If my heart actually physically hurts when i think about someone, what is that?
Um... unnatural? OOOOOOOOOOOh your HEART hurts! Whoops I thought you said head haha my bad. I guess I really don't have anything for you; sorry :( I suppose it could be really intense love (or just some really intense feeling you get from thinking about her). Although there's scientific evidence stating that the heart doesn't actually have anything to do with love, thinking about something for which you have such strong feelings could stress you out, raise your heart rate, etc., resulting in heart/chest pain. Just try to remind yourself how good it is to have her as a friend, and don't think so much about loving her and its consequences. I know it seems *really* hard, but it is just barely possible, trust me. I think I know exactly how you feel (minus the physical pain). Just try to be as good of friends with her as you can possibly be; it sounds like it's the best thing you can do for both of you right now. Sorry to hear about this, and I really hope it works out for you.
What are some signs that your boyfriend really loves you?
Basics signs to understand if your boyfriend loves you He will certainly make time for you without any lame excuses.He will reply to your text and call quickly or if in case he is late he will call and make you understand the reason .He will understand the insecurity of a girl and never try to act or do anything stupid to make you vulnerable.He will introduce you to his close inner group of friends and family so you can be more comfortable around .He will have eyes for you (may be few flirting incident in general) but you will always be his girl.You will be his Priority among along his work and people as he will never ignore you under the veil of space and time .He would understand the difference between Lovd and Lust. He would wait .He would ask you for the marriage first.He would treat your parents and family as his own and your friends as his own group .He would lead you in hardtimes, guide you when you will be low and stand by with you when you will be least expecting this him .Even after a long and tiring day if he is calling to ask you how was your day/ did you have your lunch etc . . Believe me he love you .He will balance things, work /time /relations with you.Instead of breaking up on small or big fights, he will sit with you, communicate and solve the issue and make things work again.You will see him with genuine smile and warmth whenever you will meet him.He would be a bit possessive ( natural in all men) as he is afraid to loose you .Your weight/skintone/ etc will not be a matter of concern to him .The best way to know if he love you is try testing him when things go south, if he is there till the end to make things rights and workable (girl don't loose him , he is a keeper).If a man is into you, he will come and get you . It is this simple.Though relation is based of true abs mutual efforts of both the individuals . Trust and respect him, if the person is genuine , he is not going to wander.Peace (Ra)
If a girl has a boyfriend but allows you to kiss her, does it mean she loves you?
Oooooh tricky tricky question! In fact it means two things. Its happened to me unfortunately.She loves you and her bf at the same time.While it's true that honestly that's called cheating and in no form makes what you did right in head, she may actually really love you, depending on whether or not you two have known each other for quite a while.You could have just met her and then found out she had a boyfriend too….and that's actually a bit true too.i just happened to watch a movie like this with the exact same scenarioTHE CHOICEgirl had a BOYFRIEND, meets a new neighbor, falls in love and not only allows him to kiss her but fuck her at her house. Safe to say that coma she was put in after makes me happy for such a cheater, but let's move on.2.She's vulnerable, and wants to be loved because she’s not happyI fell in love with my best friend once it was tragic!i loved her so much and I never considered her attractive for years until just recently. We were best friends but everyone confused us as a couple many times in pubic and by family members. And there the seeds where planted.i can remember it so clearly I was always telling her I felt and she kept denying it.then one day outa the blue she just told me. I might as well just be with you.I was shocked. We kissed and it felt beautiful and so very real.but she just wanted to be loved because she wasn't happy.her bf verbally and physically abused her, stole her money constantly and got her hooked on drugs. he was twice her age with no job. She was deeply in love with him and yet tired of his bullshit at the same time. I had cared so much her, that she finally saw me as a better option.but looking back I knew she was vulnerable and just needed a hug. We grow stronger sure and we both loved each other but I was thrusted into her world as she was mine and now we hardly talk anymore.I’ve kept a strong distance from her because it hurts too much to see someone you love stay with someone like that to this day she’s still with him now pregnant too.it may mean she loves you or just wants you but you should never want that back
Mi amor: what does it mean when my boyfriend calls another girl this?
mi amour means my love i dont know how many more meanings that can have
When a boy says i want you physically and emotionally and psychologically what does that mean?
That's just a cover line to tell you what you want (which he obviously doesn't know anything about 'cause he didn't even make sense). What he really means is 'Whats the fastest route to getting in your pants?'
Can a girl tell honestly about her past physical relationships to her future husband?
