What is a good gift to take to hospital for somebody with 8 broken ribs, broken arm and collar bone?
The injuries are all on his right hand side and he's right handed. I'm trying to think of something to counter the boredom as he's due to be in hospital for at least 10 days. Thanks
What should I do if my boyfriend is giving me a hard time for losing my virginity in the past? Is it so bad that he cannot even give me a bit of recognition anywhere? It’s more than two years now, he has mood swings about this. Will he ever move on?
First off, the Quora bots are evil and they edited your question.I got a screenshot of the original:It's been 2 years.in two years you could have given birth two babies and be well on your way to a third if your sexual history was really that much of an issue.Your sexual history is not the issue.Your sexual history was never the issue.we need to get that out of the way right now, because either he's lying to you, lying to himself, or both on this one.Nobody with genuine objections to your sexual history is sticking around for 2 years.So why is he still with you?you need to ask yourself what he gains out of this relationship.he's getting something from you either wants or needs, or he wouldn't be there.If he could get that same something from somebody else, he wouldn't be there.Next question:What do you gain from a relationship with him?What is it that he gives you that no one else can?Do you think that's going to be enough for you forever?I think you already know it's not enough.You wouldn't be questioning how he treats you if it was enough.It's not healthy the way he treats you.The most healthy thing you can do for yourself right now is to ruin your life.Throw it all away!Absolutely everything you believe!Let It Go!Let him go.Once you have nothing left to lose, you have everything to gain.There's a better life out there for you ,with a better person even; but you cannot be this person you are now anymore—leave her behind.Cut him out of your life without warning or malice, along with everything you do together or hold in common, and start over.2 years is a very long time not to be your own person.This is how you start.
Can God forgive blasemy?
Years ago I committed a sin. I Cursed God. Since then I believe he cursed me. You see a few years ago I had a friend who was like a brother to me. We were deployed to Iraq. He was under stressand I was always there for him. One morning I saw him put his m4 to his mouth. I ran to try and stop him but I was just out of reach when he blew his brains out. I was left there blood on my face holding him in my arms. It was then I yelled "God you motherf****er damn you to hell! I curse you and renounce you! You allowed this to happen You who said you were benevolent and were our shield. You are no worse than Satan himself! I will never more be associated with such a God." The unit rushed me out and was quick to send me on R&R and swept the matter under the rug. Since then I had many unfortunate events. I was blown up to the point I was suspected to have TBI (traumatic Brain Injury), I am almost deaf in one ear after another explosion, I barely survived a rocket attack. The army didnt recognize my dedication and sacrifices upon rerurn. It took me almost three years to be able to hold a rifle without shaking. Since our rerurn I have been reliving that event. I do not sleep much I tried to hang myself only to have the rope broke 5 times. I thought I married the one only to be in a purer hell as I discovered I was SCAMMED by a con artist who I discovered is a married woman to multiple husbands all service members. I drink myself silly (last bar tab was $456) I My wife has filed enough falsely needed loans to wear once this divorce hopefully is finalized I will be lucky to recieve $100 of my pay a month. I have to see my Sargeant Major once a month to hear about my wife whom I haven't seen in a year. I asked God to forgive me but every time I do more drama happens. What can I do to gain his forgiveness. I know what I said was evil but I was grieving. I didn't mean to take it out on him. I am very sorry for what I said. I just want this torment to end.
Caregiver To Mom Feels Taken Advantage Of?
Hi Brenda. It is so common to feel like this and so very hard not to feel like this. I am in the UK so do not know what carer's support there is where you are. Over here we have services which try to give carers a break or have meetings where everyone has a good moan and feels better for knowing others are going through the same thing and feel the same way. Yes, your brother is being very insensitive. It is quite common for carers to get depressed and even sometimes to start being abusive. I am sure you will not harm your mother but I bet you can see how sometimes people lose it completely and do lash out at the person? Remember being a mother to a toddler and feeling desperate for some time to yourself? It is so much worse when it is an elderly person because you do not have the fun and rewarding bits. I am an ex nurse and a carer for the elderly and I also looked after my sister in law when she had such severe post natal depression she turned into a statue - this was only a few months but I felt I was losing my mind. I think you need to be selfish and think what you need. This is not what you want but what you need - you have a right to a life. Talk to your brother and mother about the options. Say you must have time to yourself and they can either agree to all help pay for some regular help so you can get out a few times a week, a carer so you at least do not have to do all the personal care yourself, a day centre so you have a whole day to yourself or your mother will have to go into a home where they have carers swapping shifts every 8 hours because it is a FACT that no-one can cope with doing this 24/7. You may feel guilty and that everyone will blame you and be unsympathetic but this is better than you becoming depressed and being unable to care for your mother or yourself. :)
My husband has ptsd and wants a divorce?
So my husband and I have been together for almost 3 years. We got married a few months before he deployed. During his deployment he got blown up and when he came back things escalated quickly. I was always the dominant one who made decisions (because he was okay that), took care of everything too. He was the most patient person ever, easygoing, sweet guy. As soon as he got back he was finally diagnosed with PTSD and TBI. He attended treatment programs through the VA, yet he started having hallucinations of his kills, bad anixiety and panic attacks, he has really bad depression, has constant nightmares, etc. I know I wasn't easy to deal either because I started mirroring his PTSD and i have really bad anxiety and depression as well and i have serious jealous issues due to many females come in and out of our marriage. Long story short, we had our ups and many downs. Trust issues, possible infidelity with him flying his "female" friends and buying gifts for them, money issues ($15,000+ he spent in 2 months), on top of that we had our son 4 months ago(hes barely around and stays in his barracks), he always tells me to leave him alone, and has been wanting a divorce. I don't know what to do, I love him unconditionally and i don't want things to be over. I'm giving him his space but its killing me. I still feel like there's still hope. Oh and everytime he throws a divorce at me, he does his research and takes his time but he never follows through with it and he gets mad at me over small stupid things and say I'm always hurting his feelings when I haven't done anything. Sorry so long!