Does he want to have sex with me?
im a straight male but i have a co worker at new job. Hes usually quiet but after work, i was waiting for uber and he randomly came and talked to me, just me and him. i asked when he was leaving and he said 10 min or so but left as soon as i left, not even 2 min after i asked.
WHAT does it mean when a guy wants SPACE?
He wants time to think... that's all. Just pretend like he doesn't exist until he takes action first. don't call him, don't text him, don't email him, don't comment him, don't message him, don't IM him... don't do any of it until he starts first. Let him think he'll lose you before you'll crack. I know you love him sweetie but.. have you heard that old saying? It goes something like "Let it go, and if it comes back it was meant to be yours." Well it's true.. cheesy enough. I know it's painful but you have to let it be for now.
My ex texted me after 5 months of no contact. What does he want?
He is doing this to get something from you which you gave him— validation. Anyone who has dated has received the random text, 6 months, 9 months, even YEARS after the relationship ended. If you haven’t had any contact at all, it’s probably because this person wants some validation from you. A sense of “I can still get them to text me back.” Best case scenario they missed you a little, but not enough to make real contact. Worst case scenario, they are just attention-seekers who scroll their their phone contacts seeking emojis now and then. If you are not interested in maintaining contacts with exes, don’t respond to contact that isn’t substantive.Don’t ask him why he did it. It’s obvious why he did it.
What does this guy that I'm talking to want exactly? Is he really in or just talking?
We do talk, text mostly which he initiates now. But we never meet. Never. I think I don't know what he is in person, and whenever I say anything, he comes up with things like what do you want and that he can't change what it is. But I've given him enough space and time that he should put in some effort as well or else I should stop investing so much into this. He always says things come up although I see him in the campus all the time. And the last thing he said was that he knows what's better for him and his life so I stopped saying anything at all. But then he says no you should tell me, and that he's falling for me. But he is never clear. What I want is a little confirmation that he's here for the long term but what he thinks is that I want to get physical. What should I do? I don't think he can be that stubborn or stupid to not know what to do exactly.
What does it mean if a GUY asks you to SMOKE WEED with him?
I'm a teenage girl (taurus) in high school. I really like this guy. He's a scorpio (if that helps) and he always wants me to do weed with him. I've never smoked before. Everyday he asks me to do weed with him after school or go to his house to smoke. I really like him. I know he likes me cause he's always annoying me in class and flirting with me everyday. I want to hang out with him but im afraid he's going to try to get me to do weed. So I wanna know....Why does he want me to do WEED with him so badly? Is he trying to take advantage of me or what?
A man loves me, but he is married. What should I do?
A man loves me, but he is married. What should I do? Substitute that with A man loves me, but he has a girlfriend. What should I do? Substitute that with A man loves me, but he is unlikely to be monogamous. What should I do?Everyone is telling you to run & that is the easy knee-jerk response. Life is never that simple. Why does he love you? Do you love him? Does he still love his wife? Does he have kids?If he has kids it is in everyone's best interest especially the kids that he says married until they turn 18. Now as to everyone saying if he is cheating on his wife he will cheat on you is both true and false. If he is in the same position with you where whatever is making him cheat is happening with you then absolutely he will do the same thing again. If however you continuously fill whatever need that is then he is unlikely to cheat. Human nature is non-monogamous. Modern society is monogamous. Marriage is a promise & a legal contract. It is not a magical guarantee of feelings.Right now he wants the best of all worlds. What he gets from you and what he gets from his wife. Are you OK with that?What you should not so is disrupt the lives of children, they do better growing up with both parents. If that is not an issue you should understand the why? Figure out what he is not getting at home and whether or not you will always be able to provide that for him. If at any point you can’t then yes he will cheat on you as well. If you can then…. The easy and statistically safe answer is to run but life is more complex than that and the truth is none of us have all of the details so there is no neat easy answer as to what you should do.
What should I do if my boyfriend wants to have sex but I don't?