It is not easy, especially if its an arranged marriage where you donot fully know your spouse. Strategy my wife used is to reveal things in instalments. I got to know something was there between her n her ex when he wrote messages on her fb page and when I found her testimonials on him in Orkut page. When asked she initially denied it and said he is just friend. Later revealed that he proposed her during first year but she said hey both were best friends. Later she said due to his repeated requests she accepted his love but nothing physical. Later she revealed that they used to meet in parks where he used kiss her lips and that's all. Fe months later she said one fine day he suddenly grabbed her breasts and pressed them in passion, once only. But later she agreed that he used to enjoy her breasts in parks and she used to give him handjobs. Finally she revealed they made love in her home when they met for combined studies. In the end I got to know they mated ffor abou 68-70 times . But by the time I got to know this we are 3 yrs in marriage and blessed with kid. I started lovingher ignoring her past.
What does it mean when a girl says she doesn't want to rush into a relationship and wants to take things slower?
I have found that women are attracted to a great number of different things, but amongst the top are confidence and humour. Once attracted to a man, women will rationalise their attraction, rather than the other way around (rationalising which man they should be attracted to, and then falling for him).For a woman to say that she enjoys your company, but wants to take it slow, indicates that she is not sufficiently attracted to you to rationalise taking you to bed. This is on you now. You might be intelligent, well read, interesting, and interested. But if you haven't triggered her attraction circuitry, she is going to wait until you do before she commits to anything that for her could be life changing (which basically means sex). If you continue to be interesting but not attractive to her, you will eventually be relegated to the dreaded and mythical "friend-zone"!So you have to work out how to be confident, funny, slightly mysterious, slightly unavailable, fun-to-be-around-but-never-there-when-you're-having-that-fun. You have to find out what makes her want more of you, and then do that, in just the right amount. You have to get her to want to chase you, not the other way around. Good luck, this message will self-destruct in 5 sec.....
I love a girl but she doesn't feel the same. Despite her knowing I like her, she spends time with me all the time. What should I do cause I want her?
If this question is still up for reading. Here is an advice. An advice I am taking as well.If you are certain the feelings beyond you two has gone beyond just physical attraction and infatuation. Perhaps it worth to judge on your own if you want to hold out.Be yourself and treat her the way you always did but never pressure her.If she leaves, you can turn for a new interest without regrets for you are the better man. You did what most men cannot do. That is you gave unconditional love to her.There are many who will tell you that it is foolish and a waste of time. That is true. I agree, if your feeling for her are just based on physical attraction and comfort only.Now that you know you are capable of love, and not lust. Whoever new you might meet later in life, you know you are capable of handle disappointments but it doesnt keep you down. If your love is return, that love will shine the brightest and burn the longest for you now know the value of it through your experiences.
I love a girl who is currently dating someone else, but I feel she might love me. I don't know how to talk to her about this clearly. Is it wrong to tell her to leave her boyfriend?
You're too nice. I'm sure that this answer is going to be in my top What is the worst dating advice? Ever. You love her. She loves you. She's going to stay with the guy she doesn't love. So she's either lying to you about love, or lying about the guy.I had this situation a couple of times and whilst it wasn't love (I had a romantic idea that I'd only tell one girl I loved her in my life - been married for 10 years now) there was something there. It didn't happen. I was useful as a fall back option, a reserve date, as pressure on the boyfriend but I was never in the running. So you have a couple of choices. You either raise your game or stop playing. When you raise your game you can either do it the moral or immoral way. Morally these are the things you do:Get your body in shapeGive your clothes a make overThink about what she likes (not what you think she should like) and reflect thatImmorally Control your Facebook feed so that she only ever sees you with girls prettier than her. And she must see themFind a 'beard' who will pretend to be your girlfriend. Very pretty and articulate. Going out with someone better than you raises your value. Identify and create 'stories' that will make her attracted to you and make sure she hears them via third parties. (Your work with orphans, the local children's hospital and small furry animals)Find the matchmaker her parents use (if old fashioned) and bribe her to include your nameThe present boy friend may or may not last. Macho telling her to leave him will not work. You put yourself in the same class as men who attack women on buses if you do that. The best you will get is scorn and a slap. You make yourself look so good that when it ends you are the best choice. Not because you believe it (which is what you do being a naive optimist - a general reflection on people rather than you specifically ;)) but because she believes it. This almost certainly won't work but you will then be set up to get a really great girl to spend the rest of your life with. So you have a win win solution. Either you get her or you get someone better than her