What happened to the funny talkative person i was?
I've always been shy and all but when i met friends who i got along with i was the opposite. . . Im 17 now but i remember when i was 13-14 i was shy but when i was comfortable with someone i was so crazy haha but now im in high school and im not as crazy or funny as i use to be. I've always moved a lot so it hurt when i left middle school to go to a different high school that none of my friends were going to. Middle school was the only place where i stayed all three years without moving away. Anyways I'll stop typing. Thanks for reading.
This one guy he's open, funny n talkative with others but when we where alone together he becomes quiet?
Omg I've got the same problem. I suggest you try drawing it out of him and talk to him. It's possible you make him nervous (apparently that's what I'm doing to this one guy)
Why is he more talkative over the phone than in person?
This is so common you wouldn't even believe. It's normally the nature of the person. I am a much more talkative person over the phone/text than in person, as well as my boyfriend. Maybe he is shy, or just not comfortable with people in person. Confront him about it, and let him know it's okay to be shy and such.
How do I become a talkative person?
Hey! Did you ever ask yourself why do you wanna be talkative?Trust me there is nothing bad about being talkative, there is bad in you don't wanna be yourself. But if that's what you really want, no one's gonna stop you.Being talkative is fun (sometimes, cuz I'm in that category :p)To bw talkative, first and foremost is that you don't care what people think about you because it's your life and you live it (not they). Gather some courage, make friends (who won't judge you a.k.a. real friends) and shoot. Once you have friends you don't need to wait for topics because they keep popping up in your mind.Start reading books, watching movies, enacting your favorite hero, try copying a crazy character, etc. In short, start getting crazy (the good crazy ofcourse)But trust me, being what you are is more fun than wanting to be what others want you to be. Life is too short to care about others. Do what you want, be what you are and enjoy. Don't forget you are special and no one can be you.♡have fun for yourself.
Why are people more talkative online than in person?
less fear of repurcussions. My psychology professor used the example of road rage. People feel they can cuss out and flip off other drivers, because they feel anonymous and safe in their cars. These same people would not dare to do this to someone's face for fear of the way the person would react, however, due to the increasing cases of road rage violence, people are becoming more afraid to do this also. The internet seems to make people feel even more anonymous and safe.
How do I best handle an overly talkative person?
I think there is something seriously wrong with this question. Why do you want to know how to “handle” a talkative person? it's not like having a talkative person around you is some sort of an “emergency" that needs your attention. Just excuse yourself and you won't even have to hold a polite conversation with them.I am a very talkative person and this has been a recurring make or break thing when it comes to all my relationships with people. Some people can handle it and some can't.Its okay to find a talkative person annoying. It is your choice but what is not okay is to make a big deal of it. If it's too much for you then maintain a distance. Talkative people are more sensitive than most of the people in the room. They feel too much and so they think they can explode if they can't share it! Also they happen to be very blunt and honest most of the time. sometimes the truth gets too much for people to handle so they tend to snap. Try to make ensure that that isn't the case before making a big deal about someone being a chatter box!And if you feel like it's too much drama and too much noise and chatter, excuse yourself. Sensitive people do know when they are unwanted. Please don't try to “handle” them. If you like the way a conversation is going, enjoy it.Also,people who think being stuck in a situation with a talkative person can get too much to handle and they can be annoying or a nuisance, let me tell you that right at that moment when you're trying to think of ways to get out of this chatter, the chatter box who finds you equally dull is probably just pulling through because they don't want you to feel too bad and come across as rude.PS- I am sorry if I came across as someone who is too aggressive but I seriously don't understand what is the big deal! If someone talks too much we have a problem. If someone doesn't we have a problem again. What is this incessant need to “handle” situations and people? It makes you sound like a control freak. Find your own kind of people and don't mess with the ones' who irk you. How difficult would that be? Definitely a lot easier than trying to diffuse situations that do not need any diffusing!
People say that I'm very sociable, funny, and talkative but nobody knows that inside I feel lonely, but I feel good being like this on my outside. Am I being hypocritical?
You may be a classic extrovert. You love the company of others and dislike being alone, which is typical of those who have extroverted personalities. And there's nothing hypocritical about a lively, fun-loving extrovert feeling lonely. In fact, many claim that loneliness is part of the human condition. We're all isolated within ourselves in the sense that no one can be anyone else.