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What Does It Mean When A Girl Is Obsessed With You

What does it mean when a girl is obsessed with you?

There is this female friend that I have she was hurt a lot because her ex boyfriend cheated on her & use her for sex & I try to cheer her up make her feel good about herself & I told her whenever she needed someone to talk to I am always here for you because I care of how you feel & you can always lean on my shoulder when you want or whenever you are sad so I hang out with her a lot we laugh a lot watch movies a lot we were just doing best friends stuff plus she is one of my best friends & I care about her a lot & it hurts me to see her being hurt so I continue to cheer her up then later on her pain slowly fade away & she told you are one of the reasons why I got cheer up & then she told me I am obsessed with you so I was wondering what does that mean?

What does I'm obsessed with you mean?

It means he can't stop thinking about you, and probably wants to be your boyfriend.

What does it mean when you are obsessed with someone? How do their actions affect you?

Being obsessed without someone means you are unduly concerned about them and everything they do for no good reason. The reason you are obsessed with them is something weird going on in your own mind, and not something in reality. For example you could be obsessed with someone you don't even know, but merely saw on the street. In that case you don't really know what kind of person they are, but merely imagining certain characteristics about them that may not be actually true.Usually obsession leads to long times spent thinking about the person, stalking them online, and worst-- possibly evening stalking them in real life. How do their actions affect you? If you find they like something, such as a band, you may also endeavor to acquaint yourself with said band. If they post photos of swimming on Facebook you may want to learn to swim or swim more-- simply because they are doing it.

What does "I'm obsessed with you" mean?

Every individual is different. So if I say I think someone is “nice”, i might mean one thing while another person saying the same word might mean something different. To one person “nice” might mean a person of integrity, to another, it might mean they are a “pushover”. This falls under semantics and the best way to get clarification is to ask he person.That said, Usually, in the American culture, that can have some unhealthy vibes. You can be intrigued by someone, fascinated by someone, like someone, love someone, etc. But obsessed?It is possible that obsessed means “I think about you all the time”. It could mean sort of a mental visualization and rumination of someone. That is not how the word is typically used. But I can imagine a situation where a person uses the word in that way.But, to clarify…In General: You might like someone if you seek out this person because you enjoy their company. You might be obsessed with someone if you are sending a droid with a camera to follow them around. Normal people don’t enjoy that.There is a distinction between obsession and love. Often, love comes with compassion and empathy, whereas obsession comes with objectifying a person and projecting your fantasies onto them.To love someone, you must at least know them - their personality, tendencies, emotions, etc. To be obsessed with someone, you don’t even need to know them! Just take a look at the people obsessed with celebrities.

How do you break up with a girl who is obsessed with you?

You must be extremely clear and firm.Provide reasons, even if those reasons may hurt her feelings. You will be giving her vivid examples she can think over which tell her that you are serious.Firmly state that this is final. Tell her there is nothing she can ever change that will alter your decision. The relationship is in the past. There is no future. Do not contact you ever again.If you have anything of hers, give it back at the time you make these statements. Best for you to get YOUR things from her prior to this, or to make it okay never to see those items again. The reason is that you want zero contact with her after this finality. You do not want her calling you to say she has your sweatshirt or razor.Do not say, “It is me, not you.” Do not say, “you are nice, you will find someone else.” The more you try to protect her feelings, the more she will feel that there is some way to get you back, some crevice to stick her foot into and pry open. If it is not her, perhaps she can change your mind. If she is nice, perhaps she can get you to open your heart back up to her.Do not respond to calls, email, texts or any other form of communication. Do not say one single thing in response, or you give her hope. Block her calls or other modes of communication. If she tries to use other people to give you messages, make it clear to those people that you will have no contact with this ex-girlfriend ever again.If she stalks you, call the police.

What do you do when a girl tells you that your obsessed?

Ok...I know what you mean man..all my silly "friends" say that I'm obsessed with my boyfriend,but I'm not...I'm in love.They just don't know what it means or feels like to be in love.That girl doesn't love you back...I'm sorry but she's really not worth your life..find a person who is :) someone that loves you back.

What does it mean when you obsess over someone?

Back in 2010 I went through my first major break up.I was 22, fresh out of college and coming out of a 5 year relationship, so I thought I’d be ok. I put up very little fight when I was told she wanted to part ways. I took a flight to New York and spent a week catching up with friends and enjoying “freedom”.Once I made it back home it all hit me. I had just had the time of my life, but the one person I wanted to share it with was no longer one phone call away. She was gone.Naively i called her, thinking i could smoothe out 5 years of issues and 1 week of silence with a single phone call. I was wrong.The next 2 and a half years were hell. Nothing mattered anymore, only her. I sent her emails, called her, text, commented on her social media and liked posts obsessively the first few months, until she made it clear I no longer had a right to.I visibly stayed away, but thought of her every minute of everyday. Everything I saw, smelled, tasted or heard gave me the worst heartache imaginable, because everything brought back memories of her, of us.I became a recluse, constantly alone. When I eventually dated, it was women that looked like her, dressed like her or had similar names or background.Every relationship failed quickly. I was either talking about her too much or placing her on such a high pedistal that the women I was seeing felt she was a barometer for our relationship with standards that were impossible to meet.It took time but eventually I moved on. What I realized during my time of obsession is that we are not obsessed with the actual person or miss them, it is the “idea” of them we miss and obsess over.There was a way we felt around them that we long for. We saw ourselves much happier, stable and confident. During our state of obsession we feel the total opposite so we trick ourselves into thinking we cannot experience those feelings without that person.It’s all a lie. We can experience that and more, much more. The feeling they gave us is unique and cannot be replicated, but it’s not the ultimate feeling. There are more out there that we can equally enjoy if not exceed.That feeling they gave us is gone. Many great feelings will come and go. We must never forget that.

Could my brother's girlfriend be obsessed with me?

My brother and I were roommates. He was dating a girl 4 years younger then me and she spent most of her time over at our place. She use to come over at odd times during the day when my brother was out at work, school or running errands. She knew his daily schedule but for some odd reason she use to come by. It's not like she was homeless or anything. She turned this routine into a habbit. Things got so bad she wanted to know everything where was I going what time I would be back??? She would sit around and when the phone would ring she'd ask who's calling in a demand way.Once a credit card company called to offer me a credit card and she answered pretending to be me! One weekend we went over her place and I noticed she had everything like me from clothes to hair product! she even bought the same car as me. She would asked my brother who my hair dresser was. When we would go out to eat she would order the same items as me. What is freaky is that when my ex and I broke up shortly I had a new boyfriend. I kept the new relationship in the down low I wasn't ready to introduce him to family and friends. I kept him a secret for 5 months. One morning I parked at a private no trespassing area and my car was towed. I tried calling my brother to pick me up left a voice message. I then called my boyfriend he was on his way when I see my brother's girlfriend's car driving down the road and she pulled over to pick me up she had my brothers phone and had heard my message.She then noticed my boyfriend's truck and said isn't that your friend? I said he is here to pick me up. The next day my brother said she was mad at me for not telling her I was dating someone. She was upset that I have I kept it a secret from her. She confessed that she was into me and that she wanted to be me. I told her to admire someone famous! She continued you are who I want to be like. I started laughing. I ignored her! One night we all went out to a party she asked my boyfriend very personal and intimate questions about our relationship. I confronted her, she and I argued! I was very upset with her I went out to the car and she followed me asking me to stop avoiding her. I told her in tears that she was rude disrespectful and annoying! I yelled stop obsessing on me. She then started laughing and said "I'm not obsessed with you, you are the last person in the world I would be obsessed with!" What does this mean? I'm confused!!!

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