Do you think i should date older guys ?
awwwww how cute. you like guys who don't want sex from you. ? Well, what exactly do you think they DO want from you? Your sparkling conversation? Your witty approach to older guys? You say you act older and "more mature" then your 23 year old sister. Then how come I don't detect this "maturity" that you speak of ? You wonder what you need to do ... ok here it is. Allow yourself to age. BE whatever age it is your at now, for you will NEVER be this age again.
What do older guys think of virgins?
first of all, unless you shout about not having had sex and act like you are a 12 year old, noone would know if you are a virgin. and when the right guy comes and you are ready for it, tell him that you have not had it before. My girlfriend was a virgin and i am very happy that she was, makes me feel like i knew her more than anyone has ever had before. and sex you can learn to be good at, and practice is fun! in the end, its a good thing if you are as long as you dont keep the guy waiting for too long to have sex because most guys would walk away in frustration
What would you think if you saw an older man kissing a girl in public?
I am a 43 year old single guy. I have never been married. I recently met a young woman, a girl practically, on line. She is 18 and from the Philippines. I have met other’s online from the Philippines but this one is different. I trust her. The only doubts I have is our ages. What will it be like in 10 years? 20 years? We talk almost everyday on messenger usually with video, so we both know what we are getting into. I have seen her and her parents and siblings. That was one of my first questions to her when we started chatting, do your parents know you are talking to me? I didn’t want to be one of these accused of trying to seduce a young girl. Because she looks even younger than she is. But we don’t talk the trash talk so there is no problem there. My question is what would you say to yourself if you saw a man and girl kissing in public who looked like us with our age differences?
What do you think about older men with young women?
I don’t have a problem with it. In most partnerships, the man is about 3 to 4 years older than the woman!More seriously, I still don’t have a problem with it. The concern is a relatively new one. In many older societies, it was even desirable to marry a woman off to a man who was considerably older. For a start, he was more likely to have financial sercurity than a younger man - very important when there is no welfare state to protect you. In some societies, that sort of thinking still holds sway.Only when the concept of marrying for romantic love rather than to secure the family fortunes came into vogue was this ever really a big issue. I stil don’t have a problem with it though. There are so many ways of finding happiness or misery in life that a mere difference of age is not all that important. Some women, in fact, prefer older men because they see men of their own age as immature or not offering the emotional security they seek.Marriages between couples of equal age succeed. Marriages between couples of very different ages succeed. Marriages of both types also fail and I am not convinced that the failure rate between couples of very different ages is any better or worse than marriages between people of similar ages.Also, as you get older, the difference in chronological years just becomes less and less important.Incidentally, my partner’s father is 16 years older than his wife. They became a couple when she was 16 and he was 32. As you can imagine, it caused something of a scandal at the time … but they have been married now for 52 years and counting, which isn’t bad by any measure you care to use.
Would an older man be interested in a much younger woman?
Age is only a barrier if one or the other or both allow it to be. People are people and that is the base for attraction, not age, or experience. Might want to ask yourself why you perfer an older man. There are many advantages to that age difference and also there are obstacles as well, however, so long as the age is that of legal maturity (18 in most states) and there is an attraction between the two there would be no legal problems. There is much to learn from what you seek and there is also much security and love also. Remember, experience comes with age and usually experience is the result of action and recovery. As we grow older we learn from mistakes and see things that we cannot at a younger age like how to treat people, deal with problems and make decisions. We learn what makes people feel good, wanted and loved that may have been overlooked at a younger age.due to no experience. There is no trick to attracting an older man, it is the same as attracting any man, just be yourself. If you seek an older man you would want someone that is compatible also and all older men might not be compatible but I believe that there are more older men that are compatible than younger simply by refinement. I for one think that you show extreme intelligence by your desire for someone that has some experience in life and that it will work well for you. Basically people are the same but as we grow older we learn and that takes the fear out of new events or problems. Like I stated above, most of us learn, with age, how to treat people nicely and with respect in most situations. The biggest obstacle you face is not finding the older gentleman, it is the obstacle of riddicule of you peer group for you decision that inhibits from your side of the equation. Attraction starts just like any relationship, commonality, ideas, appearance and personality. You could practice on me if you wish. Good luck and good for you for being honest enough to put this question on this forum. It shows independence and sincerity that reflects courage. I believe you will have no problem, just relax and follow your heart but guide it with your mind and you will find what you seek.
