What happens if you don't change your car brakes?
Not changing the brakes leads to a more expensive brake job, your car will need more parts and more labour. They're already making that noise, you have more expense now. More Importantly you are asking them to fail. Loosing brakes can be very scary.
What should I do when my efforts go waste?
Restart. Just because there is a flood doesn't mean farmers stop planting next year. When efforts fail, you have to approach the failure from dissection angle and learn to spend the efforts where you're likely to find better results. It's easy to write than do. I can tell you from personal experience that it takes a lot of surrounding to put your best effort into something productive next time if you are depressed with the failure of previous task. Nature rewards persistence. If you want to see this in action. Keep feeding few birds everyday and see how they see you friendly over a few months time. Keep smiling towards people around you, no matter how good or bad faces they make, see the good things that comes to you next time. My approach: When I fail at something where I give 100% efforts, I change the direction (you can say I quit) and move onto something that works to keep my foundation intact and from there I start to rebuild and then aggressively approach for better results. I failed twice in life before I hit 30s just because I failed to keep the momentum. Only after failing twice I learned that I should always keep working and never let success get in head and also not to get disappointed with failure upto the point of depression. I'm in rebuilding phase from 0$ third time in my life. I don't know what is in store for me in life but I have made myself strong enough not to let the world hit me in same place twice. I can't tell you what'll work for you. You have to find what works for you and not even your parents or wife or any friend can do that for you. Whatever you do, fail progressively and not recursively in same problems.
Can I change my zodiac sign through effort?
There are three points to consider here: 1. An often-quoted statement among astrologers is: "The stars impel, they do not compel". In other words, your chart (including your Sun-sign, Pisces) is an influence, not a controller of who you are. 2. Every sign has both good and bad sides to it ... you can bring out what you choose to bring out, and you can learn to set aside that which you don't want 3. In my experience (40 years of astrological studying and counseling), the more a person is aware of themselves and exercises choice in their life, the less-well their chart defines them. Conversely, the more they blumble along, being blown this way and that by their feelings and by what happens to them ... the MORE their chart defines them. There is still value in astrology ... it helps you become more aware of yourself, and therefore increases your options for choice. However, Sun-sign astrology is rather useless for this ... I'm talking about individual birth charts done for birthdate, time, location.
What happens if i don't change my rotors when i change my brakes?
First of all, a lot of newer cars have rotors that are so thin when new, that just using them normally through one set of brake pads will make them too thin to legally turn. And if you use them again through the life of another set of pads could be very dangerous. If you don't get new ones or have them turned, the brake pads won't seat properly. Same if you wait until later to replace the rotors. You should always replace or turn the rotors when you replace the pads, or they will never work as good as they're supposed to. Most places charge about $15 to turn rotors, and then there's the wait for them to be done, and the trip to the machine shop. I did the brakes on a Toyota a while back, where new ones only cost $12!
What happens if you don't change your pad or your underwear?
Potentially bad odour and vaginal infections. If she uses disposable menstrual pads especially there is higher risk of odour and infection as they prevent air-flow so make the area sweaty and prevent blood from drying, also commercial pads contain chemicals that interact with vaginal fluids so can cause odour and interfere with vaginal pH that would also increase growth of harmful bacteria. Cloth pads are far more hygienic than disposable pads (plus far cheaper if cost is an issue for her), but like underwear even they have to be changed often to stay hygienic - wearing pads or underwear for days or even weeks is very unhygienic.
How can we change destiny?
There is only one fate. There is only one reality. That is where we live in. So there is no change in that. But you can try to change the way it flows to what you think is advantageous for you at that time. For e.g you can cross the road when the green signal is On in a hurry as you might miss the bus on the other side of the road, with little luck of getting driven over by a truck. If you wait till the signal changes to Red for a minute, then your fate will be forever be changed by that one minute. As you waited for the signal, you would have missed the bus and in turn missed something good for you which you could have gained if you were on time. May be, missing that opportunity made you realise that it was not your thing and you would rediscover yourself to samethings even more beneficial for you. Who knows ! If Hitler was not bullied around in a Jewish neighbourhood when he was a kid, he would have grown up to be a writer or a painter !Fate is a philosophical element created by human beings to explain stuff they can't logically, even though there might be a logical explanation to it. We often wonder " if I did that then, I woildnhave been that". There is no alternate reality. The real one is where we live in. Nothing known to human beings can change that. Our present state of being has lot to do with our choises in the last even in the ways unknown to us. We can't see the big picture. We just have to believe that all is well and everything that happened, that is happening and that is going to happen are for the greater good. Having said that, don't sit back and put everything on fate to work magic. Keep trying to change your fate.
