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I don't like to study. What should I do?

3 years back when I was preparing for GATE and was half way through with my syllabus, I almost felt like giving up. Some of my friends were way ahead, others left the hope already and my self confidence was getting low. The enthusiasm with which I started my preparation was getting lost.I use to wake up thinking what topics I will cover that day but during that period I thought that was it. I wasted 2 weeks studying reluctantly. I knew that I was going down the wrong path but that will was missing to study.After those two weeks I took a break from studying. I knew I will further waste some time but there was no point studying if no productive result was coming. I went out with friends, skipped some classes and had a good 3–4 days back. I drew inspiration from some of my friend who were studying. I thought about why I was working that hard and my aim. I decided to go back in track.The point is, everyone loose their way some time or the another. But you have to make your way back. If you don't feel like studying, it's ok. Take a break. Talk to people. Get motivated. But if you stop your journey, that's it. And let me tell you, it happens with a lot of people and to the best of us. You just have to get back your enthusiasm or else you don't stand a chance.It's ok. Don't be too serious. Take breaks and get the work done.

What do you do when you don't have anything to do?

I graduated from college last month and I didn't really have a lot to do while waiting for the company I was placed with to send the joining date.So, here are a few things I did while I had nothing else to do, and I'd recommend them to you too.Scroll through the Facebook feed looking at memes laughing my ass off.Tagging my friends in those memes (because I'm all up for social service).Pointless debates with strangers on online forums (believe you me, this is fun).Watching a hell lot of movies and TV shows and recommending them to others as well.Catching up with old friends, whom you haven't been able to meet in a while.Occasional workout (might as well be the only productive thing I did).And the best of all, SLEEP. :pJOKES APART,Here is a list of productive things I didRead a few books about the topics that interest me.Went out to meet new people, expand my network, socialize.Practiced the skills I've been trying to get better at.Tried cooking lot of new dishes (luckily all of them turned out pretty well…yayy me)Co-organised a Quora meetup in my city. :PAnd yes the best of all, SLEEP (everyone needs their beauty sleep, don't they?).

I don't know anything and can't do anything. What should I do?

Hi there! Let me get to the answer straight. Okay.  Look sometimes in life you begin to question yourself thinking what you're worth. You feel hopeless, you feel beaten down,  and in your case you feel like you're good at nothing. I've been there too. So the first rules to not feel the same way is to begin.  Forget about failures and mistakes. You may feel like you know nothing, but my dear friend, we all born with a purpose to fulfill buring our lifetime. You feel this way is because you don't know what's your purpose yet. I can't give you a step by step guide for this though. Its the most challenging step. Now remember what I said in the beginning? Forget about failures, and just start.  And that begins with loving what you do.  Now you might say you don't know anything to do. But there is always something you're good at unknowingly. Now coming to the not knowing part. To know you have to read or gain experiences in real life. That will begin by reading books. There is no shortcuts in this.  To gain real life experience you can come to quora and read what different people has to say about different things or you can go explore the world for yourself.

If someone loves you but you don't love him then what should you do?

I don't know what you should do, but I can tell you about what you shouldn't do.You should not make it anymore harder than it already is. “Unrequited love is not a problem, it's a tragedy.”Donot give him hopes, it sucks, big time. Be a friend, and make sure he knows that his love is not reciprocated.If you are friends first, things are bound to get awkward, and you're bound to get hurt, but it is just as hard for him as it is for you, so be polite and kind.And if you haven't heard it from him, that he loves you, it's better to keep it under the rug until he comes up to you himself. And when he does, be kind and tell him the truth, no matter how hurt he is, he'll be able to move on. Donot give hopes.That's all. Kindness and truth, that's all.Good Luck.