Question about Kurdish girls?
I was wondering .. kurdish girls that are 16 or 17 ..who live in the western part of turkey is it true alot of their fathers dont let them go out with boys ..even if these girls live in kusadasi for example. I was just wondering because i moved here recently and im 17 .i like this girl and she seem interested to a point ..but said her father wont allow her to go out with me....my friends said this happens alot because her family is kurdish .... is this right?
Why don't girls ask guys for sex?
Easiest and simplest question ever.I enjoy sex and I ask for it. Now that, that is out of the way—-Women, over countless millennia have been told sex is something men DO to us. We must lie there, not move, let him use our body and let us know when it’s done. Every woman received this programming. Some, including myself choose not to follow it. Average men are VERY threatened by a woman coming onto them, because they mistake it for a wanton “whorish woman”. I was once shamed by an ex for being a “nympho”. Turns out he was bisexual, not to mention had issues getting it up. It was a deal breaker for me and I left.Women are terrified of being labelled anything sexually degrading because it signifies loss of status in the “tribe”. Granted, modern society seems to have advanced far past this, women are still shamed on it. Our lower chakras are in the dirt, repressed, sex is seen as dirty and shut down.Not to mention, women need a whole load of warming up to climax. Most men do not want to perform oral sex (and wonder why women are miserable) and nor do they even bother to seek to understand how a woman’s mind sexually works. Women, although we appreciate masculine visuals, are not turned on visually. Men find this hard to comprehend. Sex is overall not very fun for a woman, till she has truly learned to tune into her authentic sensual Goddess feminine self and develops a strong esteem for herself.Most women never get this chance.
POLL: Why don't girls ask guys out?
Because it has always been that way and it is not about equality but it is all about the feminism of a woman and a guy is supposed to be gentleman, the same reason as guys are supposed to pay for dinner or a date. But these days, some women do ask men out too but most of the time men misinterpreted it and thinks that we are easy if we are the ones who ask. But you know it really depends with the person and it doesn't matter who ask anyway, what matters is our own happiness and how we treat other people and how we give them our love and happiness. Also, the reason why men court or ask a woman out is because MOST of the time men do not really know what we feel unlike us women we can easily tell if a guy really likes us. So I would say that the traditional way of men asking women out really make sense too. Let me put it this way, men are strong and they can easily move on if they get rejected but for a woman to be rejected it's kind of an insult. We love men with confidence and someone who can make us feel we are protected. I hope I have answered your question but I understand what you feel. If you really want to know, you could actually do some survey with your friends or neighbors and see what they think. Good Luck to you my friend! Good question though. Best regards, el-el
Why don't girls ask guys out ?
because if a girl were to ask a guy out then the guy would think she's desperate in some cases but seriously society has made it that way and that's how it is . i think its better for a guy to ask a girl out because if it was the other way around a guy would have more advantages in a relationship if you know what i mean .
Are there any hot girls who don't get approached by guys?
My best friend from high school is gorgeous.Drop dead gorgeous. I’m quite pretty myself, but if I went anywhere with her, all of the attention was always on her, I didn’t exist. Guys would approach her everywhere we went and mostly ignore me because she is so beautiful.Guys approached her at Starbucks. Men tried to talk to her when we went to the pool. She was hit on at every bar we went to. Men would even approach her at restaurants. The stream of men coming on to her was endless, and she loved every second of it. It got kind of annoying.Two years ago, she got married. They really love each other and they had a baby together almost immediately. However, her genetics are so good she still has abs after her first baby. She’s still breathtaking.Over the summer, I went out dancing with her. We went to a two-stepping bar in Houston, Texas. Not a single man approached her to dance. Nobody looked at her. Just two years ago men had swarmed at her at every angle in the same bar. I could tell she was upset. She wanted to leave.My best friend didn’t get any less gorgeous, one thing changed. She stopped acting available. She used to smile at every man she saw. She used to make eye contact with every guy she found attractive. She used to laugh and dance and invite men over to talk to her.She stopped acting available. My best friend was now happily taken and that made all the difference.Being hot doesn’t get men to approach you. Being available does.Sure, a certain level of attractiveness is needed for a man to initially take interest. But, some of the most average girls I know pull the most men I’ve ever seen just because they act so available.
