I think my dad has been paying my ex-boyfriend to go out with me?
don't get me wrong I'm not ugly or anything, I'm actually pretty. my ex-boyfriend moved to my town recently and he seemed like middle-class and he applied for a job as a waiter in this Café that where i hang out alot. and then me and my dad were talking and i told him that i liked this guy but he'd never see me because there are more "hotter" girls then me at our school. so, the next day he comes and asks me out and i say yes, he acted like the perfect boyfriend and the longer we date the more he buys expensive stuff and i actually found a check of 7000$in his drawer from my dad! (my dad is very rich). and after a while, he cheated on me with my ex-bff and he dumped me for her and suddenly he didn't seem so rich anymore, he lost the apartment he was living in and he wasn't driving any hot cars and anymore. (my ex-bf is a manstipaded minor, it means his parents dont control him). we're only 17. anyways, should I stop talking to my dad? i didn't bring it up yet? should I? I still have feelings for my ex too what do I do?
My Dad caught me in the middle of orgasm with my boyfriend! HOW DO I MOVE ON FROM IT?
MY DAD CAUGHT ME AND MY BOYFRIEND HAVING SEX! I'm 19. I live in an apartment in Chicago. My Dad lives in Vancouver, and I had no idea he was coming to visit! My boyfriend is 20, he's currently in the army, but he was on leave for a few days to visit me when this happened. Okay so when we got home we were dying to take each other's clothes off and **** each other senseless. We left the bedroom door, wide open.. So, i'm laying down on my stomach on my bed, my boyfriend's on top of me, my back to his front, and we're having really, really, hot, rough sex. He was pulling my hair, spanking me, grunting, calling me this and that. I looked up and saw my Dad in the doorway, frozen.. frightened. Like a deer caught in the headlights. I was in the middle of orgasm when he showed up! and i'm pretty sure my Dad heard it! I HAD A HUGE HANDPRINT ON MY *** and I thought he was going to kill my boyfriend! I was like: "DAD!" and I hurried to cover up. My bf covered his junk and then got dressed. My Dad almost ran out of the room LOL! He couldn't even look at me when I tried to talk to him about it. He won't acknowlege my boyfriend!! I had no idea he was coming! I felt so ashamed! But he should have knocked! HOW DO WE MOVE FORWARD FROM THIS? Please help!
My boyfriend and dad can't stand each other, and I'm stuck in-between. What should I do?
This is definitely one of those questions that requires a lot more information. The answer would change depending on your age, for one thing. If you’re a minor or still living at home, your dad’s opinion is much more important than if you’re an adult and self-sufficient.Another point would be to understand why they can’t stand each other. Are they both prickly people who have trouble getting along with others? (In that case, ask yourself why you want to date a copy of your dad.) Is your dad disapproving of everything and generally negative? (In that case, give yourself and your relationship some space from your dad.) Is your dad usually reasonable and hating your boyfriend is out of character for him? (In that case, get some outside opinions. Maybe your boyfriend is terrible and you just can’t see it, and your dad is justified in his dislike and you should take his opinion under advisement.)Another question is: how do your mom, sisters, aunts, cousins, friends feel about your boyfriend? Is your dad’s the minority opinion? Can your mom persuade your dad to behave around your boyfriend? If so, can you persuade your boyfriend to behave around your dad? You can’t do much if your dad is just like that all the time, but if your boyfriend can’t bother to call a truce with your dad, that’s kind of a relationship red flag (unless your dad really is that awful, in which case you should spend less time with him). If your boyfriend is the awful one, you should dump him.
My dad caught me and my boyfriend having sex...?
I'm 17, and last night my boyfriend of 10 months and I were alone in the basement of my house, and we thought my parents had gone to bed so we started having sex. Then about 10 minutes later my dad walked downstairs to get something and caught us right in the middle of it! He told my boyfriend to go home, and he didn't really say anything to me, but now I feel like there's a lot of tension between us and I don't know what to say to him. What should I do!?
I hate my boyfriend but I'm stuck with him. ?
