What should I do if my 30 year old son doesn't call me on my birthday or Mother's Day?
Does this happen every year? If so, then there's something wrong with your relationship with him. if there's nothing majorly wrong between both of you then he's being ignorant. You didn't explain what kind of relationship you both have. I don't buy the excuse that he forgets or is too busy that's BS! Every child should know when his mother was born or when Mother's Day is! If you were a good mother to him growing up he should show you love and respect. I don't know your background with him so it's hard to answer. My son is married and is 26 and never ever forgot my birthday or Mother's Day. I'm lucky to have him we were always close. I hope you two can work it out there's nothing like the love of your child good luck.
Why doesn't my son want to do sports?
I signed up for sports because I loved the idea of playing sports. Unfortunately, I didn’t love playing sports. My friends were die hard football fans so I joined the team after some peer pressure. I wasn’t the strongest or the fastest so I wasn’t appreciated by the coaches or my teammates. I hated having to stay after school for practice and spending my summer break practicing football. I hated being 120lbs and going up against a 220lb 8th grader. The pressure from the coaches, teammates, and the fans got to a lot of us weaker links. One of the kids who was on my level left sports to join the band. He got a band scholarship and is loving life. An acquaintance spent his time in art class. He’s living in Kuwait to do something with art. I’ve lost contact with him.Sports are for people who love sports. Art is for people who love art. Music is for people who loves music. Maybe your son just doesn’t love sports like you want him to.
What do I do? My son doesn’t listen to a word I say.
If you are always lecturing, and using too many words, most kids will tune mom out. Ask questions, and really listen to him. It may take him a while to get used to, but show that you want dialogue between the two of you and that he can talk to you about anything. That will hopefully make a better relationship between you two that will make him want to listen to you.
My son is a Furry what should I do?
Hello this is my first time on these things but here is my Question? What do I do if my son who is 18 claims himself to be Bisexual and something called a Furry? Ive researched the subject myself I found a lot of stuff on the subject a lot of the stuff I found was a litweirdierd but Hes on all of these sites that have all of this stuff related to furry like one of the sites was named Furaffinity.net and Diviantart.com, He has also talks in these IRC chat things and Ive found several folders on his profile accumulating files on the subject like: pornography furry pictures, fursuit stuff, wrighting and poems, comics and so on and so fourth but the question is that why does my son sway this way being Bi and a Furry did I make some mistake or something as a parent? Please help me!
How can I test if my son is gay?
I am worried my son might be gay. I want to get him checked. Isn't it possible to get a hormone check? A vocal cord check? Can't a doctor indicate he's gay or not? My son has almost no muscles and narrow shoulders. He has blue eyes. He talks in a very high pitch voice and while he sings he sounds like a castrato. He tells me his voice is called tenor. How can I test if my son is gay?
What should I do when my adult son doesn’t want to see me?
Get hard on him. Stop being nice to him. Tell him “How dare you not visit your own mother! What kind of sonne are you!!”Things like that. Get tough. Jewish and Russian mothers are tough as hell and they have their sons until their dying day.My mom is waaaaay soft. I never visit her. If she yelled at me and called me out on it I probably would.The reason for this is respect. The softer she gets the less I feel respect for her. (I had an effed up childhood so don't judge me about not seeing her).The thing is, no sonne really wants to see their mother (it makes us feel like a child again) but at least if she is tough as nails, we'll show up.
What do I do if my son is very smart but never does his homework?
My Dad was a bit like that. His parents received a school report saying he "sets himself very low standards and fails even to achieve these". He went on to earn a PhD in physics and provided for a family of five (and that quote became a family joke).When I was 9 my parents received a school report telling them I was "sub-normal". At 12 I was told by a teacher than I would never accomplish anything. At the age of 17 my parents received a school report saying "Jon has put no effort in this term". I got straight A's at school, the second highest mark in the world in maths and went on to earn a BA, MA, MSci and PhD from the University of Cambridge in physics and chemistry, founded my own company straight out of university and earned over $1.5M.So firstly I would say don't lose your sense of perspective: much more important that your family is healthy and happy. Secondly, he's probably bored because he either knows everything or does not know why he should know it. If the latter then try to spend some time with him going through a bird's eye view of his studies explaining why it is important for him to learn this stuff. For example, I aced math and science but I always sucked at geography and literature. Retrospectively, I sucked at geography because my parents told me it was a waste of time (it isn't: you cannot understand world markets without knowing some geography). I sucked at literature because I only read technical literature and was only ever tested on fiction. Had they given us all transistor datasheets for reading comprehension and asked us to extract the DC bias I'd have aced literature too.Now I have a son and, quite frankly, I don't care how he does at school. All I want to do is spend time with him. Learn with him. Be there for him. In fact, we've just been home schooling him for a year and, after 3 months at home with us, he is much happier, healthier and better educated. Whatever you do, don't lose sight of the big picture.
What should parents do if their 2 years son doesn't listen to them?
I am not sure what you mean by ���listen” Two year old have very low concentration span and can forget things as soon as you have said them. So repetition is a must.If you expecting the child to listen as in do what is asked of him than I suggest you teach by demonstration rather than telling them to do so. You may have to start by being with him and asking him to help with the chore and gradually get him to do it himself. Check if you are doing what you tell them you will do in your own work. Use appreciation of things they do each time. This makes them feel happy and confident of your love for them.There is something called consequence to actions that has to be done. so if your child does not behave at a grocery store the consequence to it would be that he has to stay behind and not come with you to the grocery next time. You have to be strict about it and not give in because he is whining or saying “Please”. You could take him on the third round and if he misbehaves again than he does not get to go till he starts behaving. This is like putting the responsibility on him. This makes the child realize that his misbehaviour can only stop him from getting what he wants. Punishing on the other hand makes him more rebellious.