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What Hould I Do About My Second Cousin

What should my second cousin call me?

There are a couple of ways of dong the relative thing. One is rather complicated and the other is rather simple. The simple one works like this. Children of your parents siblings are first cousins. Children of your parents' first cousins are your second cousins. Children of your parents' second cousins are your third cousins. Your parents' first cousins are your first cousins once removed. A generation before you or after you is considered removed.
Look up http://genealogy.about.com/library/nrela... for a chart of relationships and if you can figure it out, you're doing pretty good.

I think I like my second cousin..?

i think i like my second cousin(my dad's cousin's son) and no one knows about it.. (i hope) Well.. I don't know why but when I saw him, I got nervous and had butterflies. I only see him about once or twice a year. Usually when I see him.. It just feels like a reunion with a cousin but now it feels seems different. We don't have much a conversation.it's always awkward when we're alone or even just next to each other. Everytime we bump into each other we either giggle or smile. (is that a sign that maybe he feels the same way??Nahhh..•///////•) and during this time, my OTHER cousin(my dad's nephew) was getting married and my second cousin was dancing. This other girl,who I know seemed to have a thing for him, came up to him and talked for only a few seconds.. And I sort of felt jealous.
And another question is: should I tell my mom about this? Cuz I really need my mom's advice on this kind of situation plus I've never came to her for advice..

Im in love with my second cousin?

ok im in love with my second cousin...we get alog great and he told me he likes me and i told him i like him too...i did some research and in the state of ohio dating or marrying your second cousin is allowed...just not any closer to you than that...we want to be together but we're waiting until we get out of school so we can be together freely...my question is ..how are we supposed to tell the rest f the family?

What would your cousin's husband be, to you? Second cousin?

Your cousin's husband would be your cousin's husband, your cousin's son is your 2nd cousin.

My second cousin is flirting with me what should i do ?

That's not appropriate at all... Dont ever allow yourselves to be alone together. My boyfriend and I have a 12 year age gap, so I'm not one to judge about that, but it's different when you're still a minor. 15 is still wayyy too yound, and 25 SHOULD be wayyy too mature for a 15 year old. If it's not, and he's trying to pursue you, there is something wrong with HIM. Maybe tell an adult you don't want to be in a position where you're left alone with him. You don't have to make a big deal about it, but keep yourself safe, and out of any confusing situations. Blow off any comments he might make that make you feel he is flirting with you.
I had an issue like this wha I was 13, my cousin was like 19 I think. He would always fallow me around, be in my personal space. One night when we were all spending the night at my grandparents, they caught him in the middle of the night going upstairs to my room (there's nothing else up there that would give him a reason to go up there).
I know you're really young, and it may be flattering for such an older guy to potencially like you. But please don't let him take advantage of you. He is still a cousin. And again, if a 25 year old is trying to get with a 15 year old, there is something wrong with that 25 year old, cause that's not normal behavior at that age.

What exactly is a second cousin?

The table below should make it clear.  Start with the "Person" on the left.  That's you.  Go horizontally to the right.  Those are your siblings and cousins, the relatives who are in your own generation.  Your second cousins are three columns over.  Three ways to understand it:You and your second cousins have the same great grandparents, but not the same grandparents.One of your grandparents was a sibling of one of their grandparents.One of your parents and one of their parents are first cousins.There are six degrees of consanguinity (blood separation) between you and them.The key to understanding the English cousin system is that the ordinal ("first," "second," "third," and so on) indicates how many generations back you have to go beyond your parents to get to a common ancestor with your cousins.First cousin equals "one G" = Grandparents in common. Second cousin = "two Gs" = Great-Grandparents in common. Third cousin equals "three Gs" = Great-Great-Grandparents.And the number of "removeds" indicates how many differences there are in the rows, which is the difference in the number of generations down from the common ancestor to you and your cousin.

Is it wrong to be in love with your second cousin?

For those who aren’t clear, second cousins (also called “kissing cousins”) are far enough apart in the family that they could marry. Their grandparents are siblings.As far as the “serious relationship” goes, I have no idea what you mean. You don’t mention your age, and that would be part of figuring out if it’s serious. If you both aren’t ready to set up your own household, you aren’t eligible, and therefore you’re not serious. If nobody knows you have a “relationship”, I doubt it’s serious.Sleeping together doesn’t mean you have a serious relationship, or even a relationship, unless the two of you have discussed and agreed that you are planning to marry and have a bunch of kids together. Sometimes people are sleeping together and one of them thinks they have a serious relationship and the other thinks it’s a friends with benefits situation. You can’t assume anything.

Is marrying your second cousin ok?

It depends.If your grandfather is your maternal grandfather , your grandfather’s brother’s son will be your mom’s brother and you can marry his daughter :)If it is your paternal grandfather then his brother’s son will be your dad’s brother too and dad’s brother’s daughter will be your sister :(

What should I do to help if my future second cousin might have autism?

That is so kind of you to be thinking ahead about this person who is to come into your life! Some people have assumed that it’s a baby yet to be born, but I’m wondering if instead there is a new relationship so that someone’s child is now going to be part of your family.In any case, the best thing you can do is to get educated about autism. You can do a search on amazon for books or, better still, go to a local library and talk to a librarian about what you want to learn. Librarians know how to find information just for you better than just about anyone. They might also find local meetings where you can talk with people who have family members who are autistic. There��s nothing like talking with other people who are in the same situation!If you know the gender of your future second cousin, be sure to search for information specific to that gender. Girls and women often express and experience autism differently, to a greater or lesser degree, than boys and men. Additionally, a good number of people on the autism spectrum are also on the gender spectrum somewhere, so if that person (assuming they’re already born) seems to be non-binary (some aspects are feminine and some aspects are masculine, or they’re transgender) then you’ll want to respect that fact.The best thing you can do is get to know this person, asking questions about what they like, what is problematic for them, etc. If they don’t feel like talking, just respect that. If they’re having a hard time making eye contact, it doesn’t necessarily mean they’re not engaged with you in the conversation. Some people need to be quiet and pretty much alone if the environments they’re usually in are overwhelming, such as too much noise, too much light, too many distractions or too many social interactions. You can always just ask, “Is it uncomfortable for you to ___?” for instance, “talk for a long time”, or “sit where there are fluorescent lights” etc. Conversely, you can ask, “Where are you most comfortable?” “What is the most comfortable way for you to communicate with another person?” For many, the answer might be “through text” or “online” etc.See if you can find any interests that you have in common. For many people on the autism spectrum, having someone listen to the details of what they’re passionately interested in is very satisfying and feels very friendly. Mostly, just listening with an open mind and respecting what they say is the best way to go.

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