Do guys like looks or personality!? (GUYS!!!) Pics!?
yes...guys go for personality...it depends what type of guy you like...funny, smart, and just good character is what wins a guy over...
What do you love most about your personality?
me being able to take the good with the bad and being able to laugh off at almost anything
Do you prefer looks or personality?
If I could choose both I’d say both.But if I could only choose one, I would say personality.According to my opinion, personality is what makes a an individual soul, while looks is made up of a person’s genes of their mom and dad. Looks can’t really tell you much of anything except for what they might look like when they are older (looking at their parents). On the other hand, someone’s personality is not always made up on their own, but also nurtured by their parents. What their parents’ attitude is on things, how they teach their child, etc. will all stick to their child and affect them in many ways. For example, the negative parts of someone’s personality can tell you a lot about their parents (usually, their parents exhibit the same or similar negative behaviors). In most cases, most children will end up or be very similar to their parents. Deviating from their parents, their personality can also tell you how they view life, what their purpose is in doing things, etc.Simply, someone’s personality can tell you a lot about themselves, the way they do things, the way they think about certain things, their family, etc. than their looks. Their looks may tell you that they’ve got good healthy genes or look like their pretty looking parents, but that’s about it. There’s really not much to the looks that you can find out about an individual.
What do you like about your personality?
No matter how bad things get I forward on.The other day I was moving very hot pieces of metal that had just been chemically cleansed and dipped in hot water. Which meant moving it hurt, a lot. Hurt so much my gloves felt like they were about to melt. I got a few marks on my hands.Earlier today I was leaning on my knees, drilling. I can't sit on my knees it is incredibly painful for me. But I carried on until my knees were in agony and I was sweating.The cold doesn't bother me, the heat doesn't hinder me. I push forward. Everything in my life is temporary and should be treated as such come rain or shine.I make people laugh and I enjoy making them laugh.I have made embarrassing mistakes and I have no problem sharing them. I have an acute self deprecating and dark sense of humour but I'm upbeat about it.I've had people telling me to do stand up or write a book. I've thought about it truth be told.People say I'm quite easy to talk to, especially older women in their 30's.Self explanatory.I don't badmouth a soul unless it's an appalling family member or unreliable friend.I can charm the birds out of the trees.
What is more important, looks or personality?
No - and for the following reasons.Because in the long run, even if they have an amazing personality - if you’re not physically attracted to them it doesn’t really matter what kind of connection you have with them.If women didn’t care or notice men’s looks, then male sex symbols would not exist i.e. Brad Pitt, Johnny Depp, George Clooney, etc.Women are programmed by society to say that personality is more important than looks. At the end of the day, if you don’t pass the looks test - YOU’RE TOAST - regardless of how confident, charming or funny you are.There’s no point in asking a woman this question either because most of them would lie. Women are more concerned about how they are being perceived than being truthful.Women, like men, have a minimum physical standard you need to at least meet or otherwise it’s game over.Somebody’s physical appearance tells a great deal about them. It communicates a massive amount of information in itself. For example, if somebody is overweight - that communicates to the opposite sex unhealthy decision-making. It also communicates a LOW VALUE individual who doesn’t care about their health and well-being. These are aspects of an individual’s personality and they stem from a judgement based on physical appearance.Physical attraction is a ‘must’. If a woman is with a man purely on the grounds of his personality - then I would advance the argument that deep down she isn’t really attracted to him. Unless the ‘physical attraction’ exists- then the ‘connection’ would become meaningless.I don’t see how it’s possible to love someone’s personality and be with them solely for this reason - but yet hate their face and body. What’s the point in having sex when you’re gazing into the eyes of a right minger! It would be self-defeating for starters. Sex is supposed to be a pleasurable experience!Hope this helps
Does personality count more than looks?
ok so im not so pretty and i think im pretty ugly. but ill admit i have one of the best personalitys in my school. im very nice,... and i can make anyone laugh, boys or girls. i make friends with who ever i sit near in school, even boys. iv been asked out 2 times in 7th grade, by boys who started out as friends, i turned them both down cause i didnt like them. but i really want a guy, cause im feeling kind of lonly, if i made firends with them first, would they like me even if im not the prettiest?
