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What Does It Mean When Someone Only Comes To You When They Need Advice

HELP I NEED ADVICE!!! =(( answers?

okay, goodness no. Usually your dreams are subconscious worries. Perhaps you're worried too much about death, religion, what comes next, or any thing along those lines, but merely dreaming something does not mean it will happen

People dream they die all the time and it doesnt happen, or they dream of death, suicide, murder, babies, all kinds of things that rarely happen. Dreams are just dreams, the only way they have meaning is if you search to hard and make them connect to something else. You won't die. At least I hope not. Just calm down, chill out, and read a good book, exercise, or journal.

Keeping a dream journal is an excellent way to track your dreams and see what sort of things are on your mind. If you're really worried look around for a low-cost or free psychologist and take your dream notes with you. He or she would be able to interpret and tell you what may or may not be on your mind. Hope this helps.

If a girl always calls you when she sad or upset and needs someone to talk to does it mean she likes you?

Do you always see her when she calls saying she's sad,depressed - maybe you are too available for her with nothing asked of her in return. Is she seeing other guys?Maybe she doesn't see you as a boyfriend but is keeping you around for whenever her other relationships do not work out/ You need to be blunt and ask her and if she isn't ready yet then you either wait until????Whenever . Or you move on in the romance department and when she call and you aren't otherwise buy then see her. You need to control your life and not wait around for someone else-to see what they will do before you can know what to do.Ask her for your life shouldn't be on hold like this. If someone loves you they will want to be with you all the time and not just when they are sad or depressed( you are not a therapist)Being in love makes you want to share joys and laughter and have fun---doesn't sound like she does to me and you do not need to be used.

I need advice. Boy advice.?

OKAY.... So there's this guy who likes me (we're both 13) and I don't like him back. I guess I just like to be liked. Does that make sense? Anyway, he is really shy, so he won't ask me to dance at any of our school dances. I can just tell he likes me, don't ask me how--it's a girl's intuition. So, I don't like him, but for some reason, I keep flirting with him. I don't know why I am, because I don't like him, and we're not going to the same high school next year, so it's not like I'm going to be seeing him again. Am I being really mean to flirt with him if I'm not interested? I just want some advice. No rude words please.

Why am I always the one helping others and when I need someone nobody comes for me?

I have the exact same problem. I give money, driving, time, labour, friendship, work, DIY, chores, everything. Yet no one will lift a finger in return.I think its a mental illness, we do not have doctors that can diagnose if people have this problem. I do not like people doing anything for me anyway. I do not like feeling like i have to owe someone. I help others, but if i need help back its never done. I think society is set up like this. The problem is highlighted when person after person do not do anything.I tried to describe how it feels. Its like pushing a grand piano up a mountain, the moment you let go its straight back to the bottom.Empathy is very rare now. Look at world leaders and the wars, this would not be possible if there was empathy. I think the system is designed on greed. We get lured into wanting more and more things. People work hard. People are desperate to pay their rent, we are not allowed to live freely “off the grid”, so we all must work to pay the bills. There is no room left for empathy. Even in the bible its was said over and over that greed and money lenders are the root of the problem.When no one else helps anymore, then you have to take care of yourself. I think a ”recession” is where in society everyone has asked the next person for their help ideas and no one wants to do it anymore.If you feel hurt by others being pathetic, then just look after yourself. Never put others in charge of things that need to be done, If you handle it best then leave it your own reliable hands. The problem is where you expect others to come in their own accord.You have to assume the least of others and when certain people come wanting to do more then keep them in your life. Its that initial want from others that you are looking for.It does hurt when you make 99% of the puzzle,and that person cant be bothered to put the last piece in.So just step back, keep your money to yourself, enjoy taking care of your self, respecting yourself.

Its my first time celebrating it and i need advice so is valentines day really just for ladies?