What do you think of older guys hitting on teenage girls?
What do you mean by “older guy” and “teenage girl”?Are you talking about a 25 year old guy hitting on a 19 year old girl? Or a 45 year old hitting on a 15 year old?If it’s the first then I don’t see a problem at all - and neither should you. The girl,at 19 is an adult and can make choices for herself. The guy at 25 is a little older but so what? If she was 32 and he was 38 would there be an issue? Same age gap.If it’s the latter then of course it’s not right. At 15 she’s not legally allowed to make decisions about sex in most western countries and she’s probably going to think the guy’s a creep anyway.I’m not sure what you mean by “hitting on” either. Is the 45 year old seriously trying to have sex with the 15 year old ? If so it’s clearly a no - no and he needs to be kept the hell away from her. If he keeps on doing it then there’s plenty of help available from your local police dept. Is he flirting inappropriately with her? He probably needs to be told to wind his neck in and leave her alone.The difficult “in between” one is where lines are perhaps the most grey. A 25 year old coming on to a 16 year old? She’s legally allowed to make decisions on who she has sex with. But is the older guy just manipulating someone who is immature and easily taken advantage of? I know plenty of women who when they were younger, went out with older guys. Some actively looked for older partners as they wanted to be with someone who was perhaps a little more mature than guys in their own age group, others because they were attracted to the guy - and his age wasn’t an issue. Two of my friends have been together for nearly thirty years. She’s in her forties, he’s nearly 70. You do the maths.Despite all the other answers saying how awful it is for an older guy to hit on a teenage girl - I believe that each case would have to be taken on it’s own merits, and provided it’s legal and there is no manipulative power imbalance then there is not necessarily a problem.
What do parents think of their daughters marrying much older men?
I want to start with saying that have never been married. I can give you what I have found talking to others and from my own experience. I have always like people older than me, I haven’t done a lot of dating due to the large age gaps. When my mom found out she was very supportive and her only concern is I find someone who loves and respects me. My dad has a large problem with it, but he will most likely come around if he likes the guy despite the age gap.I have talked to others in age gap relationships and parents as well, the verdict is pretty much the same: The parents are hesitant but they relax and accept the idea once they know their child is in a loving healthy relationship. There are exceptions to this and many variables, I hope I have helped some way.
...He's 9 years older than me...guys what do you think?
So I just started hanging out with this guy who is 9 years older than me. I'm 20, he's 29. Things are leading to dating. I'm a little uneasy about the age difference. Guys, would you date a girl who's 20 when you're 29? I know this sounds a little presumptuous but, would you be looking more for 'booty calls' or would you actually be looking for a serious relationship? We get along really well, I'm just questioning his motives. I've never dated someone that much older than myself before.
What does it feel like to have sex with an older man?
Amazing! Once you try it you will never look back, so the old saying goes. Older men are less inclined than younger men to only care solely about their own needs. They're self-assured, patient, and not to mention experienced. They'll make sure that your pleasure comes first and that your needs are fulfilled. I've noticed that older men tend to be more tender and sensual in bed than younger men, and like to take things slowly, which is very enjoyable. They've been there done that, so know their way around a woman's body better than those clowns you'd meet at frat parties. It's not like they're in a hurry to f*ck you just so they can score and brag about it to their buddies. They certainly know how to treat a woman the right way, true gentlemen who demonstrate respectful behaviour, wining and dining etc. If you're seriously pondering about sleeping with an older man, you're in for a treat girl:p 40 - 55 is a great age bracket. If he's been married and divorced, that's good too, as he's had the opportunity to perfect his bedroom techniques with the same sex partner over some years. Keep in mind, This is generally speaking, and I'm only talking about my own experiences with older men, which have been positive. I'm sure there are some older men out there who are terrible in bed and are complete jerks. Also, sometimes you need to be careful with some older men who may take advantage of a younger woman's naivety. That's not to say that you are naive though. If you're both consenting adults, I don't see the problem. Have fun:)