HE MAKES NO EFFORT TO SEE ME?
My boyfriend and I have been dating for over 4 years. We're in our late 20s. For the last year or so, he has made little to no effort to see me. Or rather, he asks me to hang out, but always on his schedule, and never tries to fit me into his schedule. I may get one weekend a month, and he goes off with his friends the other weekends, but I'll still see him 2-3 times during the week (that's sleepovers.) Last I saw him was Thursday morning, he had stayed over on Wednesday. I did not see him at all over the weekend, and I even invited him over for dinner on Sunday, which he declined. I did not hear from him at all Sunday, or yesterday, and just now he asked me if I wanted to see a movie on Thursday. I was kind of annoyed that I wouldn't get to see him this weekend again, so I told him I was busy until Friday. I said if he didn't have time this weekend, we would see it next week. All he responded with was "Bummer. How's work?" wtf??? Nothing about rescheduling, nothing about seeing if he can even fit me into a Sunday movie....just nothing. I'm so sick of it. Am I overreacting? I haven't responded, and honestly....I just don't want to. But I feel like he won't get the hint if I just ignore him, that maybe I just need to say something to him. I don't know. I'm just really upset that I always have to be available when he wants, but he can't ever change his schedule to see me. I'm not saying all the time, but occasionally I just want him to WANT to see me more.
Why am I unable to put in the effort and hard work needed to achieve my goals?
There are usually one of two reasons.1) You are afraid to fail. Perhaps you've been helicopter parented. You were told you were smart. You were able to achieve without much effort. Now, you're entering adult life, and it's not like that. There are tons of other people as smart, or smarter than you. So instead of trying and failing, something you haven't done in the past, you don't try. Because if you never try, you never have to fail.2) You have no reason to try, you have everything provided for you You have everything you need. There is no reason to stretch. If you had no food in the house, no money in the bank, and a child or two to feed, and no mommy and daddy to fall back on, you'd be out there getting something together. Because if you didn't, you'd all starve. You'd be doing whatever you could to make it better for yourself and your children.
I don't put 100% into everything I do. How can I change my mindset and work ethic?
Ask yourself this simple question..‘Do i want to be mediocre, and not fulfil my potential?’If the answer is Yes then you need to have a look at yourself and evaluate what you want from yourself, and why you asked this question in the first place.If the answer is No then congratulations! You can change your work ethic and mindset!Fear for me is the ultimate motivator. I personally am scared of being mediocre, and its harrows me the thought of not fulfilling my potential. For example this April I am racing an ultra marathon event in the Sahara Desert called the Marathon Des Sables, which is 6 marathons in 6 days, and is with out doubt the hardest event ive ever undertaken. Now everyday im training I am not thinking of crossing the finish line. I am thinking of what it would mean to me to FAIL. The thought of coming home to friends and family and telling them ‘I couldn’t do it’.So with that in mind it pushes me to run harder and further, it pushes me to get up at 5am every morning to train, it pushes me to say no to nights out drinking. It pushes me to put 100% maximum effort in.With that, I have a clear goal to finish the Marathon Des Sables, and this is what you need, goals. Without having a goal to work toward, whatever it may be you will be unable to laser focus your mindset and work ethic. So ask yourself what do I want to achieve? Because everything you do will impact what you *want* to do. You are the sum of all the efforts you put in.Nothing worth doing comes easy, but remember if you master your mind set and work ethic then there will be some shocking changes to your life.P.S read up about ‘Growth and Fixed’ mindsets