My husband is in the military and is cheating on me with another military personnel. What will happen to him if I report it to the military?
I understand you are angry and want to hurt him like he’s hurt you. That’s a normal response to find out something like this. Please, take a breath and think before you act. Destroying a person’s career is a shitty thing to do and will almost certainly destroy any chance of your working this out. Potentially you could be destroying his mistresses career too, and I’m sure you feel she is the evil queen, but the blame doesn’t rest on her shoulders.I can tell you from experience that if he’s cheating, your relationship is in all likelihood either in deep trouble, or may be over.Is this happening right under your nose or has he been deployed to some hell-hole for the last 6 months? If it’s the later, you should know it is not uncommon for a person to love his spouse, but get so lonely that he/she doesn’t exercise the best judgement. If this is the case, you may be able to fix things as long as you don’t make things any worse.Now from the military side of things, it really depends on his rank and position. A officer will likely be asked to resign. On the enlisted side, if you don’t make a bunch of noise, no one really cares (at least in the Air-Force.)Not that money should matter, but in the real world it does. Screwing him over can screw you and your dependents out of a portion of his pension. I forget the number of years you have to be married (maybe 10?) but if you have been married that long, you will get a paycheck for life if you divorce. I’ve never looked deeply into it, but you may also be able to retain your medical/dental insurance. You’ll have to ask someone else about that.But you won’t get a nickle if he doesn’t get to retire.
Can i go to jail for cheating on my military husband?
Its not against human law, just moral law. the Jail will be within you.
What can happen to a military wife if she cheats on her active duty husband?
Same thing as other married people. He can take you to court, you will lose. You wont be entitled to marriage benefits, housing, and other perks military or otherwise specified by marriage law. If your unhappy its best to ask for a divorce/seperation. Dont get caught cheating. 90% of cheaters get caught either in the act or second hand knowledge.
What happens if a active duty military spouse is cheating?
It all depends on the circumstance and what you want to happen to him. Have you thought through this thoroughly? His command will play a vital role is the outcome. Also, the amount of evidence that you have against him because he will probably deny it to the grave and she will too, I mean look, she's having an affair with a married man with children. There isn't much they can do to him if they do charge him besides take rank and that will only hurt the outcome of what they give to you and your children. If I were you, just let him know that you know and let that be the grounds for divorce unless you feel as if you can work through your marriage. You have two children together and if this was just a one time occurrence and counseling can be of assistance, then possibly contact the chaplain, they can work wonders. Or a referral to an off-base marriage counselor may help too. Talk to his 1st Sgt or his commander, I don't know his rank but talk to whomever is above him and maybe they can intervene in some way. Protect yourself and your children first and foremost.
I am scared, my husband wants to join the military?
well honey let me tell you t his, he will not get a job in the military that he won't deploy or have a 9-5 job, i have been an AF wife for 5 years now (i'll be 26 in June) and i was dating my husband when he told me he want to join, i cried, i begged him not go, ( i was in a previous relationship with a guy in the army and he changed after he joined) i thought the same thing was going to happen with my husband (then boyfriend), he basically said i will undersand if you don't want to be with me anymore but i would love it if you would, well i was already in love with him and it would have been selfish for me not to let him follow his dreams, this is something he always wanted to do and i would follow him to the ends of the earth to be with him, i didn't know anything about military life, the Air Force is the most civilian like service, but they still do deploy, not for a year like the army but from 2-6 months at a time, you get great benefits, many companies have military discounts, you become very independent, the deployments do not get easier but they do get more manageable, i don't have kids yet but their is SO much support on the military bases from other wives who know exactly what you are going through, and your wrong, your husband is going to miss you and his babies as much as you would, he won't want to be away from you guys, but their is a good thing about being in a military marriage, you appreciate each other way more then civilian couples, i know i was one! and when my husband gets deployed and i pick him up from the base when he gets home, i get butterflies in my stomach when i see him coming off the plane and its like falling in love with him all over again, they do make descent money, and we he gets deployed he will bring home extra money, don't live paycheck to paycheck like you are doing, the military is not as bad as you think, you get to shop at the commissary (base grocery store) where everything is much cheaper and you don't pay sales tax on items! when you live on base you don't pay rent or utilities! you will probably travel to more countries then most people do in their lifetime, if you have any more questions my e-mail is jesirhoton@yahoo.com, good luck hon, don't worry, its an adventure you'll never forget and if you don't want to do it after 4 years you can get out and your husband will have military experience on his resume which is what employers LOVE!
My husband wants to go awol what will happen?
Dont listen to those stupid people they are only trying to scare you. If your husband goes awol nothing will happen. He will get paid for ninety days wile gone from active duty. The army has so much on its plate they dont have time to come knoc on peoples door. I went awol in 2002 and nothing has happen. I stated listing to all the people talk so I got scared and turned my self in 2004 all that happen was I was reinstated to active duity for 6 months then I was give a general discharge with less than honorable conditions. I'm now a cop for the L.A.P.D so go figger