How do I get over my ex-best friend?
That's tough. Sometimes a falling-out is resolvable and sometimes it's not. EitherIf you messed up then find a way to apologize. If it's their fault and you believe it's something that can be resolved then I suggest you sit down and really think things through before meeting up with them. If it's too hot of a subject to touch right now because then give it some time to settle and wait until you feel ready to talk about it (or when they're ready).If you want to work it out:Reflect over what went wrong. Analyze the situation from both points of view. Where did it go wrong? Is this a friendship worth saving or is the other person too toxic? Is your life better if you just cut ties? Be honest with yourself. Could you have done something different? Did you take them for granted? Did they take you for granted? Or were you both at fault?Then once you've come to your conclusion you can approach them and be honest with what you feel went wrong. Listen to how they feel and what they think. Together come to a possible resolution.If you want no future contact with this person:You're probably going to go through the grieving process.It's going to hurt even if the other person is at fault because you're going to miss the person you thought they were. You're going to miss the unique bond between you two. With every person you meet you develop a unique relationship, so you're going miss things about that person that are unique quirks of that person. It's best to just allow yourself to feel the pain and allow yourself to the grieve the relationship. Accept why that person is no longer in your life and focus on all the other positive things in your life. All the other great people. Find peace within yourself and make goals for yourself (even if they're little goals). With each new goal reward yourself and you’ll probably meet new great people along the way.Thanksfor the A2A!
Should I make amends with an ex-best friend?
I've been finding it quite difficult to move on from a friendship that was broken. I've known this girl since Junior High and are friendship stopped when she had an affair with my boyfriend of 3 years (I am no longer with him). After a year of hating her and not speaking to her, she found me on myspace and ask for my forgiveness. I REALLY forgave her and felt like a monkey got of my back. But a couple of months after we re-kindled our friendship, she started acting weird again. She even had the odacity to give her oppinions on my current relationship which she claims is controlling, etc. Anyways, we said many awful things to each other and stopped talking. But I can't seem to move on. Part of me hates her and part of me wants to write a letter and make amends. What should I do?
What do you do if you fall for your ex's best friend?
NO....its ok to date him....and yes....it will be really bad if your ex finds it out from anyone other than u two about the relation.Its a tricky situation, however some things to consider are below:how long have you and ur es have been dating?How intimate was it?How good a friend is your current boy friend with your ex?how amicable was ur break up?What kind of a person he is (jealous/fair) No, you dont owe ur ex anything, except may be common curtsey. Put him in his shoes, and think what u would feel if the same was done to you. Rmmbr, there are another relationship in stake here; the friendship between them can be ruined if not handled carefully.Cheer up....its not like you did "the switch"....right?
I still love my ex/best friend, what do I do?
As you fake only friendship for her, your actual feelings will be leading you to make decisions from a place that has nothing to do with friendship and everything to do with your attraction to her. You've friend zoned yourself to stay close to a girl who isn't with you anymore, and that sounds miserable.You say you still love her. My guess is that by staying so close to her, you aren't letting yourself move on. I think you need to let go of the idea of being her “best friend”. You aren't anyway; you're just faking it to stay close to your crush.You should either tell her you still like her and try to get her back, or you should put some distance between you in order to move on and maybe someday be actual friends…when you aren't still harboring feelings for her.
Do you ever miss your ex best friend?
I am a woman and my ex best friend stabbed me in the back during my sophomore year of college. We were friends since elementary school. After several back stabbing things that had happened over the year, she finally did something so mean to me that I completely lost it on her and we both promptly cut all ties and our friends even took sides because they were too scared to be in middle ground (that's how bad the fight was, noone stayed neutral even though we didn't make them chose sides). It's been almost 4 years and for some reason I still think about her all the time and wonder how she is doing. I ran into her 2 years ago in our hometown, but chose to say nothing to her and she did the same. I know I shouldn't care about her especially after she hurt me so much, but for some reason I still miss her. I have made a few friends since the incident but noone I can call a best friend that I have truly connected with. Is it normal to miss your best friend, even if she totally wronged you? Does anyone else feel that way. I want to move on but I keep thinking about her and all my former friends that took her side and now hate me and I get so bummed out about it...but at the same time I don't want to reach out to her because I don't want to get back stabbed like that ever again and I know she is still hostile towards me. How do you move on from missing an ex best friend?
