What does being a "nice guy" mean to you?
A nice guy is a man who is:Selfless: They like to serve others or do random acts of kindness for no reasonKind: They are polite and nice to people they know and dont knowTrustworthy: they can be trusted with secrets, money, and powerLoyal: they can be counted on and will stay with you no matter whatUn-Corrupt: They do not cheat or abuse power/money.The idea that nice guys finish last is caused because nice guys do not cheat to get ahead and thus stay behind. They do not jump ship when it was sinking and sometimes drown because they were loyal. They did not get rich because they focused on others rather than themselves, which tends to be less profitable.As a nice guy, you can get a lot out of life. Your fighting an uphill battle against other people who have more options and means of getting ahead. Keep up the fight to be a nice guy and you might find that you get a few things that the people who are not so nice miss out on.TrustRespectMercySelf-worthLoveJust to name a few…
I am DONE being a nice guy!?
I've had it up to here with chicks and decided I am DONE with being a nice guy. Women don't WANT nice guys, they want a$$ holes, and so thats what i'm going to be. Why do I have to waste my time and life trying to get girls who claim they want nice guys and end up dating a$$ holes instead? Sure, they will say i'm sweet, funny, and all that jazz, but in the end, your only a friend and nothing more. No disrespect to the real women, but not to the shallow ones who are fake. You girls who moan all the time about wanting a real man and then go get a kid with a guy you have no future with can go stuff yourselves. I'm done wasting my time and energy on shallow girls and decided i'm going to be a a$$ hole and just speak my mind. I mean dam, some of you girls run around like your all that and a bag of chips when your not. Some of you should be even happy we give you attention. Either way, I don't care what you think of me anymore, if your just that shallow then thats what you are, i'm moving on with my life. For all the fella's that agree, give a shout out.
Who is a "nice guy"?
A “nice guy” is someone that will start being really nice to some girl or guy, proceed to ask them out or make flirty comments, and does a 180 when they get rejected.It's happened to me before, this guy kept texting me nonstop just telling me little tidbits about what he was doing--- CONSTANTLY. It was really annoying so at one point, I just stopped replying.Again, he was really nice at first, so I didn't expect him to be extremely rude when I wrote a rejection paragraph to him.Here's a photo of the aggressive part he sent me in case you can't see:I can only imagine how things would have turned out if I had gotten into a relationship with him. What would he have done if I broke up with him?
Why does being a nice guy get you nowhere?
I'm 35 love romance know whats important in a relationship communication, friendship, romance,trust like kids etc... and am very open about who i am and what i am looking for in a relationship. However, i seem to always get that...."your such a sweet nice guy but".... I am happy with myself just wanting what we all of us want a relationship that makes you feel like you wouldnt know what to do if that significant other wasnt in your life. Feedback anyone.......
For the girls...bad boys or nice guys???
In a guys world the old saying goes "There are girls you "Do" and there are girls you "I Do". How is it in a woman's world? Would you rather have a bad boy to date but not marry??...or a nice guy to date and marry?? ...or a bad boy to date and a nice guy to marry...?? I never got the whole bad boy thing. I know when I dating, if I treated a girl nice, I never real got that far but I blew off her like trash, she was calling me 10 times a day. So what's the deal ladies?? How should guys REALLY play the game???
When did being a "nice guy" become a bad thing?
I was at a McDonald’s the other day waiting for my order when I notice two men standing at the pick-up counter talking to the manager. She was very pretty. She was also very busy, flustered and stressed. She looked like she was just trying to get through the day. One of the guys starts talking to her, complimenting her, making pleasant attempts to start conversation. She gave a few cursory answers with a forced smile as not to be rude, but she clearly wasn’t interested in, nor did she have time for, a conversation.The man turned to his friend and said “I don’t get it man, I’m just being nice to her, why is she being such a bitch?”That’s the problem with nice guys in a nutshell. You don’t get to decide if you’re nice. Almost every self-proclaimed nice guy I’ve ever met was using niceness as some sort of barter system, where they feel they are owed something in return. And when they don’t get that thing, things get ugly, very quickly.Nice guys often complain about being friend-zoned. But the reality is they’ve girlfriend-zoned the woman first, they’ve pressured her to play into some fantasy she doesn’t want to be a part of. Unequivocally, the “bad boys” she winds up with are people who give her space, letting her be her own autonomous person; this is often wrongfully perceived as a lack of care and respect for her.
Why are girls REALLY mean to nice guys?
Here it is.. Nice guys generally ARE more sensitive and caring.. Thus creating a vulnerability gap... And rude girls who haven't had nice gys cannot handle it.. They tend to want to be in the 1-up position.. It is the classic way for one to gain control over the relationship.. They wanna gain control so they can keep those good guys strapped down.. Lemme put it this way.. The game is "bad is better" and when a girl meets a bad guy he generally has been around the block so HE begins in the 1-up position. He knows all the crap that girls could do and he manipulates more.. After this the. Girl who is beginning her next relationship will reciprocate this same sort of game+playing personality toward her next "opponent" in a way guys and girls aleays feel that this is how "REAL" relationships go.. The cycle starts by someone getting hurt and wanting to never get hurt again... The cycle ens when someone gets fed up and grows up. They realize this is not how relationships should be.
Why do you think nice guys finish last?
I LOVE nice guys. I don't care whether or not they finish last, that doesn't matter. I hate guys who are arrogant and jerks, even if they're super rich and good looking. Their attitude isn't attractive in the least bit. I think nice guys finish last because the assholes plow them over in the competition and cheat the nice guys. It's better to be nice though.