Is a guy sincere when he apologizes over text?
He’s been busy, didn’t have time to get back to you, and is using a polite phrase. Why are the only two choices that you see are that he is genuine or that he is making up excuses? Maybe he’s just busy, and that’s all there is to it. The 3rd choice is to respect that he might be busy. If you keep after him by complaining about it, you will drive him away. So…. I would recommend not saying anything , and refraining from texting so much. If he is really interested in you as much as you are interested in him, he will wonder what’s going on with you, and you’re just giving him some space.
What Does it Mean When a Guy Apologizes For Not Texting You Back? How would YOU respond? 10pts?
A few nights ago I got a random facebook message from a guy I met in college. I think he might like me because he'd stare a lot in class and go out of his way to talk to me. Anyway, we exchanged numbers over fb and for three days straight we texted back and forth. I didn't hear from him for 2 days, so I texted him yesterday but it takes him longer and longer to reply to my texts. I was sad at first and confused because I thought he lost interest after talking to me. BUT TODAY he texted me explaining it has been due to work, school, feeling like crud today, etc. and that he can't wait until tomorrow because it's December and he'll "feel more motivated to finish things." (school work, i guess) I'm kinda relieved but how should i reply? I don't wanna come off too clingy/desperate etc. I've been sick today myself so i was thinking of texting him this: "don't worry about it. I've been under the weather myself. Here's to tomorrow!" or something. Is that a lame reply? I have social anxiety, never dated etc. What might you say in this situation? Sorry I have no experience with this stuff. p.s we're in our early 20's
What does it mean when a guy apologizes?
he always changes our dates to another day, always making excuses. yeah we just started seeing eachother, but i've had enough so i told him off about how he always changes plans and i dont want to see him anymore. he said we should break up, and i was fine with it. he later on messages me saying it was his fault over and over. what is he trying to pull?
Do guys like it when girls apologize?
Well they SHOULD appreciate it. But it really depends on the situation. There are many degrees of sorry. With a normal guy, just don't over-apologize and you should be fine. Whatever you do, if you think he overreacted, don't try and match it with a bigger or more frequent apology. Let him stay in the wrong, don't encourage him. http://patienceloveandpleasure.blogspot.... http://musicmovesinmysteriousways.blogsp... http://freestuffhotdeals.blogspot.com/
When a guy apologizes for hurting you, does it mean that he cares?
Perhaps the real question is whether you want him to care. It sounds like you are attempting to read the apology for an answer. While it is very common for people to do this, I recommend you use caution if you are seeking a true answer.As someone explained earlier, an apology in itself, is not a sign of caring about you. Some people apologize out of habit or for selfish reasons. Some people apologize to make you feel better and so they can feel better themselves. You can determine their reasons for apologizing by listening carefully to the apology.If during the apology you only hear reasons or excuses for his action, then selfish reasons are at play.If you mostly hear genuine empathy about how he has hurt you, then you can believe there is some level of caring for the pain he caused.If you know his behavior was out of character and hear in the apology actions he will take to prevent future behavior, then you have someone who believes they will change to avoid hurting you again. Whether he is successful is yet to be seen.If you hear him passing the blame to you, run. This kind of person is most often an abuser who chooses to blame others for his actions. This kind of person seeks people who accept blame easily.Always listen to the words and observe the body language during an apology. If you get mixed signals, he is either very new at apologizing or he is not being completely honest. That is for you to decide.The short answer to your question is no. An apology does not mean he cares. However, an apology is a good opportunity to learn something important about him.Hope this helps and take best of care!
IF A guy apologizes to you, does he mean it?
Like this guy in one of my classes @ school (by the way, I'm 17). He was mean and than I told him to stop making fun of me and he stopped and kept saying he was sorry. Now he is really nice (like really really nice) to me and acts like I’m amazing. Is he just playing around or does he mean it? How can you tell? How should I react? I do sort of like him.
What does it mean when a guy admits he was wrong and apologizes?
Its hard to say what it means when a guy says he was wrong and is being apologetic about something when you don't know him personally and what is that thing for which he is being sorry. It can mean any number of things including meaning nothing at all.It can mean he is being honest,It can mean he is feeling remorse,It can mean he will regret it if his apology is not accepted,It can mean he now realises his accountability of what ever went wrong,It can mean he cannot correct what happend but he is sorry for it anyway..It can mean he is just saying it because you wanna hear it but he doesn't mean itIt can mean he understands it now completely and by it I mean the scenario where something went wrong…It can mean he is open to make it up to it…or to make it right again if he's given a chance.It can mean he is using it as an excuse to motivate the affected person from imposing a potential punishment on him or to pause that temporarily….It can mean he understands your emotional state and knows a sorry or an apology would calm you down a little to start over….!It can mean he doesn't know why something went wrong but he is ready to take the responsibility of making it right if given a chance….!It can mean he is sensitive as a person (the extent of sensitivity is a difference issue).It can mean he is still thinking about what happened and wanna know if you are doing it too..!It can mean he is someone who believes in being true to himself,It can mean he is faking it (if he doesn't justify his sorry in a reasonable sense. Which means he has to explain why he is sorry to justify it)It can mean he is feeling sad to see you in the situation which went wrong ( if he was not primarily involved in it) and is open to help you start over.It can mean nothing to him at all…and he is just using that phrase to retain the communication….So what it means depends on how much you know about him as a person ….how much you know his personality….and how frequently he says sorry for things…..!If he says sorry for things more frequently, then he is not serious about his sorry…he is just using sorry as an execuse to evade the immediate consequences if any….!If he is saying it for the first time then it can mean any of the above listed interpretations.Hope this answers your question…!
What do I say to someone who apologizes all the time? My mother-in-law constantly apologizes for the smallest things. Yesterday I counted and she apologized to me 34 times! It truly is driving me insane. What can I say to her to make it stop?
It sounds like she is simply in the habit of saying she's sorry, and might not even notice that she is doing so, or at least not to such an extent. She might not even mean it as an actual apology. An example:“Whew! Christmas shopping makes me tired. I'm sorry, but that only one cashier situation during a holiday sale just has to go!”She's not really sorry in this type of scenario, it's just how she's chosen to express herself.Either way, I can understand how it could be annoying, so invite her over to your place by herself and let her know how much you enjoy her company. Then gently and politely explain that she doesn't need to apologize so often. If you've also had something you used to say often, you could use that as an example of how people just get into saying things as an accidental habit, and to demonstrate compassion because you can relate.Tell her how much you care about her and make sure she understands that you will care about her no matter what, you just wanted to let her know about this habit in case she wasn't aware of it.If she didn't realize that she's been apologzing so much, and perhaps even finds it funny, progress is likely. If she takes offense, all to you can do is continue to be kind to her to prove your point that you truly do care about her.Be patient. If she chooses to try to change this verbal habit, it could take a long time to do so. Also be gentle and gracious, not repeatedly pointing out this habit as if it was a fault for which she might be embarrassed - my guess is this is how you would appreciate being treated if you were in her shoes. I wish you well! :)
What does it mean when a guy apologizes for kissing you?
This guy I like asked me if he can kiss me and I got a little shy and didn't answer right away but we did end up kissing. But later he texted me saying sorry for kissing me, but the kiss was really nice? Does that just mean he thought I didn't want to cus I shyed away at first? But I let him know I got nervous and I wanted to then he texted back saying muah!.
What does it mean when a guy apologizes for something?
This guy apologized for not texting me back a few weeks ago when we were at a party together. He brought it up himself, I didn't say anything about it. Does this mean he feels bad? We have talked a lot before, and we are friends. But wouldn't most guys just blow that off?