Why am I so lonely and heartbroken from being so sad?
It all depends on what you feel you're missingIts sounds to me like it may be a longing for something or maybe you would like to change something in your lifeHeartbroken implies something important in your life is no longer there for you, you feel on your own alone and lonely, and sad these are all normal if something is missing or being taken awayIt may be best to find the cause of your sadness, by looking at what you have at present, there's at least five friends family around you that truly love and care for you, start by trying to get deeper with them, deeper in meaningful conversations, start by taking more of an interest in them, what do you both like doing, take action and do it together, pick up you're phone and call someone today to meet upStart connecting with new people, smile, listen to them ask them about their family, listen and join in with what they are telling you, make the conversation about them not youI personally like to journal my thoughts, feelings, write them down and see if there's a pattern, what keeps coming up, what's missing, what would you really like. Its sometimes good to really feel it, fully, then you can let it past, these feelings are alerting you to something you would like differentWhat tiny thing can you do today to make a difference, go after what you think will make you feel betterIf its more people you would like in you're life, take that little risk of gaining a friend, you have nothing to lose you will just be the same, talk to someone close at this time maybe they know someone who's good for you too, all the best :)
How do you feel when you miss someone you love?
Well I've been waiting to find out exactly how this feels before I wrote this answer and it came to me last night... I left my girlfriend's house where she studies at uni to head home about 30 miles away (Tiny distance right?) yesterday evening; this wasn't a usual goodbye and see you at the weekend. She was hurting, and still is. Uni is stressing her out and she really hurts and there's not a lot I can do but she's headed home today to see her family.I'm not 100% sure when I'll see her next or if she'll be back in town and it hurts. It genuinely feels like a part of my heart has been ripped out of my chest; I'm not afraid to say that I cried on the train home because I missed her and I realized that day exactly how much she means to me and how much of an impact she has had on my life and how much I truly love and care for her.I miss her every time I'm not with her and cherish every single time we spend together but to have her so far away, hurting where I can't give her a hug from her radiator (my nickname because I'm so warm) really makes me feel numb. I woke up this morning and realized she wasn't there when I kissed thin air and my arm fell beside me in the empty space. I miss her smile, I miss the warmth, I miss her beautiful, sleepy eyes gazing at me as she says good morning. I write this now with a few tears in my eyes at work just trying to take my mind off it and get back into my routine because I know when I'm back in the swing of things that I'll be fine.... I just have to wait until then.What helps me at the moment is knowing that she loves me and knowing that she misses me just as much as I do her. It also helps that in the grand scheme of things that I will see her soon, just might be a few weeks. But yeah, it's not nice. It's pretty heartbreaking in fact but it's something we've got to plod on through.If she is reading this (Which I know she will be) I love you and I'll see you very soon :)
How does it feel to have your heartbroken?
it feels like you literally can't breathe right, like something is physically missing in your heart, and like you have to clutch your chest every minute to ease the pain. you can't even imagine how life will be without the person, you can't wrap your mind around the fact that they are gone. it feels like you can't ever rest, emotionally, you can't feel comfortable, because that person was the source of your comfort, and now you have no where to go, and you just don't know what to do. it's a little dramatic haha, depending on how attached you were to the person. the way i got over it was by crying it all out, doing what i could to express myself, writing poetry, reading books, watching movies, music (LOTS OF MUSIC), then slowly day by day i started to accept the fact that he was gone forever. after a certain point you need to let go, and stop crying. i started filling my days with other activities, and refusing to think about it, and staying strong.
Romance (love): How do you overcome a broken heart when you feel so lost and hurt?
To all the hurting hearts,It takes immense grit to let someone or something go which meant a lot.A bit lengthy suggestion this time because overcoming a broken heart is not an easy job.You can take all the time you need-to heal,to re-emerge,to be whole once again. Let no one force you to “move on”.Your love is precious and let it flow out of you naturally.You are worthy of everything beautiful.Always remember you deserve “only the best”. Do not settle for anything or anyone who is not worth of your glory.Your heart is a beautiful place and invite only the best to come to it.You are never alone.Do not afraid to ask your heart out and there will always be few people who love you unconditionally.You are irreplaceable.There is just ONE you and no one could ever be you and no one could ever give and love like you do.Your awesomeness is exclusive.What you give,matters.Never underestimate the power of your giving,inconsequential it may come to you.Spread Love!Find your purpose,Make it your bliss.There will be that one thing for everyone that keeps our heart racing,that one thing which always will make you feel special,isn’t it..Make that as your purpose.Be gentle with yourself. Be kind to yourself.Love yourself. Be patient with your journey and your healing.Pay attention to your feelings and emotions. Pain,joy,happiness,anger,confusion whatever it may be ,let it flow. It may be absurd but listen to your heart.Pursue what your heart desires.
Best songs about heartbreak, depression, lonliness and missing someone?
Hey, I'm sorta in need of some heartbreak music. I was hoping for something along the lines of Lonely Lonely- Fiest but I am open minded and will try almost anything. I am particularily partial to punk rock but Ive yet to find a good hearwrenching song in th genre. But if you know one, I will be eternally greatful! I must suggest that you refrain from pop songs, only because that sh*t only pisses me off. Thank you Rock and Poppers!
What does missing someone feel like?
My ex and I were in a long distance relationship. I've talked about this relationship a lot on quora, but never what I'm about to say.I'd visit her frequently. We were in different countries, so I had to fly over. We were desperately in love, and the first time I came to see her, it was just a weekend. The visits got longer, I think at most I stayed with her for two weeks. But no matter how long I stayed, eventually it'd hit me that I was going home. It would hit me like a brick. I'd get uncontrollably sad; one time I started crying randomly in the middle of a driving lesson, the day after getting home from her place. I had the same thought every time. A very childish person inside my head would say “but I wasn't finished.” It was the same thought I had, back in kindergarten, when someone would take my toys and start playing with them. I wasn't done being happy, I wasn't ready to let it go.We were together for 2.5 years, in which time we broke up four time in total, including the last time. First, after a month. That was a bit like having a trial of a computer program, and then when the trial ran out, it took us a while to decide to pay for it. The second time was a few days after our two year anniversary. It felt terrible. I wanted her back so badly, but she had doubts. I missed her in a way where I would do just about anything to have her back. That's what eventually persuaded her to take me back. The third time was less than half a year after this. This was when we realised it wouldn't work. It just wouldn't. The sadness got the better of us, and we procrastinated our breakup. That was the word we used, ‘procrastinate’. A few weeks later, I broke up with her for good. I haven't missed her since. I'm so glad it was on my terms, because I wasn't ready the other times, but I was ready then. I was done.
Can missing someone alot affect your health (i.e stomache aches)?
of course it can; that is where the term broken heart came from and the story is that a lover died because their heart actually developed a tear that killed
What are some good songs about missing someone but being better off without them?
Me and my boyfriend of a year broke up recently and I miss him a lot, but I know it's better for both of us to be apart, and that I can do WAY better than him. Good songs to listen to? modern country, pop, hip hop, or R&B songs please...