He's put me through a lot of bullshit I made the stupid decision of getting pregnant with his child I'm currently almost 19 weeks. I wish I could leave him but I'm stuck with him. The only other place I have to live is with my dad which is out of town. I'd live there but I can't go to school out there and online schooling is way too expensive. I just want to get my education done take out some student loans and leave him. I can't stand him at all. He cheats on me then blames me for it because I make him so mad he has to go cheat. He comes home and smashes everything everytime we fight. He can be really nice but he won't ever change. I ignore him and he freaks out so that doesn't work. I feel so unappreciated. I've lost hope with him, he's made it pretty clear if I leave he wants nothing to do with this baby. That's fine when I leave I don't even want child support from him I want nothing. In the mean time I have to put up with him till I'm able to move out. How can I cope with someone like him?
Help! My husband hates our daughter's boyfriend and will not allow him at our house. What can I do?
Just tell your husband to relax and look at the facts clearly, your daughter is 18 and if she really likes the guy then he should probably try to at least like him because it's his daughter for him nobody is right for her but make him understand that if he keeps doing that she could move out or even be mad at him and that is ssomethinghe wouldn't want.
How do I help my girlfriend who is being abused at home by her parents, emotionally and physically?
I am honestly hurt by some answers on here telling you not to step in. If she is incapable of standing up for herself she NEEDS someone who cares about her enough to. Physical and emotional abuse is not considered stupid rules. Hating your parents because they are abusive is not some sort of teenaged aingst that will disappear as an adult when you reconnect with your parents.Some people NEVER get that. Some people hate their parents and their choices forever. You dont get a second set of parents, you dont get a re-do. Some people have shitty parents and it hurts really bad to deal with that.I grew up in an abusive home, I would never have stepped in and ended my relationship with my parents unless I met my boyfriend that I'm with now. We met at 16 and when he realized what my home life was like, he took me out and kept me at his house as much as he could until I could move in there at about 18-19. He lived in a very healthy loving family so it is a much better environment for me. I finally got to seek counseling and recover from what my parents did to me, I finally got to see how loving parents could treat me like and how much my boyfriend cared for me.Please, if you love and care about this girl, STEP IN. dont ignore it, dont be passive with her parents, make sure she is comfortable the whole time but encourage her to know her worth and teach her to stand up for herself too. Understand that she will have a life long history of trauma from them that is breaking down before her eyes and she will have to cope with that for a VERY LONG time.Call CPS, call the cops, keep her with you as much as possible and let your parents know what is happening too so they can take care of her as much as they are willing and can. They might have a better time communicating with the cops and CPS as well.I really hope this helps. Please help her.Without someone like my boyfriend to point out to me what's normal and what's not, and what I shouldn't stand for I would have been so blinded by my parents psychological abuse and I would have kept them in my life to abuse my future children without realizing it. I would have been damaged by them forever with no hope to recover. Some people cant make the choice to get help on their own, some people need someone to care for them for a little bit.
Christian Parents Caught Me & My Boyfriend Having Sex!!!!! Please any advice?
(I'm 17) Yesterday me & my boyfriend were having sex in my room. We thought my dad was sleep but he must've woke up & walked in on us in the middle of having sex! My dad told both of us to get in the car & drove my boyfriend home. But during the drive he got in the fone with his mother and told him what happened. So she was yelling at him when he got home & she told him to say sorry to my dad. My dad came home & called my mom & told her what happened since she was at work. My dad is shocked but my mom is furious. My dad is trying to blow it off but he is still upset, but since my mom came home last night to now she won't talk to me. I asked her a few minutes did ahe still not want to talk to me & she said she still doesn't. But my bfs parents are more laid back & don't look at me any different & still want me & my boyfriend to be together and work it so they they want to meet up with my parents but my mom is so mad she doesn't even want to meet up with them. What should i do? Help?!
What is considered upper class, middle class, etc.?
There is no clear definition and this is for several reasons: 1) A lot of it has to do with where you live. For instance, I live in the Northeastern US (Connecticut specifically) which is the wealthiest area in the country. Around here, $130k/yr. is certainly "well off", but there are many, many people who make more than that. In CT, that salary would certainly place you in the middle class. In a lower income state/region (like the deep south), $130k/yr. would make you one of the area's wealthier citizens It's important to look at salary vs. cost of living in your area. 2) There are other things besides an annual salary that can determine "class standing". Things like property ownership, net worth (assets - debts), available credit, etc... also have an influence on your social position. 3) It's all about perspective. To a struggling single mother who is bringing home $30k/yr. and can barely afford to feed herself and her children, $130k would be extreme wealth. But as far as Donald Trump is concerned, your dad is a peasant. Hope that helps.