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My close friends ex boyfriend likes me, what should i do?
My friend's ex is really into me. I told him that there could never be anything between us because I know that my friend isn't over him and she still hopes that they'd get back together. I did not tell her that he likes me and that he constantly calls and text me because I know that, that will devastate her. Him and I are only friends because she introduced us, and she wants us to stay friends despite the fact that they no longer speak to each other. First of all let me just say, I am not attracted to him at all, so even if he never dated her, I wouldn't date him...but I like the attention he gives me. Since they broke up, I never hang out with him in person, its just phone conversations and txt messages. And I know I'd never date him, but I still entertain his conversations simply because I like the attention. A part of me wants to let her know that he is pursuing me, but I feel that it wouldn't do any good and make her feel worse about him breaking up with her. Like I said, I'm not trying to get with him and I made it clear to him that we could never be. Should I tell her and stop talking to him? Or should I keep this to myself? Also, am I wrong for liking the attention?
Why does my ex want me to be their friend?
Oh dear try to understand one thing once an ex is always an ex. Please don't let that person feed on you like a leech. You might be happy about it but sooner you will realise that person isnt there for you but for themselves. That person got use to you so until your ex finds someone else they are passing there time. One day in the meantime your ex will find some other companion and then they will move on and forget you. Wait a minute may be that person is already in a relationship and you are just a backup option or just because during the relationship got use to you so now it's just a habit. Whenever new partner will fight your ex will come and cry on your shoulder, you will feel your ex still loves you but don't get lured into this trap. Beware may be ex wants to move on but doesn't want you to move on or go into relationship or he/she can't see you with another person. You ex can get jealous, can have ego issues if you go out with other person. Sometimes we feel that person is innocent and we really want to vouch on them but they are nothing more than leech who in the process will only look for their personal gain. You will start questioning your ownself and try to justify them. You will doubt yourself . Please don't fall into the pit. If you fall into the pit during night time it's ok but falling into it during day time even after knowing it was present there is a mistake my friend. Lastly if the relationship ended it was for some reason. Date other people. try to get along with other. This way you will find out that you actually want her in your life or not. Let your ex also go on date. If you guys still feel the sameway for each other you can always patch up. Atleast this time you will be sure. But if you don't give chance to yourself you might not realise what is the truth. And don't let the other person take you for granted by being available.
When my ex-girlfriend dumped me, she said she still loves me as a friend, and she asked me to forgive her and not to hate her. (But she is still 100% certain she doesn't want to take me back). She also wants us to be friends right after the breakup. Is that reasonable?
It's horrible. I'll just answer because I'm on the same spot as you are, but I kind of figured it out, after a lot of suffering things are cool for about 5 months now.She was 100% sure she doesn't wanted to came back, I was 100% sure I wanted and that I loved her (of course I wasn't, and of course she wasn't nothing is 100%). And she still loved me as a friend, and every time she would see me would be all sweet and would send me messages showing her nails, and whatnot she did in the day.. that was hell, horrible.So I just did nothing, you don't want to be my girlfriend, ok, whatever, I would ask her out as friend, and she would not hold herself for a second when she smelled my perfume. It got to a point that we were discussing a relationship that didn't existed anymore, so I just stopped discussing what the hell do we had, I don't care, I have no idea now, but I'm happy, she's happy, so whatever... She didn't want to be my GF, she technically isn't, I wanted to feel she loved and I feel whenever she look at me, text me with hearts and cute girly stuff, sleep with me and care about my well being. So, we both win... Point is, i decided what i wanted, exactly, don't defined it with one word.I wanted her to have sex with only me, I wanted to feel loved and I wanted to improve her life and make her happy. I don't know what she wanted clearly but it's working for me, and she's not complaining anymore.I'd say, if you like her, play her game, you will gain nothing by fighting her, it may hurt a lot the proximity, but you will not get her back by fighting either. Given time two things will happen, she will realise you two are great together or you will get tired of it and move on, it heals faster when you keep seeing her stupidity and defects and how boring she is as a friend now, than when you're far away still imagining that loving girl that left you. Yes, she will get really boring as a friend. You simply have nothing really good to talk when you still in love with each other and pretending not. I'd wait a bit to see if she realise how stupid she is for letting a great guy go and run back to your bed... Cheering for you :)