My best friend loves me. I don't love him. What should I do?
“Love and Friendship”, both the words have their own importance. Love gives us pain and frienship gives us peace. Love is unconditional but it's a need. Friendship is forever but it's a Joy. Love is eternal and friendship too. But in love you think about the other person and forget youself, but in frienship you love the other person not by forgetting youself. Frienship makes you stronger and loves makes you weaker(Exception are always there). There is a very thin line between love and friendship.Both the words are very powerful. If u say , “you love him as a friend” , that means you love yourself first and then your friend.If u say , “ you have fallen in love with him”, that means you love him first by forgetting yourself. He’s more important than your life.You got to understand this, “Everything that falls, get broken”. Without a heartbreak you can't say , that you have been in love ever.Now just take time, and think. Do you love him or not.??Is he your friend??OrIs he your lover??OrIs he your soulmate??As of now. By looking at your question. I think you are puzzled in your own thoughts.Solution to this is : Get distinct from your Bestfriend. Stop texting him for few days. You would get to know the real truth of yours. Just listen to your heart. Imagine that he is not your friend anymore. You would get to know , the feeling you are going through is love or it's just a friendship.If you are clear on this, that he is just your Bestfriend! Nothing more than that. Then why are you so much concerned about him.If you think , that he is your Bestfriend than just go to him and tell everything straight forward.Why are you hesitating ??If he is your Bestfriend , he would totally understand your situation. Because friendship is more important that love. If he is your true friend, he would choose friendship over love.Don't get conscious. Be brave enough to face it. Wether it's a breakup or rejection. (In terms of frienship).P.S - Friendship and love are like worshipping a god. Needs more devotion and patience. Don't destroy it. It takes million of days to build it and a second to destroy it.All the best.
What does it mean when someone calls you "love"?
The guy I am dating has recently started calling me "love" ie. bye love or ok love. He is not british and this is a completely new thing. He recently wrote me an email and signed it "love you" I have been in love with him for months - we have dated for almost a year and what I want to know now is does this mean what I think it does. I know men are not all that demonstrative with declaring their affections but I am thinking this could be a good thing.
Im sick of my best friend calling me a nerd, help!?
Okay, I am fifteen years old, and there are two things i love, that I am really passionate about: fashion and history. So to most people you would have no idea that i love history, but whenever i tell my best friend Im going to the reference library or something like that shell say things like "have fun" and start laughing or call me weird and stuff. and Im like i am REALLY sorry i do not care about skipping class, failing classes and smoking weed and drinking during school, but I have INTERESTS. so sue me. what should I do? im sick of being made fun of for something im interested in!
I am in love with my girlfriend's best friend, what should I do?
First: Tell your girlfriend that you’re sorry, she’s a wonderful girl and she’s gonna make someone a wonderful girlfriend but she’s not the one you’re looking for and in the interest of minimizing pain all around, you think it’s for the best if you call it off.Don’t be an asshole about it. Don’t hedge your bets. Don’t keep her hanging on just in case this other thing doesn’t work out. That’s not fair.The sooner you cut her loose, the sooner she’ll get over you and find love again. It might be kind to help give her a great reputation by talking her up to give her a head start on finding love again. Always leave people in a better position than you found them. Consider this your good dead for humanity.Let that settle down before you make your next move.Now, go talk to her best friend. She’ll have far more respect for you for treating her friend with kindness and respect and now have a conversation about how you two want to proceed. Your girlfriend will take it a whole lot better if you were kind about your split too. She’s far less likely to cause you problems or blow up their friendship if she sees you as a good man who would be good for her best friend and it could be a win all around.The key is respect and kindness. Don’t make things more complicated than they need to be.