I'm only 17 but i feel like my life is falling apart?
So i've had a really close group of friends since i was in 7th grade and they're my best friends in the world. This school year started off great and we were all close, but then one of us got a boyfriend (not me) and just distanced herself from everyone and she's depressed a lot (we don't bother giving her advice anymore). Then me and my other best friend got in a huge fight and even though now we're friends i still feel like she hates me. And my other friend is depressed because of some other stuff too. I feel like i'm just left out because i'm so happy and their all just so sad and i feel like they think i just don't understand. Also it just kills me that we're all just drifting so far apart. Another thing is i feel like everybody knows now what their going to do with their lives and i have no clue. I just feel...behind everyone. I do good in school and i plan to go to college and stuff but i feel like others have it figured out so much more. I feel like everyone doesn't care about me anymore because i can't relate. I feel like i'm losing everything...
It feels like my life is falling apart and i don't know what to do?
I've heard the phrase "It gets better" so many times--and all I want to do is roll my eyes at them and flip them the bird--but I don't, because even as bad as I feel and as hopeless as everything seems to be sometimes, I know it will get better because I will do anything to make it better. You can get better grades--you will to get better grades (Makes this your mantra!). You need to be confident and determined because life will be so much easier if you can have a good education. I know that feeling of emptiness, I know how it is to feel the world is against you and that your parents detest you and that all of your friends are not the same people they used to be--I get it. Been there, done that. It's okay if you might be feeling a little overwhelmed by all this things but you need to be a tougher cookie. I know it's a very lame way to describe how you need to start seeing things, but it's the best advice somebody gave me once. You have to be the best "you" you can be and understand that things are not always what we want or expect in life, but you have to be prepared to realize that this is just a phase and that--like I said, things will get better.
It feels like my social life is falling apart?
Im a freshman in college out of state and it feels like whatever little social life i had is coming to an end. Ive never been good at meeting new people and making friends, so when i do make friends I usually stick with them unless something happens. I had a group of friends who always hang out and do stuff together, but now it feels like their all cutting me out. They will say they have no plans or that their not doing anything one night, and then i will find out later that they all just got together and went to a party or a game like they usually do, but just excluding me. This has been going on for about 2-3 weeks now. At this point i dont think i have the energy or the skills to try and make new friends, and I have nobody in my life to go to or even talk to on a level deeper than small talk or for more than 30 seconds. I'm just on the verge of giving up and doing what i did in high school.. focus on school and waiting out the 4 years hoping theres something better at the end.
It Feels Like My Life's Slowly Falling Apart?
Ok so I'm 13 ( This Is My Sisters Acc.) I don't know where to start so i'll just start from the beginning. When I was young like around the age 11-12 I met a 14 y/o on this game thing. Btw he lived across the country from me. So I started talking to him and told him I was 14 too. ( I Know I know. . . It was really stupid and know that im older i stopped talking to him) but now it's coming back to haunt me. I Made an Instagram about like a month ago and today I remembered his name so I looked him up and ACCIDENTLY liked one of his pics. Now I think he knows Im About 2 years younger than him but the worst part is yesterday before this all happened his ex girlfriend ( shes my friend ) texted me saying he missed me and wanted to talk to me so then I texted him saying Hi and stuff. . . Now If only I Never texted him yesterday I wouldn't feel bad about losing his friendship but now i do feel bad So I guess I lost his friendship. D; Ughh Idk what to do. . Alot of bad things are happening to me that I don't want to talk about this is just one of them and I don't know what to do anymore I have clothes, a bed, alot of things and don't get me wrong I appreciate all of these things but why can't my life be good just for one month or two D; Also I think I Might fail my math class ): I Get All A's In everything else but math is really hard for me ( Right now I have a D ) My mom is pressuring me and telling me to be more like my sisters and I try but I Just can't D; Im bringing it up though slowly but surely.I'm just feeling really sad lately. . Sorry If This Is long I just wanted to let all of this out to somebody. . Anybody.Thanks for listening. .
What do I do when I feel like everything is falling apart in my life?
