?
How to convince my friend not to run away?
You did not say how old your friend is...But if I assume that she is still in school then ask her to go to her school counselor. She doen;t have to tell them she is planning to run away but she needs to ask them what options she has other than living at home. There are many options that are going to sound better to an intelligent mature girl than being out on the streets in the dead of winter. Some parents who were good enough with grade schoolers seem to lose their balance when faced with teenagers. They want to do what is right but often dont know what that is. Teenagers need to know that their peers and their parents are not the only avenue open to them for getting help and advice. There is a whole system that can work for them if they use the right approach. DO NOT BREAK THE LAW by running away. That is the wrong door into the wrong system. Try every other resource first because running away is throwing yourself to the wolves.
How can I convince my friend to go out with me?
You two do look really cute together. She knows she has to go back to her country so she is probably afraid to get too involved. She went to homecoming with you and she let you kiss her, you both hang out as friends. It sounds like your friendship is slowly growing on it’s own.You both are at a crossroads where both your lives will change dramatically in the next couple of years. She will go back to her country and you will go off to college. My recommendation would be to take the pressure off the table and stop asking her to be your girlfriend and just enjoy the time you have together.She seems to have a good, rational head on her shoulders and pressure might just put her in a position to stop seeing you all together. Practice acceptance and keep doing what you are doing, life is an adventure that cannot be controlled, just enjoy your friendship with her as is.Who knows maybe you will get to kiss her again.the Best to the both of you
How to convince my parents to let my boyfriend come on vacation?
My grandparents have a house by a beach 2 hours out of the city, me and my family always go out there during the summer. I would love to bring my boyfriend out but my parents say no, my grandparents say yes ! so i can just go without my parents it just wouldn't be the same. There reason for saying know is he's younger and they don't want to be responsible ( im 18 he's 17 ) so its not like we are crazy young, i have brought friends out before they were always just girls also younger then me ! so what a lame excuse !! this is my first serious relationship so i know they are worried. I need help convincing them to let him come!! i have said we'll sleep in different rooms i have said wouldn't you like to be there to supervise rather then grandparents ? HELP PLEASE <3
How to convince my brother to strip for me and my friends?
I want him to come to my all girls party and strip for us, but he said no, but what can I do to make him change his mind? If your answer is to pay him, than no I won't, he's my brother and should be nice enough to do it for us for free. I'm not ashamed to say that my brother is a babe, and that I think he'll provide me and my friends great entertainment if he agrees to come, but first I have to convince him to come, how do I do that?
How to convince your parents to let you take a friend on a family vacay?
It might offend your parents that you don't want top spend a vacation with just the family, but I suggest you only consider taking your friend if your friend's parents pay for it. It would be extremely inappropriate to have your parents pay for your friend. If your friends parents are open to it, I would just go up and ask them. Don't be surprised if they say no the first time, stay persistent. It would also help if your friend and/or your friend's parents were there, too.
How can I convince my "best friend" that maybe we shouldn't be friends? I don't want to do it in a rude way though.
I’m not sure there is a ‘pleasant’ way to say that ‘we have been best friends’ but now I don’t want to be (even) your friend anymore.You have two options, be direct, or gradually slink away (breaking catch ups and avoiding them).More important is what sort of person are you and/or do you want to be? Either way if this person values your friendship and you are withdrawing it, they will be hurt.But, you the person who can’t be honest, won’t address an issue? Will you leave them wondering for the rest of their life what went wrong? Will you be the person sounding like a bad friend in years to come?Ive seen this more in relationships, where one person wants break up with their partner but ‘doesn’t want to hurt them’. In my view this is best rephrased as ‘I don’t want to come off sounding like the bad guy’.If your goal is not sound like the bad guy, then perhaps something along the lines of ‘hey XYZ, life is a bit crazy at the moment, I’m redefining my direction and it is limiting my time. I know you value ABC and I find that tricky to align with where I am at right now’ (I assume they have done or said something that has made you not want to be besties with them.)Good luck, and don’t be afraid to speak your own mind, you don’t need to be cruel or rude, they will be hurt, but constantly cancelling and avoiding them is generally not the nicest way to approach things.
How can i convince my parents to let my best friend come with us on vacation?
I want my bffeih(best friend forever even in heaven) to come on vacation with us. her parents already said she could. by the way we are not going by plane we are driving and i'm only in 4th grade. we have enough space to fit her in the car and my parents wouldn't mind paying for her dinner. we also have enough space to fit her in the condo that we are renting. my parents also know her very well because we have known each other since kindergarten, the thing is i don't know how to ask my parents to let her come.
How do you convince your parents to let you bring a friend on a family vacation?
You were wrong to ask your friend if she wanted to come before discussing it with your parents. You're also being a brat by making a list of why she should come as ammunition against your parents. You haven't considered the situation from your parents point of view. There will be additional costs involved and additional responsibility as your friend would be in your parents care. So I guess you'll just go without your friend, and probably spend the whole time making everyone miserable because you didn't get your way....right? Course, you could surprise them, and be mature, and help everyone have the very best family vacation ever!!!