What questions should I ask a young woman before an arranged marriage to make sure she is the right one for me based on a couple of short discussions? I am in the USA, and my parents are looking for a young woman in India.
If you are meeting for the very first time then you should be little prepared, not in the sense of that you are giving an exam or should be ready with all questions of the paper. Be just you and should not pretend in front of that girl. It is not the matter of a day or so or you will change your mind after two years or three years and marry again. That’s not the case in India at least, therefore, try to ask all things or try to know all things which you want to know from your prospective partner. Here are some questions or things, which you can consider while meeting someone for the first time:First of all, make her feel comfortable and start conversation with simple questions like did she find it difficult to reach here? At what time she started? What she would like to have, etc.? Then once she is comfortable with you then you can start some serious conversation.What encouraged/excites her to meet you?Is she willing to marry you?Is she taking this decision happily or under family pressure?Does she want to work after marriage?Is she comfortable moving out of station if situation comes?Is she willing to stay with family after marriage or want to stay separately?Is she comfortable or manage the situation if one of you will be jobless in future?If you will plan to start something of your own then will she accept that?Does she want to pursue higher studies or any professional programme after marriage?Is she really keen to start a family just after marriage or she wants to wait for some years?What are her hobbies?What is her career or professional goals?What kind of financial support she require after marriage?Is she OK if at times you will be travelling out of station or country for some time because of your job?What are her expectations from you as husband?Is she believer or non-believer of God?What is her favorite food or cuisine?Is she a traveler or loves adventure sports?All these things/questions will help you to understand her personally and her views towards this relationship.
What is the secret to a lifelong successful marriage?
You don't marry the person you can live with - you marry the person you can't live without. Compatibility. It's just that simple. You have to have the same mindset, want the same things out of life, and agree on most (not all) subjects. Yes, opposites attract, but they rarely stay together. Never marry someone hoping to change them. Change only ever works when the person WANTS to change. Forcing it on them makes them miserable, and it will eventually make you miserable as well. You can't live with a miserable person and be happy yourself. It is simply impossible. The key is to wait for the right person to come along. Be patient and don't disregard someone because they aren't rich enough, educated enough, tall enough, thin enough, etc. Look at what's on the inside. THAT is what lasts a lifetime. Looks fade, thin people get fat, fortunes can be lost, etc. If you have someone who shares your soul, it's much easier to get through the hard times - and there are ALWAYS hard times in everyone's life (yes, even the rich and beautiful). .
Name of wrestling movie???
I am looking for the name of a wrestling movie about a kid who has to lose a lot of weight in 3 weeks. The movie is at least a few years old. Thanks for your help!!!