Hey bro we've all been there and went through what your going through, just keep your chin-up. Are you involved in extra-curriculars? if not you should join a club or team at your school, you'll make good friends and helps you feel involved. Your only 14 you got a lot of fun times that will eventually come. Have a good attitude towards things and always look at the negative as it will only make you more stronger not defeat you. If grades are you know bad just spend time to do it and you'll get it, my coach said even extra 5min each night will help. Now about girls, don't worry there's plenty of them, you just gotta be patient and see which ones are right for you. You know you could go to teenclubs aged 14-18 or something like that, you'll have so much fun, i was nervous my first time but just gotta ask them if they wanna dance and its fun bro( try to go with a good buddy so you don't look wierd as you're asking girls to dance. I hope things start turning out well for you, good luck : )
My life is falling apart, so it feels like it, help?
It seems like things are so hard right now. I know that when you're a teen evrything feels like the end of the world, but it all hurts. My mom is doing everything to keep me from my boyfriend who I am in love with and he is me. We are each others best friend and know eavhother so well and have everything in common but my mom is controlling and is saying I can't see him anymore nut a few hours on weekands. She thinks I am throwing my life away to him even though I am going to college but she won't give me my college money unless I go to the college she wants me to go to. Me and my boyfriend plan on getting married at 18 which is gonna be soon but my mom doesn't want to have anything to do win me because she is pestimistic and doesn't beleive in love. We do, she has her beliefs and we have outs. And now my boyfriends mom who never really cared thinks we are obsessive because we want to see each other so badly (why we want to is because we barely see each other as it is). My boyfriends mom thinks it is my fault he "gave up everyone he cared about" but in truth he gave them up because they were awful friends. She only liked one friend because he always kept his mom informed about what he was doing and he always spread rumprs so of course he doesn't want to hang out with a rumor starter and all our other friends we stopped hanging out with were thieves and druggies. But our parents hunk we should get our friends back and honk it is the others one fault we have no friends when in truth we are doing better for ourselves. They don't understand and olare keeping us apart and it is killing me inside because I love him. He gave up on arguing because it makes matters worse. I am just so tired of having every aspect of my life controlled by my mom and now his I hav been having suicide thoughts, I'm scaring my boyfriend now and all I wanna donos have everything better and back to where we always used to be able to hang when ever before they found out we were in love. I just need advice because I have no one to help me And school councslers are useless and feel the need to have a parent in there too. We have tried discussing this with our parents but they don't listen. Just advice please, I need it :)
Please help me i feel like my life's falling apart?
I have a huge crush on this guy that lives across the street from me and one day when I was walking my dog he came with me and we exchanged numbers and got to know each other better and I felt really comfortable with him like I could tell him anything as time passed we grew closer and we started talking about sex and stuff he knows I'm a virgin and I know hes not but he kept asking have I ever masturbated or do I watch porn and j was like no so he let it go a week later he invited me over his house to chill cause we were out of school early and I didn't have anything else to do so I went at first it was fine we were just friends then he started rubbing my leg and calling me beautiful and saying how bad he wanted me but I just laughed him off then he starting unzipping his pants and he pulled out his Dick and told me to suck I said no and told him I was leaving then he grabbed my face and pushed my mouth on his Dick I was so scared I didn't know what to do he choked me until I opened my mouth and thrust his Dick in my mouth over and over again afterwards he told me if I told anybody it would be a lot worse was I raped? What should I do now? Is it wrong that I still care for him?
I feel like my life is just falling apart :(? SERIOUS.. no HATING?
so im 15 and i feel like my life is falling apart.. so my parents got a divorce about 2 months ago, im living with my mom. my mom is a legal guardian for one of my friends (his dad died and his mom walked out when he was younger) and she also take's care of me and my 17 year old twin sisters.. my dad just found out he parents another daughter who is 12 years old (which means he cheated on my mom) .. my dad is a complete idiot he only cares about his blackberry and his new long lost daughter. and on top of this all im trying to keep a relationship with my bf who lives in Illinois and i live in new jersey.. i honestly feel left out even tho i have like the most amazing best friend..i kinda want more attention from my mom, and my dad..i wanna fix my relationship with my dad also i dont know what to do :( can someone plz help me, suggestions on what to do thank you sooooooooo much xx