So my gf said she wasnt going tk get me anything and said i dont have to and i replied by saying good now i can save my money and she left me on read and replied 10 min after saying valentines day is for ladies so thats when i realized that women never mean what they say which gets on me on my nerve everytime. I realized thats one of the reason i never got the girls i used to talk to to become my gf i always took it literally now i finally have one shes 18 anf weve been together for 5 months. And i had to quickly say that i was still going to get her something it was going to be a surprise and she got happy i can tell through text. Were both going to be at work and she hasnt told her parents about me so we havent been able to go out picture weve only been on 2 dates in 5 months and we dont have a chance to get intimate and its been 2 months and we only had sex 2 times. I honesty dont know what im benefitting from being in a relationship since she always gets what she wants and i only get a good conversation through text or a companion. Is this what a relationship is about a men pleasing his lady 70 percent of the time.

Why do people only talk to me when they need something, and not talk to me for who I am?

In a very straightforward and elaborate way, you’ve just defined a special type of people in your question - the type we define as “selfish”. The people you’ve mentioned in your question are selfish, probably to their very bones.The world is a very cruel place, and it’s generally advised that you look out for yourself first before you do the same for others. According to that, it’s okay if you think about yourself before others, but this is to be followed in times of adversity, and not in every freaking chance you get.This behaviour, the one involving “you only mean something to me when I can utilize you or your presence in an advantageous way for myself”, is unacceptable. It’s simply unacceptable. And the people sporting such behaviour should be thrown out of your life like trash, because that’s exactly what they are.People on the internet, with a sense of sarcasm, like to say that “help a friend in need, and he/she will remember you when he/she needs help again”. Well guess what? Those people are not ‘friends’ by any means. They’re pretty much parasites. Like this leech right here -Leeches just latch onto their hosts, and drain the bodily fluids (mostly blood) which they take for themselves. Apart from the occasional infection and anaphylactic shocks in a few rare cases, they give absolutely nothing in return. Exactly like those people you mentioned in the question. I don’t think I need to tell you what should be done with leeches.All the best casting them out of your lives.P.S. Thanks for the answer request. Means a lot.

Some people only remember me when they need me. What should I do with them or how should I behave?

Problems appear when you start expecting from others.Firstly, If you cannot avoid this person, you're left with only one choice! Next time you do any favors for this person, try not to expect anything in return. HAHA And just chill Go for the road tripAnd second is obivous!! Be thankful to God that you have succeeded in becoming such a good human being that whenever people are in trouble or seek help,they look up to you with a hope that you'll surely help them out.Never give them more importance than they want(because they don’t deserve you). May be its in your nature but its time to change.And bro life is short to worry about anything. you had better enjoy it (and please don’t think about these kind of things) .LOVE EVERYONE TRUST FEW PADDLE YOUR OWN CANOE!!!!!!!Hope this will help you!!

What do you call a person who is only friendly when they need something?

People love labeling other people a narcissist. Disregard that response. One doesn't cause the other. Keep reading and I’ll tell you why.I’m going to be honest. I'm an introvert. I don't call on people all the time just because I don't want to. I like being by my lonesome. Now if I realize I need something (advice, a friend, money, a ride, anything) a particular person may pop into my head. Why, because I'm sure its something I cant do on my own, if I could it would be done. It doesn't mean I'm “using” the person. Hell they don't have to butter me up right before they need something. That's what annoys me. If you need something, ask.Now some people like being buttered up, but its the same thing…same end result. You may not like when people call you when they ask for money or material things but people no matter how you look at it, if a person didn't need something they wouldn't contact you. This need could be someone to go to the mall with, advice, and opinion, gossip partner anything. The people in my circle know how I am. They know I disappear from time to time and they are fine with it. They know I'm there if they need me vice versa and that's why its not a parasitic relationship.Now the question is if a person only picks you to ask for money, rides or material things, why do they feel ok doing so. Switch it up, start asking them for things and see if they get upset. That’ll tell you a lot.My rant was mainly towards the person to said this person is a narcissist. I was showing its not necessarily it.

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