I’m in love with my boyfriend’s brother. What should I do?
Thank you so much for all your answers. Each one of you helps me a lot !To get further into the question, no I don’t think his brother loves me too. But even if he did, I couldn’t go with him because I know I would break their relationship forever.I just feel so guilty, because I know that what I feel isn’t right and I don’t wanna play games with any of them.The thing is that I have been spending a lot of time with his brother (we actually go out with their mutual friends every weekend). And things aren’t always great between my boyfriend and I (we fight often over everything and we disagree a lot). However we have been together for 2 years and a half and I could never dump him because I will forever have a soft spot for him. But I am so lost, I don’t know what I want anymore and if I am still really in love with him.And so it has been 5 months since I am completely obsessed by his brother.. I feel so bad for loving him but I can’t do anything to erase these feelings. I have tried to stay apart from him and spend more time with my boyfriend, yet every time I see his brother it’s like I lose my mind and I cannot think properly anymore.I actually love him so much that I prefer spending time with him than with my boyfriend. And then I begin to analyse his every action towards me (like we all do when we like someone lol) and I feel so lost. Sometimes he is just so adorable with me, like he gives me his hoodie when I say I’m cold, he takes care of me when I get hurt and he just kindly annoys me allllll the time. We held hands at a concert and when we both get drunk I kind of lean against him like lovers do. So I don’t know how to feel anymore. Yeah maybe it’s just family love and I confuse everything but it is just getting harder and harder to hide all of this. Sometimes, I am at the bar, listening his brother talking, and all I really wanna do is tell him how much I love him, even if those words would completely ruin my life.I know that my boyfriend is kinda aware of the situation, which of course worsens things. And I cannot be honest to any of them, because telling the truth means losing both of them. I know it’s so selfish to think that way but I don’t feel ready to be all alone right now.
My girlfriend has a crush on my brother?
I know i asked for you advice and opinions and while i do appreciate every answer both good and bad i just have to say that i'm not going to break up with her, i have no intention of doing so and don't want to, but any other advice would be great.
Rules of "the girl code??"?
i have to write a short story about something that applies to many people but has not yet been defined. its a confusing assignment, but ive decided to write the girl code. im looking for 25 rules that girls should never ever break. things like "never date a friends ex" or things like that. any ideas, i would really appreciate them!
Why does my gut say he's cheating?
Thanks for all the responses. Especially the ones who empathized with me instead of just implying I'm stupid for not leaving him tonight... I'm not ready to give up the last 10 years, disrupt my 2 year old's life, deal with all the legal and financial issues for something that might be an over active imagination. I'm trying to get over the dating site issue, but little things keep popping up. It's not anything I can point to and say "there, he's cheating!". It's just little hunches/feelings. And thank you to the poster who said it's mental/emotional abuse - I'm generally a smart & strong person, but I didn't recognise what he was doing to my head. I don't even know if he's doing it on perpose or if we have just drifted apart. I'm going to try the counseling route and hope that I am just being paranoid. If not he'll have to shape up or I'll be taking more drastic measures. We promised we weren't going to end up like our parents (divorced) when we decided to get married... :(
Bleach manga 315 bonus: Rukia & Byakuya marrying?
That was probably Byakuya and Rukia's older sister Hisana, since Hisana looks exactly like Rukia. Rukia and Hisana arrived at the 78th District of the Rukongai together when Rukia was still a baby. Because Hisana could no longer support both of them, she abandoned Rukia to fend for herself even though she was still a baby. Then she met Byakuya and eventually got married. Years later, on her deathbed, she told Byakuya about her younger sister that she abandoned in the Rukongai. Ashamed and guilty over what she did, she made Byakuya promise that he will adopt Rukia and treat her like a real sister (something she failed to do) and that he will not tell Rukia about her. You can read about Hisana's story in the manga starting on this page: http://www.onemanga.com/Bleach/179/10/ ***Update:*** Okay, I just saw the scan, its really Rukia. But as a bonus page, I still think a Byakuya and Rukia pairing is still very unlikely, since not only are they brother/sister, but Rukia is also the sister of Byakuya's ex-wife. It just makes it double-weird. Also, there's already Ichigo and Renji. I think those two will come first before Byakuya, as far as Rukia is concerned.