Creepy obsessive friend?
I have only been "friends" with this girl for 6 months and she acts like we have been friends for years and its really annoying and I already have a best friend and I am not looking for any more. She always posts stuff on my wall like this 20 minutes ago: "There's a day called compliment day, supposedly. So here's your compliment: you are a beautiful, talented, incredible, amazing person. Never change who you are because if you change for someone else's benefit, you aren't living for yourself. <-- haha I tried to be all poetic and wise. :D But it's the truth! Because I love you the way you are! :)" * AND I AM THE ONLY THAT SHE DID THIS "COMPLIMENT DAY" TO! She always says shes loves me and I barely know her and I have NEVER said that to her. She always invites me places and I make up excuses that Im busy and she gets mad. I slept over at her house ONE TIME and she wanted me to sleep in the bed with her, but I said no and in the middle of the night I find her sleeping on the floor next to me. It was beyond creepy. I have told her many time to back off and Im not interested in being her friend and she doesn't get it and I have said this at least 5 times. I ignore her and she just doesn't leave me alone. She also copies all my clothing, classes and even dreams of mine. How do I get rid of her without being mean? And ignoring doesnt work...
Why does my female friend of 4 years now think it's "creepy" if I end my texts to her with "take care" or "stay safe"? I say this to all my friends! What should I say instead?
Not everyone is raised with the same ideas about “common” courtesy.I feel as though most people in the US (I presume you are in the US) will understand that “Take care” and “Stay safe” are nothing more than habitual pleasantries. That said, it should be clear from the answers you are receiving to this question that is not a universal understanding.You probably don’t think about it… why would you?… but both “Take care” and “Stay safe” come from a time when the world was largely seen as a very dangerous place. They still carry that connotation: that you need to be on your guard at all times. Some people will find that clashes with their worldview that the world (at least their part of it) is fundamentally safe, and so your thoughtless pleasantry strikes them as discordant. Insofar as it may provide a window to your worldview, it may introduce ideas of fundamental incompatibility into whatever relationship you have.I’ve worked with the general public for several years now. While I was raised to ‘keep my head on a swivel’ and be prepared for anything to happen, it has become apparent that most people are not raised with that attitude or those skills. Many, many people wander through their daily lives completely oblivious to what is happening around them. I believe this to be utterly irresponsible and foolish, but their lives are their own to treat as casually as they please.Such a person, who doesn’t have the skills to take note of the risk around him or her and has been lucky enough to never have this nonchalance backfire on them, may very well find that “Take care” and “Stay safe” are incomprehensible and paranoid things to say to a friend.I would seriously question the wisdom and safety of remaining friends with such a person; you may simply try ‘Bye’ instead.
My friend is acting really creepy?
(I'm a girl) So, lately she's been saying some really uncomfortable stuff to me. She always put winky faces after things and it's always in a "sexual" manner. When we hang out, I always end up getting touched inappropriately, no matter what and one time for no reason she grabbed me and pulled me on top of her ON THE FLOOR and everyone joked and said "lesbos" and stuff and other things like that happen a lot too. Actually, there's a rumor that she is, but at first when you talk to her she doesn't seem that way. Also, every time we say bye to each other whether it's in person, on the phone, or over chat/text, she always says "I love you". We're not very close, so she really shouldn't say that to me, I only say that to one person and that's my best friend. It was making me really uncomfortable so I said something to her about it. She said "well that's just how I am" and went offline. What do I do?? I can't like randomly stop talking to her, she's my only friend in one of my classes.
My best friend bought me a Voodoo doll?!?
So my my friend went to Louisiana and go me a Voodoo doll! I am super creeped out by this thing. It came with two pins and instructions on how to use it! I don't believe in any of that magic crap and I want to throw it out but I feel terrible if I did because my best friend bought it for me...I know I'm stupid for being freaked out and I know it's not real but do you think I should throw it out and not tell my friend? I'm telling you this thing is creeeepy! But what if my friend found out? Idk what to do! And I'm a terrible liar so if she asked me what I did with it I'm doomed.
Creepy! My best friend (a girl) said she wants to give me a golden shower! How do I respond!?
It was totally unexpected... We were just hanging out at my house and I was getting a little tired and I started to drift off to sleep on my bed. I woke up a few minutes later and she was standing over me about to drop trow and I caught her! I was like "WTF"? She got really embarrassed and started to cry so I tried to console her and asked her what was wrong. She said that it was silly, she wanted to give me a golden shower, and she always had wanted to but was unsure just how to go about it. I said she should have just asked me up front. What do I do now? It was kinda weird. We're both 17 and in school btw.
My dad called my best friend hot and sexy and it seriously creeped me out. What do I do about this?
She added him on facebook and was just asking how she was and all my best friend said was "oh yeah things are okay, just broke up with my boyfriend" and he started out making a joke saying "well if I was 30 years younger..." but he just kept joking saying "well too old for you" but then he said "well i think your hot and sexy but way too old for you" then facebook video called her. I knew he had a bit to drink but I'm really worried he will try it on with her and I'll lose my best friend and be humiliated. I tried to talk with him but he just said it was a joke but I honestly don't think he meant it as a joke. My father has a habit of flirting with women on facebook but there's a difference between women his own age at 50 to the age of me and my best friend at 21. Any ideas how I can resolve this?