What do you do when someone doesn't reply ?
I really hate when someone ignores my chat or use hmm.When a guy reply “hmm”. I tell him not to behave like girls.And if a girl reply, I will send this screenshot to them.I am in contact with very few girls and most of them are my friend's girlfriend. So I never get this opportunity that a girl is replying hmm to me.If someone ignores my chat I generally tell them “you have made me seenzone.”I have learned it from Karan.And I am using it when somebody don't reply to me.
What do you do when you want to talk to someone who doesn't want to talk to you anymore?
Hi,I had friend, very close friend, with whom I had an argument and he straight away told me to maintain some distance. To answer your question how you talk to someone who doesn’t want to talk to you, the answer is you simply go and try to talk. Be persistent. If you really wants to make things okay and you know the other person is childlike and stubborn and is waiting for a pampering, you persist without letting your ego take a lead. If the person matters so much to you that you do not want him to stop talking to you then self respect rather pride should be out of the way. Let him or her shout at you , publicly humiliate you or just plain ignore you be persistent to win back that friendship which is so important to you. The relationship will take it course. Just remember be persistent not irritating. Read the room and know when to end the efforts for the day.The bigger question is when to stop and what to do next? I am now only on a civilized hi - hello basis with that friend now. I stopped when I realized that me making efforts or not making efforts is same to him. I stopped when I saw that he has other relationships and friendship he is investing him while I am wearing all my mental, physical and emotional health on a friendship which may or may not exist in future. I stopped when I realized that I have become dependent on that friend and that my whole world is confined to that person where as he has whole world to explore and I finally stopped when I realized that my work , my life and my relationship with others are getting seriously affected by this and I do not want this kind of drama and negativity in life.The recovery started with usual five stages of loss 1) Denial 2) Anger 3)Bargain 4) Depression and 5) Acceptance. The process is painful but I usually dwell myself inj my work and hobbies and surround myself with books and other close friends. Many a times you will find yourself grovelling and feeling little and less, cry through that phase but grow stronger day by day and then one day you will realize your life is not dependent on a person or place or things and then your friendships will be without expectations and full of security and independence and fun.Wish you good luck!!!
What do you do when someone doesn't apologize when they do something wrong?
You make a note of it.There are several reasons why people don’t apologize, and lack of empathy is only one of them. Sometimes they feel they are in the right, and even when others get hurt, that’s enough to justify being unapologetic. There are those who feel they shouldn’t feel sorry for certain outcomes, even if they appear to be in a position where an apology would seem appropriate. Sometimes it’s on purpose, maybe because they think you’re strong, that they don’t owe you anything, or they don’t wish to appear weak. In a workplace environment, professionalism doesn’t mandate apology or even empathy. To clients, certainly, but when your boss is being a dick because things need to get done, apologizing for his bluntness is the last thing on his mind, and should be the last thing on yours also. And then there are also those who don’t realize they caused harm, and those who are simply too timid. None of these things necessarily would make them guilty of anything, but an apology will still be missing.So you see, people not apologizing when you expect them to is not as simple as just them being an asshole. On the opposite of the spectrum, there are also those who apologize way too much. In which case you begin to wonder, if and when do they actually mean it. We are all somewhere in between.Then there is the opposite situation. Have you ever not apologized? Has anyone unexpectedly asked you to apologize? To think you know exactly when everyone should apologize is putting yourself on some higher moral pedestal , and, frankly, is quite dangerous. Surely we’ve all encountered such a person and felt threatened. So what then?Make a note of it. If it really bothers you, ask why. If you were hurt or you feel the incident damaged your relationship, it would be your courtesy to let them know. From there, either you’ll have a bonding more meaningful discussion, or you’ll get to understand the person better. Neither are negative outcomes.
What do you do when someone doesn't like your gift?
Gift receipt. The person receiving your gift is entitled to their opinions. Include the gift receipt and they can exchange or return the gift.Be mindful of your emotional attachment to their response.
Do you care if someone doesn't like you?
yeah I do. I hate it when people are mad at me or hate me. I was picked on as a kid, so it isucks. However, I am learning that I really shouldn't care what people think. It seems like being popular, liked, or beautiful makes up how great a person is. The truth is, none of that matters if that person isn't happy. I would love not to care what people think and just be happy. The only thing I can tell you is, not everyone is going to like you. It sucks, but we can't please everyone all the time. Sometimes people can be just down right rude for no reason. One thing I have noticed, is the less you care what people think, the more you are respected. People like self confident people where respect is earned not given. If it makes you feel any better, I like you so far as a person. Your sensitivity is appreicated. Good luck.
What will you do when someone doesn't trust you?
Trust should always be earned. No one owes you anything, least of all trust. I don’t know you; therefore I don’t trust you. If you want me to trust you; then be a trustworthy person. Say exactly what you mean. Mean exactly what you say. Do things you say you’re going to do. Don’t break promises and be a man/woman of your word and people will view you as trustwrothy. Very simple.It’s the people who say they’re going to do this, but they end up doing that. Or say one thing, but do another. Do one thing, but say something else. Those people can’t be honest to themselves let alone you; they’re untrustworthy by default and should raise serious red flags. Talk is cheap; always listen to what people “say” and compare it to what they actually “do.”
What do you do when someone does not respect you?
In a way it’s good…. Who don’t respect us make us free from the social boundations which we have to give in return of receiving respect.Who respect us we love to reciprocate but in case of who don’t we too are not bound to reciprocate as well and the best part is we can be ourselves without any formality for such people.Develop the habit of ignoring such people, when you pay them no attention and feel as if they don’t exist …. This is The best recicproation for their misbehave plus there you don’t need to lose your peace of mind. More you be neutral regarding respect other people paid to you less it will be of any worth for you.Respect yourself in your own mind, you will not require it from others and respect from others is always based on what qualities, position, and how much useful you are for people around. The day you deny to not to become fool by advantage taking people, you will lose the respect in their mind. If people are not taking your advantage but still they would respect you only when you fulfill the parameters their respect is based on. You can not Rome to everyone to know what kind of people one respects. Even if you know what extent you can try to become like a person who gets respect everywhere. you can’t lose your individuality in order to get respect. If you could be you that will be the greatest respect to you.So better not to look for respect outside but in your own mind.If you love, like and respect yourself enough it will never matter that whoelse does it to you and who doesn’t.
How do I deal when someone doesn't understand me?
The truth is many people will never understand you because there is so much diversity between people.You can clarify your thoughts and feelings as succinctly as you can, (and hopefully as a result) there can be some unity of understanding. Remember it took a life time for you to be who you are today, and the same with the other person. It’s not realistic to think that in a short time a person could understand (what a lifetime of experiences have made), who you are today.Instead of trying to get them to understand you, try to understand them. Put yourself in their shoes as much as possible. Listen more than speaking. While they are talking try to understand instead of formulating what you will say in response. Ask questions, lots of questions and refrain from taking over the conversation in your direction. You can find out a lot about the other persons thoughts and feeling as a result. Once they feel heard (even if you can't agree), they are more receptive to hearing and respecting how you thing or feel also.Most importantly be okay with being misunderstood. History is looking back into your future. The greatest minds in history were not only misunderstood, but also often maligned and ridiculed. Many were never affirmed for thier greatness until after their death.Remember who you are is not determined by what others think of you.Treat others with kindness, honesty, and respect, even if it is not returned to you. This is true nobility.Strive to understand more than to be understood.