Why do people naturally act different around certain people?
Because we care about what people think about us, and because we care differently about different people. Maybe we'll be more outgoing with close people we trust, with people we respect or we don't know, maybe we're afraid to give some unfavorable impression or shy and that's why we are quiet. And there is this thing called "Hypocrisy" because we all have things to hide from some people we don't know but want they to think good about us and maybe be more rude with people we know so much that we don't care about them. Anyway, acting is a way of living. A person needs to survive in this society.
Why do people change?
Good question. I had a sociology class in high school, in my 12th grade year. I have the answer for you. There is many things, issues, and situations, that can cause a person to change. A person can change, for a number of reasons, and in many different ways. Often a person changes, from experiences he/she learns from. All through life, you are going to learn things, from different experiences. These different experiences, can be good or bad. Experiences can teach you, how to deal with certain changes in your life. Learning from different experiences, can change the way a person thinks and feels about something. The way a person thinks, is a huge factor on his/her life, and the factor on the people around that person. The way you act and think, effects people you are around often. If you treat people calmly with respect, they will know you truely know how to treat people the right way. Some people don't care about respect, and they treat others, the way they want to treat them. I am preety sure, that we all have seen people like this. If a person is careless about respect, they soon will learn how to give respect. Then they will change for the good, and take that lesson and think about it for the future. A person can also change, mentally and physically. Good or bad, this can make a difference in the particular person and for the family of that person. For an example, when I was a child, I was very greedy and was very bratty to a lot of people. I was like that for years, until I decided to change my personality. For whatever reason why I wanted to change my personality, I am now a calmer, more polite person. A person can change his/her appearence. Let's say one person goes on through life, not caring what he/she wears and doesn't care about looking sloppy. One time in that person's life, he/she could decide to buy neater looking clothes, and starts to care about looking neater. That person could start dressing neater, and taking more care of what he/she looks like. Later on, that person could be 100% neater looking, then 2 weeks ago. This person just change a physical out-look, on what his/her appearence. This is something other people will see, and this obviously is a change for the good. I gave you some examples, and I hope they explained good enought. See, there's dozens of way a person can change, bad or good.
If you had a chance to either go back in the past and change one thing only about your past or to see your entire future beforehand, which would you choose and why?
I would not choose anything. Let me give my justifications for the same:If I go back to the past and change one thing, then I will not be where I am today. There are regrets, there are mistakes in the past, but I have learnt something from them. It made me stronger, though the lessons were harsh. But that’s okay. Everything happens for a reason. So the option of changing past is ruled out for me. Just learn, Accept and Move on!Seeing my entire future beforehand? That will make my life boring and scary too, because I will be knowing what is going to happen next. And if I come to know the problems I am gonna face in future, before hand, I will stop living this minute and my focus will be shifted on avoiding those problems. My current life might be filled with fear of future. And no, I don’t want that.Life is not about changing past or fearing about future. It is about living this moment to the fullest, accepting the past and letting go of the worries of future.:)
If you could relive your life, what would you do differently?
Turns the time machine onReturns to the 6 year old myselfMe seeing past-me eating mud from the flower potMe: Hey i am you from the future.Past me: Tune kaha aur maine maan liya =_=(How can i believe you give some proof)Me : Your big brother treats you like a servantPast me: Most big brothers do that tell me something more.Me : Ok you were the one who wrote I love you S****i on your brother’s text-book and got him beaten by the teacher.Past me : I believe you my master show me the path to futureMe : So now listen:Your brother gonna tease you by saying that you were brought from a dustbin,but don't cry he is lying.Your mother always gonna hide your videogame cassettes in the box of sugar so find them and be happy.Your first Crush isn't gonna be the hot one everyone drool's about, it's gonna be her bestfriend.Past me : Meri future main girlfrind bani kya?(Did i have a real girlfriend in future?)Me : (=_=)(After two minutes of crying in corner) Jo bol raha hun wo suno. (Just listen to what i am saying)Prepare for your IIT Advance too you lazy sloth.Tell your dad to invest in bitcoins,It's gonna be the next big thing in futureStart uploading videos on YouTube at the age of 16 rather than that of 20.EDIT-: Learn a little coding too idiot you're gonna be a software engineer.
Should the US constitution be interpreted differently based on the times we live in?
1. no 2. yes A 'living' constitution might as well be blank, and offers no protection at all. There is a process for amendment. It needs to be used. Sparingly.
Do you wish you were raised differently?
I always do. I was raised by my stepfather and mom. My stepfather was a piece of crap and there anti social personalities rubbed off on me. I never really voiced my opinions because I was always shut down when I tried. I didn't talk much. I remember being 12 years old and wishing I had a bigger family with loud funny people. Instead I filled the void by smoking weed with potheads and cutting class. When I was 14, I developed an eating disorder. I stopped hanging out with the friends I made because I found pleasure in my eating disorder. Eventually I dropped out of high school, moved out on my own and became a stripper. It was a very lonely life. I'm now 20 years old starting a normal life again. Not stripping anymore and slowly eating normally again after screwing my metabolism royally. but I've been struggling with depression for the past year. Now I've enrolled into college and am currently taking a psychology class where I'm learning so much about why I'm so quiet. It's the way I was raised and my experiences. My professor mentioned the way we are genetically built and the environment we were raised in makes is who we are. I'm the pretty girl that looks confident from a distance but can't hold a conversation to save her life, I notice myself fidgety and awkward in class. And it feels weird making eye contact with people when I actually manage to speak a few words. I hate my low voice and wish I didn't have such a limited vocabulary when speaking. I feel like I sound stupid and insecure. I want to kill myself sometimes because it seems irreversible. It's taken me 25 minutes to write this short paragraph. Haha. I'm so slow.