A girl I know asked me out, what to do?
This girl asked me out, I know her in real life, I was talking to her on facebook though. I was flirting, she started saying I was really sweet, and stuff, then she said, or asked if I would go out with her sometime, what do I do?
What are the signals that a girl gives if she's interested in a guy? And what are some crucial signals when she's not interested?
All the answers you see are mostly true but not necessarily implementable..But there are few things you can do from your end and let the rest take care by itself:For guys looking for a girl for marriage (Universal):Be good to yourself and to othersBe bold and confidentShow your aggression (not on her) and it won’t matter if you get physical (again, not on her) for as long as you can come out of it alive :)Study her quickly and efficientlyDon’t repeat conversations or habits again and again…spice up your conversation, look/sound active..don’t make a sad dull face/voice often..show your skills like driving, singing, playing instruments..Don’t bring MONEY topic out..forgot your wallet at home? don’t hesitate in asking her money…don’t bring your EGO out of your pocket, if she is spending for you then let her do that.If she is good to you all the time, there’s something wrong. If she is making fun of you or calling you out names or trying to be serious with you: she is taking you seriously, and that’s a good thing.Show that you are an alpha male: physically/mentally strong, good at resolving conflicts, not hesitant in talking openly and boldly even if it happens to be her personal matters (but keep tab of your limits at the same time)don’t try to impress her with fancy expensive gifts because she is already impressed given that you have followed the first 10 points properly.don’t show your desperation, keep your libido under control. A man with good self control is a man she is looking for.For guys looking for a girl for one-night-stand:You are not rich: you need to look good, charming and have personality. So, you must be blessed with good genes.You must be rich: doesn’t matter if you are good looking or not.For guys looking for a girl for marriage in INDIA:The first 12 points + Horoscope match + Age match + Good Height + not over-weight (depends) + Qualification (mostly advanced degrees) + Decent Salary + good family background + decent property + good looking (depending on how good looking the girl is)[BONUS POINTS: Don’t smoke / drink: Smoking not only makes you look older and uglier but also fks up your brain (you’ll become moody or get frustrated easily). If you are a smoker, quit now.]Summary: Indian marriages are bl**dy complicated and frustrating. From marriage point-of-view, You’ll be cussing yourself for being born as a Middle/upper Middle class Hindu.
Teens: Why is there a double standard for pedophilia?
God damn, that girl is crazy. Don't worry Ryan Awesome, she did the same annoying crap on one of my questions that wasn't even in this section! She got issues. I don't support that either. I guess it is because young virgin women are precious, and that elder man "took" it from them. The young virgin men, ooohhhh well, they were going to lose their virginity anyways. It put hair on their chest since they had sex with an experienced woman. I am assuming that is what people try to justify the double standard with? It's interesting when the sex was consensual, even though I know it's a stat rape case, it's just interesting. Like, a girl must have something wrong with her if she chooses to have sex with a grown man. But a boy doing that with a grown woman? Well, he's a man.
Why does my ex girlfriend keep insulting me?
I was burned bad by this girl (Cheated on me) said she wanted to stay friends and for me not to go anywhere because she didn't mean to even though it turns out she did. I told her that if shecheated on me I would be gone. One thing led to another I contacted her after a few weeks and said what's up I told her I wanted my stuff. I called her mom (ex still lives at home) and she said it was ok for me to grab my things. She wasn't home so I thought "perfect." I don't have to see her lying, cheating and crazy ***. She told me not to go in her room because she wasn't there. I didn't care at this point and went anyway cuz her mom said it was ok. I really wanted my stuff it's mine and I didn't want to leave anything there for her to see and I didn't want to see her because I hate her guts. All this time we were talking we were very cordial. I didn't say any insults to her at all. Told her that I hope she was happy and everything was going good with her. She texts me and hurls back insult after insult after insult getting so mad that I grabbed my things when she wasn't there. It was just my xbox and my playstation. Calling me limp D*ck and loser and all that. Telling me not to contact her again, I wasn't planning to. I just said "LOL jeez I don't need to hurl back insults because you know what you are." Why does she keep insulting me?