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What Do I Do When My Best Friend Is Leaving For College

How can I deal with my best friend leaving for college?

I'm still in high school, a junior to be exact. But a few years ago I was moving from my hometown and left my close friend there. I was worried about how things would go but I think the key is just keeping in touch. We talked at LEAST once a week on the phone. We would send each other pictures, write each other letters and draw silly stuff. When you're on the same page with somebody, like feeling the same and both wanting to keep in contact then things are made so much easier because that's what a friendship takes 2 people..not one or one and a half.

Another thing is be open to each other meeting new people. Be happy for her when she meets new friends but don't feel jealous or upset if she starts to get close with other people. That doesn't mean she's forgetting you, so don't take it to the heart because she's probably always going to have a place for you. My friend took it to the heart and it caused a huge thing to come, to the point where she started to act different and was so jealous and angry. We're rebuilding our friendship now and its been difficult to get close again but its doable if we both stay on the same page.

The best thing you can do now is just talk to her. Tell her how you feel and let her know how you'll miss her. Make her a card and write her a note, telling her everything you want her to know like some of the things you'll never forget, how much of a friend she is to you, and everything like that. Spend as much time as you can with her and take lots of pictures.

Don't worry. Don't worry about her. Because she's going to be fine and will be your friend even when she's gone. Don't worry about yourself. You just keep busy with things and try to hang out with other friends, you'll do alright. Things will work out, you'll see! :)

Hope I helped and good luck to the both of you!

How do i handle my best friend leaving for college?

We've been friends and met each other freshman year in high school and best friends since the summer going into our sophmore year. Ever since we've together constantly, all of our friends see us as a pair if they see one of us they ask where the other one is. She's like my sister we tell each other absolutely everything and have enough inside jokes to make your head spin. But with her i've always felt like the backup best friend because before we were best friends she had a best friend for 15 years(since they were born) and they forcefully had to stop being friends. So eventhough she never said it i always felt like i was her backup friend. But anyways she just left for college two days ago (i'm going to a college right where we live so i didnt have to go anywhere) and i'm worried that maybe because she's one of the most outgoing person i've ever met she's gonna make a whole lot a friends and within one of those shes gonna find someone thats gonna replace me. Im not bothered that she makes friends just that she might make a new best friend...thats what worries me. I need some advice or else i'm gonna freak!

What is the Best gift for friends leaving college?

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What should I get my friend who is leaving for college?

I think there are a few avenues you can take.Everyone loves deep, meaningful stuff - so if there is a hobby, interest, or passion your friend has that really means something to them, get them something that has to do with that. For example, if they really enjoy poetry or writing, it may be nice to get them a poetry book or something along those lines. I think even if it is something small, this will still show them that you care about them and love them enough to know what they love and enjoy.Get them something funny! You and your friend probably have some type of inside jokes, and if you can somehow incorporate these into a gift, that would be awesome. This way every time they see that gift, they’ll be reminded of you.Here are just some things you can put together for your friend that I would consider giving:A photo album - this would be especially great if you guys have known each other for a long time, so the album can kind of document your guys’ times together over the years. Incorporate some aesthetic, nice pictures with some funny ones, and have fun with it! Make it scrapbook style, with cool cutouts and quotes.A video - the video can be a collection of their friends saying nice stuff about them (or just you!), or it can be a collection of photos but with some cool music in the background.A nice card or letter - a lot of times it’s just nice to receive some super thoughtful words from a friend even in the form of a simple card.Have fun with this, and hope you think of something awesome! Let me know if you like any of these ideas <3

My best guy friend (crush) is leaving for college..do i tell him how i feel?

Alright well my best guy frind is leaving for college in Augest and he's 17, and i'm 13...i've told him i like him before, and then when i don't like him...it's a promise we made. And I'm no sure if i like him anymore...and I'm sooo scared that he'll forget me...I'm just what do i do?

Should I leave my friends for college?

Do whatever feels best. If you want to pursue your education, go for it. But if leaving your friends is too hard to take, then don’t. My advice is weigh out the outcomes. If you leave your friends, what happens? You maintain a steady education. You’ll be able to learn more, and perhaps be successful in the future.If you stay with your friends, possibilities are you’ll be able to spend time with them. Depending on how you spend it, ofc.My best advice is to go to college, but still try to keep in contact with them. On social media, texting, but at the same time not neglecting your school work. College is hard, and you won’t have much time to be with them, but after two years of learning, you can reunite with your friends again.

BEST FRIEND LEAVING FOR COLLEGE, NEED SAD SONG PLEASE?

I Will Remember You- Sarah McLachlan

Lyrics:
I will remember you
Will you remember me?
Don't let your life pass you by
Weep not for the memories

Remember the good times that we had?
I let them slip away from us when things got bad
How clearly I first saw you smilin' in the sun
Wanna feel your warmth upon me, I wanna be the one

I will remember you
Will you remember me?
Don't let your life pass you by
Weep not for the memories

I'm so tired but I can't sleep
Standin' on the edge of something much too deep
It's funny how we feel so much but we cannot say a word
We are screaming inside, but we can't be heard

But I will remember you
Will you remember me?
Don't let your life pass you by
Weep not for the memories

I'm so afraid to love you, but more afraid to loose
Clinging to a past that doesn't let me choose
Once there was a darkness, deep and endless night
You gave me everything you had, oh you gave me light

And I will remember you
Will you remember me?
Don't let your life pass you by
Weep not for the memories

And I will remember you
Will you remember me?
Don't let your life pass you by
Weep not for the memories
Weep not for the memories

Link:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uHooH4464...

I'm in love with my best friend. He is moving away to college very soon, and I am not through high school yet, so I will still be here. I will not tell him I am in love for his sake. Is there any way to let him know lightly that I like him before he leaves?

Gift him a self-made card.Mention some of the good times spend together (by pasting some photos of both of you).As he is going to some other place to study, you can tell him (by writing on the card,  its more effective than just saying) to take care of his health, studies, be in a good company of friends etc.You can also mention (lightly) about your feelings, how much you care for your friendship and what it meant for you.At the end, tell him to BE IN TOUCH. Thanks!!

My best friend is leaving school, what to do?!?

Next year my best friend ever is leaving my school and going to a different school. We have been through everything together and we have so much in common and she is just my best friend ever! Anyway, as if that wasn't bad enough her mom isn't even letting her play lacrosse this spring , which would be her last season of lacrosse at our school. We both played lacrosse last year and we both pulled each other through it because our team was kind of mean and we weren't really close to anyone else on the team. I feel so alone and depressed! I need someone but I can't really go to anyone about this, I talk to her about it but there's not much she can do. Does anyone have any suggestions on how to deal with this?? Thanks

Going away to college, leaving my friends/best friend.?

First of all, your feelings are completely normal and you should know that most people in your situation are feeling the exact same way. Moving to college can be very scary for a number of reasons, but it is also a super exciting time in your life! It will definitely be hard, once you are there, to not be able to see your friends as much as you are used to. But they will only be a phone call away. And an hour and a half is really not that far of a drive if you want to hang out with them. Maybe you should try to make a plan before you even go of a weekend that you can travel to your friend's school to check it out and another weekend that they will come to you to see your new school. This way, you will have those times to look forward to and you guys can share in each other's excitement! You can also get a feel for what their new life is like, and they can get a feel for yours. You guys will be making new friends, so it will also be cool to introduce your best friends to your new college friends. It will almost be like you are creating one really extended circle of friends.

Any change in life can be difficult. But really try to focus on the positive, be proactive about keeping in contact with your old friends, and enjoy your college experience! Best of luck!