Why do I feel like a lonely loser when I masturbate?
I know what you mean. But somebody - don't remember who - said that all animals feel sad after intercourse. I don't see why masturbation should be any different. By the way, look at any guy in your school. He's a wanker. My girlfriends little brother once said to me, "I hate being 14." I asked him why. He said, "Because anybody can look at me and know I masturbate." I said that I doubted people were going around looking at teen boys and thinking, "Gee, he masturbates." And then it took me about two months to stop looking at teens and thinking that they masturbate. Thanks for nothing, Joey! Anyway,there are a lot of lonely losers out there. As far as guilt goes, man I'm 60 and I'm still trying to figure that out.
Why do many women feel like "losers" if they are single/alone on Valentine's Day?
I understand why someone who's single may feel bad on Valentine's Day when they see all the presents and couples doing things for each other, but as far as the actual DAY goes...it's dumb to be sad just because you are single THAT DAY. If girls really get together on Valentine's to console each other, that sounds soo lame lol. The day isn't that special; girls should console each other when something actually happens, or when they are naturally feeling sad...not be miserable every time they are single on Valentine's; that's so unnecessary. I would think they just use it as an excuse to have a get-together, but what do I know. Answer to the question: There's no GOOD reason to be a "loser"...
I feel lonely at times. I feel like I am losing myself. What should I do?
Loneliness and being alone is two different things.If your case is the later one, try being with friends or family or both.... If you case is loneliness :Loneliness is a feeling of emptiness or hollowness inside you. You feel isolated or separated from the world, cut off from those you would like to have contact with.The immediate thing you can do is Recognize the lonely feelings and express them..Talk to the one who is responsible and express it.The big change, of course, is to stop being passive and become more active. If we’re missing someone, such as parents, family, or friends, we can telephone, write, e-mail or visit them. Talking to an understanding friend can often help change our moods as well.Develop a hobby like writing or follow any game or support some club or player you will already be involved a lot and will come across their fan base.Hope this helps and losing myself... Thats negativity... Throw them far away....
Do you feel like a loser after masturbating..?
I'm 18 years old (male) and I masturbate literally every day around 1-2 times. Even on the weekends after I hang out with my friends (we normally just chill at my friends house and watch TV and shoot basketball outside) I come home at 11pm which is my curfew and get a session in which normally last around 20 minutes to 2 hours. .yeaa... lol. But I feel like a loser because I see everyone else partying and I just sitting here jerking it haha. I'm not eh partying type though and I'm busy on college and sports so I don't won't a gf and I don't do casual sex.. (yea I'm still a virgin) so do you guys ever feel like a loser getting off on like a Friday night or something?
How do I not feel depressed about being a loser?
The first thing you can do is to stop calling yourself a loser. You’re not. You’re just a person, with different strengths and weaknesses, just like every one else on earth. You mention you’re studying computer science at college. This is a positive real achievement. Give yourself some credit for it :)You also say that you’re always trying to learn. Congratulations. You have already developed a skill, that will benefit you for the rest of your life.The second thing you can do is stop comparing yourself to others. It’s pointless. You will always meet people who are better at some things and worse at others. If you compare yourself, you will always almost, do so in a negative way.Everybody has problems in their life. But, in general we present the best of ourselves, when we engage with others. Do you know how many people are secretly desperately unhappy? Have you ever heard of a supposedly perfect couple breaking up? Have you ever heard of a famous person being treated for depression, despite seeming to “have it all”? My point is, unless you’re extremely close with all those people who “do everything better than you”, you cannot possibly know the challenges and difficulties they are facing.The third thing you can do is seek help for feeling this way. Is there a counselor in your college that you can see? Is there a support group for students who feel like they’re struggling? Is there a therapist you can afford to see if not?Good luck. Be kind to yourself.
I feel like a loser because im homeschooled...?
If it's your friends you miss seeing, maybe find some time to hang out with them outside of school. Just let your mom know you would like to go back to public school, and stick it out for the rest of the semester. We believe in you!
Will someone ever date a loser like myself...?
Well, if you were to see me in person, you wouldnt think im a loser at all, i look totally normal, i act normal but inside i am so alone. I have very few friends. I am in college, female, 19 and everyone is all about partying it up and hooking up with people who mean nothing to them.I am the complete opposite. I have nothing in common with many people my age.I look happy alot but when i leave school, i become invisible once again and am alone. What if i meet a guy, what would they think of a loser like myself. Im always alone and i feel so sad because so many guys my age just look past me, even though i am a good person, but they all go after the girls who do hurt them instead and then they wonder why? my main question is would a guy ever consider going out with a girl who spends most of her time alone with only one friend.