I deeply feel that the previous answers are incomplete.Having sex should be pleasurable and should be by concent of both partners.That includes rape fantasies when discussed and agreed on.If you don't feel like having sex, ask yourself:1. Why is it that I don't wonna have sex?2. Do I enjoy sex with my partner?3. Do I enjoy sex at all?4. Do I ever feel hot and horny?5. What makes me feel hot and horny?6. Is this the way I see myself? Is this what I want to feel?7. What kind of thoughts come to me when I think of having sex? Positive? Negative?8. Do I feel confident about my current knowledge and skills in sex?Do I know "how to have sex"? If you enjoy having sex, but not with your partner, communication is key.Talk about what you like, what he likes, places, positions, foreplay, etc.Get him to understand what pleases you. Understand what pleases him. Act on it. Keep positive language.It will most probably motivate you and open your "taste buds".Alternatively, it will show you that your partner isn'tccompatible for you sex-wise and you will be able to look at your relationship from a new angle.If you don't enjoy sex in general, first know that it is OK.That being said, if you feel like making a change, consider consulting with an expert.Read online. Ask your partner to be patient. Do you ever masturbate? Try exploring your own body.Expand your knowledge, learn techniques and positions, get more sex experience so you can feel confident.Try to be the one who initiates from time to time. It feels different, and might be fun for you, also it will probably make your partner feel better about your relationship.Guys also want to feel desired.You know how we sometimes think of going to the gym... We don't want to do physical effort, exhaust ourselves, but we go anyway because we know that the feeling that follows the exercise is so sweet...That's the attitude to go.Closing words:Great sex is normally one of the keys to a healthy relationship.Sometimes it's good to do it anyway.Concent. Passion. Communication. Love. Respect and self respect.Enjoy.
My boyfriend says he wants me to be mean to him. Does he really want this? Should I do it? What are your general thoughts?
We play how we practice. It's an old sports saying, but what it means is that we perform in real games how we practice. What happens if you get used to treating your boyfriend mean, then break up? How will you treat the nice guy who comes into your life next? How long will HE stay around if you treat him mean?Secondly, how much does he really respect you if he's asking you to hurt him, another living being?!! He doesn't! He's focused on his needs and pains, not on you or on building an emotionally healthy relationship.Run away. Run far and fast. There are prostitutes who deal with these kinds of guys and ultimately, when you won't beat, cut, burn or torture him so he can feel adequately punished, he'll go to a prostitute anyway. Get out of this relationship and ask yourself why you are attracted to someone who feels so badly about themselves that they need to be treated meanly? He has serious issues and they'll only get worse.The short-term pain of breaking up is nothing compared to the long-term gain of finding a healthy boyfriend who loves you and respects you.
Is "Does he wants to come?" a grammatically correct sentence? My teacher said it was.?
In our exam she placed a sentence "Does he wants to come?" and if you see an error, you're supposed to correct it. I corrected it with "Does he want to come?" but the correct answer was NO ERROR since the sentence, according to her, is grammatically correct. I'd argue but my classmate agreed.
My boyfriend says he loves me but now he wants a break. What should I do?
I feel like I have written this. I am in exactly the same position as you. I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years and he has said exactly the same thing. He loves me. He wants a future. He would die without me. And now he's moving to another city and wants a break and to be in his own for a few years. The only thing I can advise you to do if you truely love him. Tell him how you feel. Put all the cards on the table. And then accept that he wants a break which a lot of the time means they want to break up with us. This could be the best thing for the relationship . For him to find himself or whatever the hell men have to do when they say this . They might realise this is a huge mistake. Or they don't want us anymore and want a new start. You need to make the decesion. You have to take control. This is your life too. Don't let him take that away from you. Now I know this is hard I cry everyday because of him leaving but accept that this has happened. And if they are truly the one. The man we marry. It will work out. If that's in 1 week 1 month 1 year or 10 years it will happen. And if not. Then that man is waiting out there for us.