I miss my ex-best friend ALOT? :(?
I went thru a really deep depression too when that happened. And im not going to tell you that things get better after awhile. You are still going to miss her and it sucks. What i did was try and distract myself and work on other friendships. But again it wont make the missing her part go away. If you want try and reach out to her one more time. What do you hav to lose? Another rejection, youve been thru that already. I gave up hope but one day i decided to txt my exbff and she responded and agreed to talk. Now we r working on our new friendship again, but its going great :) i think youll b ok! <3
Is it wrong to date your ex's best friend?
The flat out, less complicated answer is hell yeah it is.Well, under certain circumstances. ( I’m gonna get so much crap for this)I once dated this guy who was 21 when I was 18. I thought he was pretty cool, coming from someone who had JUST graduated high school. We were coworkers for a few months, and then one day, he confessed his feelings to me. We dated on and off for almost half a year, and let me tell you, it was awful. He had a lot of emotional problems. He didn’t know how to love me. Some days I was his girlfriend, some days I wasn’t. He brought up having an open relationship and polygamy a lot, which I refused since that wasn’t my cup of tea. He held me on a string and used me for emotional support and sex and company; the list can go on and on. I started to feel like I wasn’t worthy of love at all, as if my only purpose was to be a puppet and a mother to someone who didn’t even try to fix his problems before entering a relationship. To this day, I feel ashamed for allowing myself to accept anything less than the love I deserved.And this is where I finally answer your question.In the place where I worked, I had another coworker who was best friends with my ex. I absolutely loved hanging out with him. We would go on hikes, play video games together, spend hours talking about how much we hated our current relationships and helped each other out with that. It was completely innocent, he and I thought nothing of it… at least until we were both single. He was a caring guy, I could tell he loved me in a platonic way. But he gave me everything I needed; support, love, friendship, a shoulder to cry on, and so much more. Eventually, I told him how I felt and it turned out he felt the same for me. But we could not be together until he talked to my ex. He was uncomfortable with the thought of dating his best friend’s ex girlfriend without talking it through first. I waited about a week until they talked. My ex had told him that he saw it coming, because he was caring for me, because he was capable of loving me. A year later, he and I are still together and I’ve never been happier.Under certain circumstances, it is ok. If you have the opportunity to be happy, do it. But be careful, don’t be devious. Do it because you cannot see yourself with anyone else. There are plenty people in the world.
Am I obsessed with my ex-best friend?
I have this ex-best friend, and we stopped talking to each other about a month ago. We still don't talk, and I really hate her, but I can't seem to get my mind off of her. I always think about her, and it's not like I WANT to talk to her; I don't, but why is it that I find myself thinking about her all the time?
My ex-best friend hates me now? What do I do?
Here is what I can tell you about best friends. If she is truly your best friend, then she should forgive you no matter what the case is. Obviously that is not the case. So I have had the same best friend now for a little over 20 years. We've been through a lot. If I were you, I would act like it's not bothering you. Move on, continue with your life, have fun. She will see what she is missing out on. This happened between me and my friend. It took over a year for her to start talking to me again, but we are still BF-Fs. It's tough, but you have to be tough. Don't let it bring you down and hurt you so much, that is what it seems like she is wanting since she is feeling betrayed by you.
What do I do if my ex's best friend tells me that my ex still likes me?
Why your ex let you. Are you let her or her let you? Anyway . Are you still like your ex, you can being love again. Are you have a new one?? Oh my goodness if you have a new one don't cheat him\he. And you have to understand why you calling her /him like your ex because he/she is your ex. Ex mean ex. She/he was in your past. In present you if you have a new one don't cheat her/him because in future you will get another problem by your new one.