Do girls choose looks over personality?
This is a very good question, I complement the person asking. Let’s add some more information to the question.One question is, by “girl”, do you mean a high school teen wanting to date or a 25 year old hoping to marry? Their wants are different.According to my wife and daughter, most teenage girls do not want to be seen as a loser. The pretty girls can date whoever they please; the homely girl is happy with whatever she can get.Granted, there are many girls who have enough self confidence, proper self view not to need a date or boyfriend to boost their self esteem. Both my wife and daughter represent that position perfectly.Once a girl becomes an adult, most of them adopt the mature and adult position of looking for someone who is a gentleman, has a pleasant personality and MOST OF ALL, a good worker. Looks do not matter in the mind of a mature lady.Launch where looks do matter, their marriages and relationships usually end in disaster. Yesterday provided a prime example to me. As an Uber driver I took a 20-year-old lady, who was five months pregnant, to a home for women who are in abusive relationships.Her fiancé and the father of her unborn child is very good looking, has a good job as a law-enforcement officer, but also an abuser.It boggles my mind as to why a lady will live with someone like that, knowing what an abuser he is, and stay in the relationship with plans to marry him.I am living proof that beautiful women will marry someone who is not as good looking as they are, for the positive reasons listed above.I encourage all female readers to research the late husband of Sophia Loren.Google her and you will like agree could’ve had any single man in the world, and a lot of married ones too, but look at the guy she married and stay married to for many many years.Check out my profile picture, it shows what a good looking hunk a hunk of burning love my wife got and has lived with for the past 40 years
What would you rather change - your personality or looks?
Am I really going to be the only man to answer this? Oh well, here goes...I would change my personality.Don't get me wrong: I don't think I'm particularly attractive, and there are a dozen things I wish I could change about my body, but my personality...well, where do I even begin!?I procrastinate like crazy, so even when I want to succeed I can be perceived as lazy and setting myself up for failure. This leads to a downward spiral of despondency.I have very little empathy, and have built a hard shell around myself by which I try not to let my true self out or make myself susceptible to being guided by anyone else's feelings.I am not a sympathetic person, and in fact I take a kind of maniacal glee in seeing other people's misfortune (where that misfortune doesn't affect me, because I'm also selfish).My approach to relationships is pretty much summed up by "my way or the highway" (just ask my girlfriend). I'm never willing to compromise, and I can be callous and inconsiderate when dealing with other people's needs.I view most other people as either intellectually inferior or downright boring, and often subtly (or in some cases overtly) belittle them for it.I'm insensitive and often don't think before opening my mouth, but will subsequently defend an indefensible position because I hate being wrong.Fortunately, I've found this wonderful platform called Quora which is filled with the musings and writings of thousands upon thousands of bright, funny, thoughtful, creative, experienced, brilliant, but above all human people. And little by little, I'm dragging myself out of my hostile, isolated, uncaring shell and immersing myself in the colour and the warmth of a shared human experience.So maybe I don't have to wish for a change.Maybe I can make the change, thanks to all of you.
Do girls prefer personality over looks in guys?
Well. Mostly yes but not all the time.There are many pros and cons between high personality and high look guys.High personality bf (low look bf):Will cause heart burn when you try to explain to your friends why you chose “this guy”.He cares about you. If you are looking to have a boyfriend only as a college time accessory and not actually intending to marry, then it becomes hard to break up with this guy when college ends.Asks lots of questions about you and focusses on you. Good in some way. But if you are looking for a nag free boyfriend to whom you dont have to explain what happened in your day, then this is not the one.Kissing or getting physical is going to be hard with this guy. So if you want some insurance to not get touched, go for him.High look bf (low personality bf):This type tends to do put too much effort in looking good. With this boyfriend,His cosmetic collection will put yours to shame. If you are looking for a guy for whom getting ready means just combing his hair, you are in for a rude shock. This kind takes more time than you in applying make up.Most of the specimens of this kind have the IQ of a toad. When kissing him, you can think of yourself as the princess kissing the frog.Too self absorbed to ask any nagging questions about your day. That way, pretty low maintenance. Just let him talk and shut off your ears.So, it is pretty much depends on what you want with your boyfriend (long term/short term, attention/nag free etc).